Yesterday was a new Moon 🌚 in Scorpio ♏ and what does Scorpio ♏ embody? Scorpio is mysterious and the opposite of shallow. Every Scorpio I’ve ever met values intensity with al their connections whether they are family, friends or lovers.
Scorpio ♏ seeks out intensity, drama, heightened spiritual exploration. If you have a good Scorpio friend or lover in your circle you understand their desire for meaningful communication not just a sexual encounter. Scorpios ♏ crave depth and they want to understand every part of you and be more than just a friend but a very important part of your Spiritual growth and your empowerment.
In honor of our New Moon in Scorpio ♏ I created a very special vessel of New Moon Water 💧 and you still have time to do this for yourself tonight and tomorrow as the New Moon waxes. Get yourself a glass jar with a lid and fill your jar with purified water 💧 and one or more crystals 🔮 like clear quartz or rose quartz. Add a pinch of Himalayan salt 🧂 or seasalt. Serenade your water with lovely sounds and place your jar on your balcony or by a window to absorb the energy of tonight’s New Moon. Make sure to bring your water inside before sun rise and drink a little bit of it daily. For more ideas 💡 please consider subscribing to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and I post a full video of how to manifest using moon water.
Now how should we fulfill our desires on this New Moon? Focus on your dark side. Try to understand every aspect of your personality even the parts that embarass you or cause you to feel pain. Honor your dark aspects and understand exactly what you wish to attract to you. Wishing and manifestation takes patience and faith.
Try activities that will boost your self esteem and try to heal your sexual energy by strengthening your Kundalini Shakti.
My wish this new moon is attract some new serious students of tantra who want to spend hours exploring their power. When my guests heal I heal. When you breathe I breathe with you. Tantra is mutually beneficial. It is a sustainable power loop where we connect to one another’s energies. You will feel energized, empowered and seen for who you are.
Please visit my primary website for a list of ceremonies.
I am always available for paid coffee consultations and phone consultations in case you have questions and concerns about tantra, reiki, breathwork and sound healing.
If you are a couple here in The suburbs like Long Grove, Illinois, Barrington, Rosemont and downtown Arlington heights I will be happy to introduce the two of you to basic beginning level tantra ceremonies to a full day of Advanced teachings. I also travel and accommodate my clients who live in city of Chicago.
Call me directly to book a full or half day of healing 312 339 7707
Best advice i can offer everyone here is most people don’t like being told what to do
and if you genuinely care for your friend and you truly don’t want them to be hurt again or date the wrong person you naturally want to warn them
The problem with being honest though is most people don’t like for you to meddle and they might resent you for being too bossy and will eventually leave you and your advice in the dust
just listen most people need a sounding board and don’t get too wrapped up in other people’s karma
we all have karma some of us need to just let karma unfold and that’s actually how we learn and grow
communication #selfcare #advice
If you love giving advice ♥ But then you’re rewarded with coldness or silence from your friend After doling out your heartfelt advice But it wasn’t welcomed advice and you lose your friendship 😕 Well I guess just listen 🎶 and Don’t judge Don’t say “I TOLD YOU SO”
sometimes the best lesson is the ones we learn by ourselves
Don’t interfere in your friend’s Karma. Someone may not be emotionally ready to give up a toxic relationship or habit. Sometimes people need to repeat the same mistakes till they realize a belief system or a person no longer makes sense.
If you need help moving forward in life but you currently feel stuck reach out to me! I offer a variety of healing modalities that help you move through self doubt or problematic self defeating behaviors.
Please take a look at my website for options http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to book a phone consultation or schedule your first journey into tantra
Hey all you suburbanites; in case you aren’t in the loop I am visiting Arlington Heights, Illinois and offering my playful and blissful tantra ceremonies in both downtown Chicago and all the suburbs surrounding Arlington heights including O’hare airport.
I think you might appreciate my unique approach to tantra massage which is filled with live singing bowl music, breathwork coaching, reiki, cuddle therapy, trigger point massage, Goddess Worship, prostate massage, yoni healing and lingam honoring.
If you love an unrushed ceremony that can last anywhere from 90 minutes to a full day please call me soon to reserve your space to heal, learn and hopefully leave feeling refreshed.
Here’s my primary tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so take your time reading it, pick something you might love and call me directly to either ask me a few questions or schedule your first tantra ceremony.
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
3312 339 7707
Couples don’t be afraid to try something new! You can even meet me for a paid coffee ☕ consultation and ask me an hours worth of questions just to make sure you are completely comfortable. If you book your session within 48 hours of the coffee meet up you may use the $100 fee as a deposit towards your couples massage session.
It’s very hard for caretakers to set aside time for themselves to simply relax.
