I’d love to know more about the people who are viewing my blog either by accident or because they chose to subscribe to learn more about tantra.
Are you excited to wake ⏰ up in the morning and get to work? Do you set your alarm for 5 AM take a long hot shower and walk your dog 🐕 or go to the gym then get to work in a corporate setting? Or do you work remotely so you sleep in till however late you wish and then check your phone and emails 📧 for the day ahead? I’d love for all of you to leave me a public comment here on my blog and tell me your daily routine.
Almost every person I meet lately travels once or twice weekly for the corporation they work for. All the traveling means they might miss out on family time and might not have enough time to book massage and spa appointments for themselves even though their shoulders and neck might be strained from the uncomfortable airplane ✈ seats.
I’m proud to say I do offer my sessions at the last minute for traveling executives for as long as my new clients offer up a full name and deposit. I love being needed and willing to travel to any safe and reputable hotel by the airport or within the city if Chicago. I’d like to think I can be an important part of your self care routine when you need a pick me up.
Unfortunately CEO’S might forget about receiving healing services and may not be eating super mindfully based off of missed flight connections and by the time they arrive to their destination only fast food places are open instead of healthy options. I strongly suggest you take along freshly sliced cubes of fruit, veggies and cheeses 🧀 with you on all flights ✈️ or even better call up the hotel front desk and have them go grocery shopping 🛍 for you and have your mini fridge stocked up with healthy items so you can snack on your favorite foods by the time you arrive at your destination.
Book me in advance but if you find yourself stuck at the airport bored and achey with nothing to do never be afraid to reach out to me for my tantra services.
Have a look at my primary website here http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly at (312) 339 7707 to schedule something special for yourself. I use sound healing, deep tissue bodywork, sensual massage, reiki, cuddle therapy and Authentic tantra massage during my tantra ceremonies.
You can even book a coffee ☕ consultation or dinner engagement with me if you have questions before we meet.
I’d love to know how you found me! I’ve spent so many years writing articles and explaining my services to people over the phone 📱 and it’s gotten to the point where I encourage everyone to book a paid phone consultation with me or at least a coffee ☕ consultation with me initially to weed out guests who didn’t read my primary website first.
Let’s back up a few minutes here. I’ve been working with energy for a very long time and yes my family home was most definitely haunted and yes unfortunately my early years were traumatic because my father could be extremely violent. I ended up becoming extremely sensitive to energies and I’d take trips to the library to avoid the drama going on in my home 🏡 and to pick up books 📚 that intrigued me like astrology, numerology, and chakras.
I began studying reiki at age 19 and I received a full scholarship from Loyola University and enrolled in English literature; but I was miserable there and after three years I chose to drop out of college because I didn’t feel connected.
After quitting multiple jobs as a receptionist I decided to study 📖 massage techniques and I jumped whole heartedly into the sex industry but I focused on my client’s physical pain– not just sexual. I was determined to treat everyone’s body holistically.
In the beginning I didn’t charge much; in fact I allowed myself to be exploited. As soon as I took workshops in other healing modalities and certification in tantra I increased my rates so that I charged as much as my peers.
Unfortunately some of my clients were displeased about my rate increase and assumed that because I was now charging more that I was also offering escort related services. Some of my clients were extremely loyal and continued to use my services and others became enraged and slandered me on adult sites discouraging potential clients from using my services. It because increasingly difficult for me to gain client’s trust especially when I left Chicago to move to New Orleans, Louisiana.
The slanderous message board was directly linked to my website and when I took classes in Maui some of the students at the retreat Google up my legal name and website and found the slanderous adult message board just a few links below my website. I was embarrassed and it caused some people to mistrust my skillet.
Regardless I’ve had some hurdles to climb and I don’t recommend anyone become a tantra practitioner unless they have a very thick skin. Some new clients call me ready to dive in and others are very skeptical.
I’ve had my Google My Business page suspended four separate times and lost all 65 reviews 😢 and yes 7 reviews were horribly mean and unfair and written by people who either never met me in real life or asked for a cheap sports massage instead of tantra. My specialty is reiki and tantra massage. I do have experience with trigger point massage, lomi lomi massage, hot stone therapy and tantra massage but I don’t have certification in sports massage. It’s better if you select a traditional massage therapist if you are seeking a sports massage.