I’ve worked with clients who are unstoppable. They focus solely on work obligations, sick family members and they overextend themselves to the point where they feel guilty relaxing.
Some of my clients leave their cellphones on and actively read incoming text messages just in case of a family or business emergency. They never fully shut their minds off not even to experience a mindful massage ceremony fully. Of course this isn’t recommended nor is it good for your central nervous system.
Eventually though their bodies are so run down that they become physically sick and they end up taking time out without wanting to but at this point they have no choice.
Did I mention that stress ages you prematurely? By denying yourself moments of stillness and complete rest your body’s cells don’t have an opportunity to rejuvenate. You will find that your skin looks dull and your body will start producing cortisol which leads to inflammation, bloating, weight gain and sleep disruptions.
You matter! You deserve moments of nurturing and your mind needs to rest not just your physical body.
My sessions are ceremonies I use musical instruments like tuning forks and singing bowls 🥣 to help you drift off and silence the thoughts within your mind
Reach out to me if you would love to experience an authentic #tantra ceremony ✨ that will engage all your senses and leave you feeling refreshed, grounded and nurtured
Explore all my options ✨My sessions can be purely non sensual in nature where you can relax, close your eyes and experience a soothing cranial sacral massage mixed with reflexology of the hands and feet followed up with singing bowl music.
You can book me for a full day of tantra which will include a bathing ritual, edge play, deep tissue massage and sensual touch. No matter what route you wish to choose I will encourage you to be fully in the present as we co create sacred space.
If you feel inspired reach out to me directly 312 339 7707 and or email me here
You know yourself better than anyone and if you keep doing things to please others; but it goes against your comfort zone you can and will make yourself psychically and physically ill.
When we only act to please others we can stress our bodies out and I guarantee you your spirit will be broken and you will feel energetically drained until you’re all tapped out.
Not being honored for your boundaries and belief systems can lead to self neglect and depression. Being with someone you no longer like or love 💔 will wear down on your psyche.
Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to walk away from toxic environs and people who refuse to listen 🎶 to what we have to say.
Self love ❤️ and self care is a byproduct of receiving ✨️ a #reiki healing ✨️ or a good massage or a #tantra ceremony
If you choose to schedule a #chicagotantra ceremony with me you will receive nurturing, intuitive bodywork, holistic ##breathwork#soundhealing reflexology #reiki#cuddletherapy and the opportunity to activate your #kundalini
I am here for you ❤
To me connection is everything ❤️ If you call me but I personally don’t feel a heart connection with you based off your voice vibrations I might suggest someone else for you to work with.
I am extremely intuitive and Empathic by nature and my services will appeal to highly sensitive people seeking a real connection and sense of community.
Email 📧 me at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com butterflyshadows@aol.com
let me know more about who you are and why you are excited to try tantra
We aren’t the same people we were 20 years ago. We evolve and we understand more about ourselves and what we need. Sometimes when people begin a romantic relationship with a partner early in life they find out their needs change with age, experience and self wisdom. However just because we become more emotionally mature and independent; it doesn’t mean our partners grow with us. Sometimes our partners have a completely different belief system and there’s nothing in common between the two of you anymore. One partner might still remain devoted and completely in love; but the other person grows away 💔 and needs more out of the relationship so the two grow apart. If you’ve grown out of certain behavioral patterns or limiting beliefs never be afraid to engage in alternative healing paths. Suggest tantra workshops and tantra sessions to your partner just as a means to draw your bond closer. However if you’ve tried your very best to express your needs and goals and your partner is resistant to change or the newer version of who you are then it’s time for you to create healthy boundaries or move on from the relationship so you can continue to grow as a person.
Call me directly at (312) 339-7707 for a free 15 phone 📱 conversation or book me this week for a paid coffee ☕ consultation or full hour phone consultation.
You will find detailed information about my tantra ceremonies here:
If you loved our time together ❤ and want to receive a discount off our future Chicago Tantra ceremony simply write me a thoughtful review. Your review doesn’t have to be a novel in length or graphic in nature. I’m always in need of new reviews for my website and you are welcome to use whatever alias suits you. You will receive a $50 credit off any future tantra ceremony of any length or if you prefer extra time added onto any session.
This weekend I worked on three special guests. Each person came to me without any prior knowledge of tantra or alternative healing. I used a combination of my knowledge of breathwork, aromatherapy, holistic bodywork, chakra balancing and kundalini full body activation. It’s always satisfying to me when each person reacts so positively to the energie. Your body intuitively knows what to do with your stored sexual energy and you will receive a feeling of intense heat wherever you needed the healing the most.
Here’s a copy of the lovely review I received most recently. I’m including a link to my main website so you can read more testimonials from current and former clients of mine
I rarely write reviews but I feel Diana genuinely deserves to have one written for her and so here I am on a Sunday evening trying to share my very personal and intimate session I shared with her this past weekend.