Now let’s pedal backwards and focus on how you found me. Many people say they found me online while googling up massage near me or tantra massage. Regardless of how you found me I still recommend new students of tantra schedule a phone consultation. If however you’ve had positive experiences with tantra massage before and you know this will be a positive experience ✨ the by all means let’s get you scheduled in my calendar.
What’s tantra though? In Sanskrit, tantra means woven together. People who practice Buddhism and Hinduism believe that all forms tantric sex are a sacred and spiritual act. They do not separate the carnal needs of the physical body from the spiritual. They believe in weaving spirituality and breathwork into sexuality and the emphasis is placed on sacred intimacy and deeper connection to your partner.
I’m not an escort service nor am I a sexual surrogate. I have my bound when I work with my clients. My ✨ specialty is helping my clients tap into their own sexual energy which is called kundalini Shakti. I don’t offer kama sutra lessons; rather I help my clients achieve full body orgssm through touch, healing sounds, chakra balancing and sensual massage techniques that I employ.
If you think we might be a great energy match please call me directly 312 339 7707 and be prepared to give me your full legal name and occupation for the verification process. I will ask you some very simple questions and a deposit is Mandatory before we meet.
My motto is when you’re ready you’ll know! Never jump into anything you’re not ready for.
Please also send me an introductory email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Hello 👋 this is Goddess Diana owner of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com which is my primary website here in Chicago, Illinois.
Not everyone fully understands that the true purpose of tantra is to gradually activate your Kundalini energy (at the base of your spine) and help you feel how powerful your sexual energy can be. It will be so intense and magnified that you will feel tingling sensations like tiny volcanic eruptions throughout your limbs and heat or cold 🥶 prickly tickles along your spinal column.
Tantra is about learning how to circulate your sexual energy to all your major chakra systems and your sexual energy is used as medication 💊 to heal past trauma and restore a sense of inner calm and balance with you.
I understand this isn’t a path for everyone so I invite you to meet me for coffee to chat about your experiences with other practitioners or maybe you just want to meet face to face just to potentially see if we have any chemistry between eachother.
If you have questions I even offer paid phone 📱 consultations so let’s get together soon and discuss your needs and desires for our shared time together.
Meet me For coffee ☕ this weekend learn about tantra & my background in energywork 312 339 7707
You may not realize this but the true purpose of learning #tantrayoga is to unite the Divine Masculine [Lord Shiva] with your Divine feminine [Shakti- Kali Ma]
We are both Male & Female and when we learn to practice this delicate balance within our #chakras through breathing & yoga stretches we harmonize our physical & mental bodies.
All of us must learn to activate our #kundalinishakti & our feminine energies
You can do this by movement such as dancing 💃 & yoga 🧘♀️ or hikes 🚶♀️ in Nature. pamper yourself by taking hot baths 🛁 or getting an indulgent massage or spa day
The #sacralchakra needs healing attentive care. Create art, anything beautiful to harmonize your Divine feminine. Even taking care ❤ of your skin as a daily and nightly ritual is a sacred act of awakening your Divine feminine.
Learning #mudras will help heal your inner feminine so you can begin with a basic book and learn the mudras (hand ✋ gestures) that help activate your third eye 👁 heart ❤ chakra and sacral chakra.
Allow time for grounding and self healing on a daily basis. Make sure you take time to journal and self reflect.
Even the act of shopping 🛍 for beautiful objects, pillowcases, silks, flowers 💐 is self healing
Self care is sexy ….pampering yourself opens sacral energies
As your sacral energies & Divine Goddess awakens your opportunities and Abundance grows
Don’t allow yourself to grow stagnant …stagnancy leads to depression and the lack of self love leads to emotional blocks 💔 that can block your opportunities.
You know yourself better than anyone and if you keep doing things to please others; but it goes against your comfort zone you can and will make yourself psychically and physically ill.
When we only act to please others we can stress our bodies out and I guarantee you your spirit will be broken and you will feel energetically drained until you’re all tapped out.
Not being honored for your boundaries and belief systems can lead to self neglect and depression. Being with someone you no longer like or love 💔 will wear down on your psyche.
Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to walk away from toxic environs and people who refuse to listen 🎶 to what we have to say.
Self love ❤️ and self care is a byproduct of receiving ✨️ a #reiki healing ✨️ or a good massage or a #tantra ceremony
If you choose to schedule a #chicagotantra ceremony with me you will receive nurturing, intuitive bodywork, holistic ##breathwork#soundhealing reflexology #reiki#cuddletherapy and the opportunity to activate your #kundalini
I am here for you ❤
To me connection is everything ❤️ If you call me but I personally don’t feel a heart connection with you based off your voice vibrations I might suggest someone else for you to work with.
I am extremely intuitive and Empathic by nature and my services will appeal to highly sensitive people seeking a real connection and sense of community.
Email 📧 me at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com butterflyshadows@aol.com
let me know more about who you are and why you are excited to try tantra
We aren’t the same people we were 20 years ago. We evolve and we understand more about ourselves and what we need. Sometimes when people begin a romantic relationship with a partner early in life they find out their needs change with age, experience and self wisdom. However just because we become more emotionally mature and independent; it doesn’t mean our partners grow with us. Sometimes our partners have a completely different belief system and there’s nothing in common between the two of you anymore. One partner might still remain devoted and completely in love; but the other person grows away 💔 and needs more out of the relationship so the two grow apart. If you’ve grown out of certain behavioral patterns or limiting beliefs never be afraid to engage in alternative healing paths. Suggest tantra workshops and tantra sessions to your partner just as a means to draw your bond closer. However if you’ve tried your very best to express your needs and goals and your partner is resistant to change or the newer version of who you are then it’s time for you to create healthy boundaries or move on from the relationship so you can continue to grow as a person.
Call me directly at (312) 339-7707 for a free 15 phone 📱 conversation or book me this week for a paid coffee ☕ consultation or full hour phone consultation.
You will find detailed information about my tantra ceremonies here:
Good afternoon 😊 this is Diana from Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I’ve been in the sensual massage industry for 25 years plus ➕ and hopefully 🙏 will continue on this journey for many more years to come.
I always welcome new students of tantra seeking a valid form of somatic healing and release. I offer breathwork coaching, reiki, chakra balancing and traditional therapeutic massage during my tantra ceremonies.
However there is a discreet and super easy screening process for new clients. I always ask new guests for a full name, occupation and social media profile before working with them.
The only time I refuse anyone is if they aren’t cooperating with my Verification process or if they have sent me graphic and lewd text messages and photos to my smartphone.
I prefer to be treated with complete transparency and respect with all new guests seeking sensual healing.
Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to book a session or book a paid coffee ☕ or phone consultation. You may call me for free if you are simply calling to schedule a session and have no need for Q & A
Booking a session with me should be stress-free and simple. If I feel we make a great energy match we will proceed with the ceremony.
I always wish to attract anyone who wishes to transcend the mundane and learn how to be fully present. I’m highly skilled in tantra yoga and reiki! I’m an ideal choice for people wishing to learn about rebirthing breath, giving up addictive habits, or surrendering to consciousness and intentional touch.
I welcome men, women, and non binary individuals who need a tantra partner and couples who want to learn more about bringing energy work and loving intentional touch into their current relationship.
Repeat sessions are highly recommended so I suggest visiting me bi monthly for you to see results.
Tantra massage heals social anxiety, panic attacks, unhealthy attachments and helps balance your chakras while increasing your endorphins.
Anyone seeking to learn more about establishing healthy boundaries in their sexual relationship with their partner is welcome to schedule a tantra yoga ceremony with me!
please include all your personal details to make it simple for me to verify who you are such as your full legal name, occupation, age range, social media links etc…
Include your phone number, goals, questions and I will reply. If I can’t personally help you I will refer you to the correct source.
I welcome anyone who is emotionally mature enough to join me on a unique journey of self healing and sexual wellness.
If you loved our time together ❤ and want to receive a discount off our future Chicago Tantra ceremony simply write me a thoughtful review. Your review doesn’t have to be a novel in length or graphic in nature. I’m always in need of new reviews for my website and you are welcome to use whatever alias suits you. You will receive a $50 credit off any future tantra ceremony of any length or if you prefer extra time added onto any session.
This weekend I worked on three special guests. Each person came to me without any prior knowledge of tantra or alternative healing. I used a combination of my knowledge of breathwork, aromatherapy, holistic bodywork, chakra balancing and kundalini full body activation. It’s always satisfying to me when each person reacts so positively to the energie. Your body intuitively knows what to do with your stored sexual energy and you will receive a feeling of intense heat wherever you needed the healing the most.