What prompted me to seek out a tantra session was a combination of genuine curiosity, a little extra spare time and a lot of grief.
A good friend of mine lost a battle with cancer and I spent many hours supporting him emotionally and taking care of his family’s needs these past few months.
I was having trouble sleeping and found myself thinking too much so I went through Diana’s website last week because I was planning a trip to Chicago. I emailed her and received a response within the hour and when she called me back she gave me a few suggestions and so I wanted her to visit me since I had rented a beautiful airbnb in River North and didn’t feel like leaving my space.
Diana has a lovely touch and she is clearly knowledgeable and enthusiastic about her craft. We had a great chemistry between us and I ended up extending our two session into three hours just because I didn’t want our time together to come to an end.
If you’re low on energy or find yourself depleted Diana’s touch will be just what you need.
Marvin from Dekalb…
So there you go! I truly hope you will choose me as your future tantra muse and guide. I take great pride in my work and this is my only passion in life. I put all my focus and attention on the co creation of sacred space ✨ because I love making people feel good!
Fancy a session with me? Well please tell me more about you! Please include your full legal name and occupation and one or two links to your social media account(s). Even if you’re retired or in between jobs, or a student enrolled in College. Be sure to share two important goals you have for our time together even if it’s just to engage in play or have a soothing and relaxing time together.
Your reasons for wishing to experience tantra massage and tantra yoga don’t need to be complex 🙏 I will accept you as a new guest if I feel we have a mutual connection ✨
Contact me via email 📧 first tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and you can always send me an informative text and call me directly here too 312 339 7707
Chanting #Mantras can help alleviate stress, depression and severe anxieties. Chanting Mantras helps you focus & help you potentially attract an end result. For instance there are mantras for abundance, attraction, positive energies and better health.
A #Mantra is a single word and or sound you chant repeatedly to induce meditation and also help open up your #chakras
When your chakras are in Alignment you attract more positive situations & opportunities to you.
I love using #mantras or chants in my daily ritual & as we co create #sacredspace together you will have the opportunity to listen to these mantras during your #chicagotantra ceremony ♥️
Your body’s energies will flow better; your #chakras will be in alignment and your physical body will glow with health ✨️ Not to boast but my guests who visit me leave refreshed and looking years younger 💫 than their true physical age. Let’s be honest here a poor diet, physical & emotional stress & a lack of good quality exercise & sleep ages your body prematurely. In order to reverse the Aging process you must remove the stressors & practice daily rituals and self care ❤
I also include Mantras & #soundhealing during my #reiki treatments
If you are interested ✨ in working with me Let me know more about you! Send me an introductory 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Please include your details, your goals and budget and I will suggest a ceremony perfect for your needs.
I’ve spent over 25 years perfecting my craft and I hope to exceed your expectations.
If you wish to book a session immediately call me directly at 312 339 7707 and also send me a text message. Please include your full legal name, occupation, and one or two public social media accounts in the body of your text and emails that you send me. It’s part of the verification process and is mandatory before we actually meet.
I love playing my collection of #singingbowls to my guests during my #chicagotantra ceremonies & my #reiki sessions
this particular instrument I’m playing is a very tiny brass singing bowl 🥣 from Nepal 🇳🇵 and it’s sound is especially pleasant and pronounced
sound healing helps expand your #chakrabodies and when all of our chakras are healthy and open we are receptive to feeling more energy within us.
During your tantra ceremony you will receive constant guidance from me on when to take a deep breath and how to make sounds to let your negative energy leave your body.
Touch is so important. We don’t receive enough touch these days especially if we are single or disconnected from our partners. Healing intuitive touch both physical and energetic are employed 🙌 during our tantra ceremony along with chanting and sound healing.
I go out of my way to create a cozy, playful and sacred space for you to let down your guard and help you heal from somatic trauma.
In order for you to receive the very best of me I’d like you to pick and choose and verbalize what ceremonies suit your needs best so please carefully go through my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly with questions if you have any.
Here is my best contact information 312 339 7707 tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
I always book sessions by appointment only meaning 15 minutes isn’t enough time for me to create some magic for you. I need at least 2 to 3 hours for a sacred ceremony, a deposit and your full legal name and social media presence.
I do take my work seriously and I’d like all my guests to feel loved, nurtured and listened to as we co create sacred space together.
Many years ago before 2013 I used to travel from city to city and I lived in Atlanta, Georgia for two years but traveled to different cities at least every three weeks.
Back then certain websites existed such as Tantra.com, the Goddess Temple website and I used to advertise on Eros Guide before being banned because I used the word “yoni” in the body of my advertisement.