Here’s a copy of the lovely review I received most recently. I’m including a link to my main website so you can read more testimonials from current and former clients of mine
I rarely write reviews but I feel Diana genuinely deserves to have one written for her and so here I am on a Sunday evening trying to share my very personal and intimate session I shared with her this past weekend.
What prompted me to seek out a tantra session was a combination of genuine curiosity, a little extra spare time and a lot of grief.
A good friend of mine lost a battle with cancer and I spent many hours supporting him emotionally and taking care of his family’s needs these past few months.
I was having trouble sleeping and found myself thinking too much so I went through Diana’s website last week because I was planning a trip to Chicago. I emailed her and received a response within the hour and when she called me back she gave me a few suggestions and so I wanted her to visit me since I had rented a beautiful airbnb in River North and didn’t feel like leaving my space.
Diana has a lovely touch and she is clearly knowledgeable and enthusiastic about her craft. We had a great chemistry between us and I ended up extending our two session into three hours just because I didn’t want our time together to come to an end.
If you’re low on energy or find yourself depleted Diana’s touch will be just what you need.
Marvin from Dekalb…
So there you go! I truly hope you will choose me as your future tantra muse and guide. I take great pride in my work and this is my only passion in life. I put all my focus and attention on the co creation of sacred space ✨ because I love making people feel good!
Fancy a session with me? Well please tell me more about you! Please include your full legal name and occupation and one or two links to your social media account(s). Even if you’re retired or in between jobs, or a student enrolled in College. Be sure to share two important goals you have for our time together even if it’s just to engage in play or have a soothing and relaxing time together.
Your reasons for wishing to experience tantra massage and tantra yoga don’t need to be complex 🙏 I will accept you as a new guest if I feel we have a mutual connection ✨
Contact me via email 📧 first tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and you can always send me an informative text and call me directly here too 312 339 7707
Chanting #Mantras can help alleviate stress, depression and severe anxieties. Chanting Mantras helps you focus & help you potentially attract an end result. For instance there are mantras for abundance, attraction, positive energies and better health.
A #Mantra is a single word and or sound you chant repeatedly to induce meditation and also help open up your #chakras
When your chakras are in Alignment you attract more positive situations & opportunities to you.
I love using #mantras or chants in my daily ritual & as we co create #sacredspace together you will have the opportunity to listen to these mantras during your #chicagotantra ceremony ♥️
Your body’s energies will flow better; your #chakras will be in alignment and your physical body will glow with health ✨️ Not to boast but my guests who visit me leave refreshed and looking years younger 💫 than their true physical age. Let’s be honest here a poor diet, physical & emotional stress & a lack of good quality exercise & sleep ages your body prematurely. In order to reverse the Aging process you must remove the stressors & practice daily rituals and self care ❤
I also include Mantras & #soundhealing during my #reiki treatments
If you are interested ✨ in working with me Let me know more about you! Send me an introductory 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Please include your details, your goals and budget and I will suggest a ceremony perfect for your needs.
I’ve spent over 25 years perfecting my craft and I hope to exceed your expectations.
If you wish to book a session immediately call me directly at 312 339 7707 and also send me a text message. Please include your full legal name, occupation, and one or two public social media accounts in the body of your text and emails that you send me. It’s part of the verification process and is mandatory before we actually meet.
Many years ago before 2013 I used to travel from city to city and I lived in Atlanta, Georgia for two years but traveled to different cities at least every three weeks.
Back then certain websites existed such as Tantra.com, the Goddess Temple website and I used to advertise on Eros Guide before being banned because I used the word “yoni” in the body of my advertisement.
Anyway I digress and if you don’t mind following me along here I typically write in stream of consciousness style and meander quite a bit; but eventually I promise to “get to the point”.
When I lived in Atlanta a really sweet retired teacher by the name if Gregory A. reached out to me via email. He was fascinated by my website and he had always wanted to try a tantra ceremony. He had been hiring high class prostitutes typically from ads on the Eros guide and even though he enjoyed himself he didn’t find these experiences very enriching.
Since I lived in Atlanta and he lived in Maryland with his ailing mother he decided to sponsor me and hire me for a full day of tantra and we would meet up in Washington DC. He sent me enough money for my traveling expenses and picked me up at the airport super excited to meet me. It’s like we had always been good friends.
After our fun weekend together he and I would meet up each time I’d travel to Washington DC or Manhattan, New York. We enjoyed eachother’s company, go out quite a bit for sushi and co create sacred space together. Mostly we just enjoyed exploring the city and engaging in mutual massage.
Gregory was a very thoughtful man and a giver. He genuinely adored women and even bought thoughtful gifts for me, his two daughters, his mother and his close female friends.
He did however feel regretful that he was no longer married and more than anything he wanted to remarry so he had proposed to his former girlfriend many times but she had a drinking problem and when she went to AA meetings she ended up meeting her true soul mate and so Gregory felt a bit discarded and resentful of her new boyfriend because he had always been there for her not only as a lover but as a dear friend.
Gregory would vent to me and share all these stories including the experience he had hiring Hayley, a young a beautiful call girl he developed a fondness for. This girl would advertise on backpacks and Gregory enjoyed her companionship so much he’d take her to extremely expensive restaurants and he even bought her a beautiful charm necklace. I think Gregory loved to romanticize that he would “rescue” her and marry her; but that never happened. She would ask him for money for her bills and she genuinely enjoyed his attentiveness and generosity but if you ask me she only saw him as a “sugar daddy” someone who would take her out and pay part of her rent and utility bills in exchange for her company and her beauty.
I always looked forward to meeting up with Gregory. He was extremely intelligent, great to talk to and very attentive and reassuring when you needed a sounding board and good advice. He had many interesting stories to tell and I thought of him as a great friend not just a client who needed my services. We always kept in touch even when i stopped traveling and when I had moved back to Chicago he sent me lovely gifts for the holidays just to make sure I knew that someone cared about me. He often mentioned he might visit me in Chicago because he loved baseball and the Chicago Cubs but sadly this never happened.
We met up again one last time in New York and we spent a few hours together enjoying tantra massage and a light lunch and then I never saw him again. He had asked me to marry him a few times but I rarely fall in love and I’d smile at him and politely decline awkwardly.
The only bad habit Gregory had was chain smoking. When he booked me for full day ceremonies or a weekend he constantly had to excuse himself to step outside and enjoy a smoke. He already had a fast metabolism and he was a very high energy kind of person who hated staying still so the smoking helped him focus and soothe his nerves.
We eventually lost touch with eachother sadly and he was mainly focused on his two daughters, taking care of his mother and traveling on cruises. He kept active with regards to animal sanctuaries and focusing on his youngest daughter when she needed to move back in with him full time during her advanced level college courses.
I tried calling him but he had changed his number and he stopped being active on Facebook. I was a bit concerned and hurt but didn’t want to bother him on messenger. It was only two months ago I noticed his two daughters and friends honoring his memory on his Facebook page. I then realized he must have passed away during covid, most likely because of his non stop smoking habit but I can’t be certain.
Anyway what I’m trying to say is Gregory was the primary caretaker of his older mother. There were times he’d share the fact that she was so sick he was almost certain she would die within months and when he inherits her home he would sell it and buy an apartment in Manhattan. He even suggested that he and I should share an apartment in New York together and split the costs but I couldn’t see that happening. Instead I always told him that when his mother dies he should keep her home and enjoy it so that his children will always have a place to live.
Instead Gregory died and his mother who is in her 90’s is still alive and currently being taken care of by her two granddaughters because I noticed his children posting her photo on his wall and assuring Gregory that they are taking care of Nonna.
I don’t know if Gregory ever truly loved himself to be ok with being alone and single. I’m not sure why he lost the will to live or perhaps he didn’t notice the toll that his life was taking on his body and his spirit. All I can say is you have to alright with just being by yourself and you should always make time for self care ❤ because if you are always focused on making others happy you will eventually run low yourself.
I hope that by reading this short story you don’t forget to take care of yourself first even if you prefer focusing all your attention on others. If your family relies on you heavily please don’t forget to take care of your needs even it it’s just a hot bath you draw for yourself at the end of the day.
If you find yourself physically drained or low on energy please reach out to me. I’m available for the Holidays and I never take a day off work because tantra brings me so much joy and personal fulfillment.
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