Anyway I digress and if you don’t mind following me along here I typically write in stream of consciousness style and meander quite a bit; but eventually I promise to “get to the point”.
When I lived in Atlanta a really sweet retired teacher by the name if Gregory A. reached out to me via email. He was fascinated by my website and he had always wanted to try a tantra ceremony. He had been hiring high class prostitutes typically from ads on the Eros guide and even though he enjoyed himself he didn’t find these experiences very enriching.
Since I lived in Atlanta and he lived in Maryland with his ailing mother he decided to sponsor me and hire me for a full day of tantra and we would meet up in Washington DC. He sent me enough money for my traveling expenses and picked me up at the airport super excited to meet me. It’s like we had always been good friends.
After our fun weekend together he and I would meet up each time I’d travel to Washington DC or Manhattan, New York. We enjoyed eachother’s company, go out quite a bit for sushi and co create sacred space together. Mostly we just enjoyed exploring the city and engaging in mutual massage.
Gregory was a very thoughtful man and a giver. He genuinely adored women and even bought thoughtful gifts for me, his two daughters, his mother and his close female friends.
He did however feel regretful that he was no longer married and more than anything he wanted to remarry so he had proposed to his former girlfriend many times but she had a drinking problem and when she went to AA meetings she ended up meeting her true soul mate and so Gregory felt a bit discarded and resentful of her new boyfriend because he had always been there for her not only as a lover but as a dear friend.
Gregory would vent to me and share all these stories including the experience he had hiring Hayley, a young a beautiful call girl he developed a fondness for. This girl would advertise on backpacks and Gregory enjoyed her companionship so much he’d take her to extremely expensive restaurants and he even bought her a beautiful charm necklace. I think Gregory loved to romanticize that he would “rescue” her and marry her; but that never happened. She would ask him for money for her bills and she genuinely enjoyed his attentiveness and generosity but if you ask me she only saw him as a “sugar daddy” someone who would take her out and pay part of her rent and utility bills in exchange for her company and her beauty.
I always looked forward to meeting up with Gregory. He was extremely intelligent, great to talk to and very attentive and reassuring when you needed a sounding board and good advice. He had many interesting stories to tell and I thought of him as a great friend not just a client who needed my services. We always kept in touch even when i stopped traveling and when I had moved back to Chicago he sent me lovely gifts for the holidays just to make sure I knew that someone cared about me. He often mentioned he might visit me in Chicago because he loved baseball and the Chicago Cubs but sadly this never happened.
We met up again one last time in New York and we spent a few hours together enjoying tantra massage and a light lunch and then I never saw him again. He had asked me to marry him a few times but I rarely fall in love and I’d smile at him and politely decline awkwardly.
The only bad habit Gregory had was chain smoking. When he booked me for full day ceremonies or a weekend he constantly had to excuse himself to step outside and enjoy a smoke. He already had a fast metabolism and he was a very high energy kind of person who hated staying still so the smoking helped him focus and soothe his nerves.
We eventually lost touch with eachother sadly and he was mainly focused on his two daughters, taking care of his mother and traveling on cruises. He kept active with regards to animal sanctuaries and focusing on his youngest daughter when she needed to move back in with him full time during her advanced level college courses.
I tried calling him but he had changed his number and he stopped being active on Facebook. I was a bit concerned and hurt but didn’t want to bother him on messenger. It was only two months ago I noticed his two daughters and friends honoring his memory on his Facebook page. I then realized he must have passed away during covid, most likely because of his non stop smoking habit but I can’t be certain.
Anyway what I’m trying to say is Gregory was the primary caretaker of his older mother. There were times he’d share the fact that she was so sick he was almost certain she would die within months and when he inherits her home he would sell it and buy an apartment in Manhattan. He even suggested that he and I should share an apartment in New York together and split the costs but I couldn’t see that happening. Instead I always told him that when his mother dies he should keep her home and enjoy it so that his children will always have a place to live.
Instead Gregory died and his mother who is in her 90’s is still alive and currently being taken care of by her two granddaughters because I noticed his children posting her photo on his wall and assuring Gregory that they are taking care of Nonna.
I don’t know if Gregory ever truly loved himself to be ok with being alone and single. I’m not sure why he lost the will to live or perhaps he didn’t notice the toll that his life was taking on his body and his spirit. All I can say is you have to alright with just being by yourself and you should always make time for self care ❤ because if you are always focused on making others happy you will eventually run low yourself.
I hope that by reading this short story you don’t forget to take care of yourself first even if you prefer focusing all your attention on others. If your family relies on you heavily please don’t forget to take care of your needs even it it’s just a hot bath you draw for yourself at the end of the day.
If you find yourself physically drained or low on energy please reach out to me. I’m available for the Holidays and I never take a day off work because tantra brings me so much joy and personal fulfillment.
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