Posts tagged “Tantra Butterfly”
February 6, 2024 No comments

I Love & appreciate ❤ testimonials from my Guests

If you loved our time together ❤ and want to receive a discount off our future Chicago Tantra ceremony simply write me a thoughtful review. Your review doesn’t have to be a novel in length or graphic in nature. I’m always in need of new reviews for my website and you are welcome to use whatever alias suits you. You will receive a $50 credit off any future tantra ceremony of any length or if you prefer extra time added onto any session.

This weekend I worked on three special guests. Each person came to me without any prior knowledge of tantra or alternative healing. I used a combination of my knowledge of breathwork, aromatherapy, holistic bodywork, chakra balancing and kundalini full body activation. It’s always satisfying to me when each person reacts so positively to the energie. Your body intuitively knows what to do with your stored sexual energy and you will receive a feeling of intense heat wherever you needed the healing the most.

Here’s a copy of the lovely review I received most recently. I’m including a link to my main website so you can read more testimonials from current and former clients of mine

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I rarely write reviews but I feel Diana genuinely deserves to have one written for her and so here I am on a Sunday evening trying to share my very personal and intimate session I shared with her this past weekend.

What prompted me to seek out a tantra session was a combination of genuine curiosity, a little extra spare time and a lot of grief.

A good friend of mine lost a battle with cancer and I spent many hours supporting him emotionally and taking care of his family’s needs these past few months.

I was having trouble sleeping and found myself thinking too much so I went through Diana’s website last week because I was planning a trip to Chicago.  I emailed her and received a response within the hour and when she called me back she gave me a few suggestions and so I wanted her to visit me since I had rented a beautiful airbnb in River North and didn’t feel like leaving my space.

Diana has a lovely touch and she is clearly knowledgeable and enthusiastic about her craft.  We had a great chemistry between us and I ended up extending our two session into three hours just because I didn’t want our time together to come to an end.

If you’re low on energy or find yourself depleted Diana’s touch will be just what you need.  

Marvin from Dekalb… 

So there you go! I truly hope you will choose me as your future tantra muse and guide. I take great pride in my work and this is my only passion in life. I put all my focus and attention on the co creation of sacred space ✨ because I love making people feel good!

Fancy a session with me? Well please tell me more about you! Please include your full legal name and occupation and one or two links to your social media account(s). Even if you’re retired or in between jobs, or a student enrolled in College. Be sure to share two important goals you have for our time together even if it’s just to engage in play or have a soothing and relaxing time together.

Your reasons for wishing to experience tantra massage and tantra yoga don’t need to be complex 🙏 I will accept you as a new guest if I feel we have a mutual connection ✨

Contact me via email 📧 first tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and you can always send me an informative text and call me directly here too 312 339 7707

January 30, 2024 No comments

Mantras play a major role in authentic Tantra massage ceremonies


Chanting #Mantras can help alleviate stress, depression and severe anxieties.  Chanting Mantras helps you focus & help you potentially attract an end result.  For instance there are mantras for abundance, attraction, positive energies and better health.

A #Mantra is a single word and or sound you chant repeatedly to induce meditation and also help open up your #chakras


When your chakras are in Alignment you attract more positive situations & opportunities to you.

I love using #mantras or chants in my daily ritual & as we co create #sacredspace together you will have the opportunity to listen to these mantras during your #chicagotantra ceremony ♥️

Your body’s energies will flow better; your #chakras will be in alignment and your physical body will glow with health ✨️ Not to boast but my guests who visit me leave refreshed and looking years younger 💫 than their true physical age. Let’s be honest here a poor diet, physical & emotional stress & a lack of good quality exercise & sleep ages your body prematurely.  In order to reverse the Aging process you must remove the stressors & practice daily rituals and self care ❤

I also include Mantras & #soundhealing during my #reiki treatments

If you are interested ✨ in working with me
Let me know more about you!
Send me an introductory 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Please include your details, your goals and budget and I will suggest a ceremony perfect for your needs.

Please visit my main website prior to contacting me http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’ve spent over 25 years perfecting my craft and I hope to exceed your expectations.

If you wish to book a session immediately call me directly at 312 339 7707 and also send me a text message. Please include your full legal name, occupation, and one or two public social media accounts in the body of your text and emails that you send me. It’s part of the verification process and is mandatory before we actually meet.
November 22, 2023 No comments

Tantra is a form of self care ❤ & self pampering

Many years ago before 2013 I used to travel from city to city and I lived in Atlanta, Georgia for two years but traveled to different cities at least every three weeks.

Back then certain websites existed such as Tantra.com, the Goddess Temple website and I used to advertise on Eros Guide before being banned because I used the word “yoni” in the body of my advertisement.

Anyway I digress and if you don’t mind following me along here I typically write in stream of consciousness style and meander quite a bit; but eventually I promise to “get to the point”.

When I lived in Atlanta a really sweet retired teacher by the name if Gregory A. reached out to me via email. He was fascinated by my website and he had always wanted to try a tantra ceremony. He had been hiring high class prostitutes typically from ads on the Eros guide and even though he enjoyed himself he didn’t find these experiences very enriching.

Since I lived in Atlanta and he lived in Maryland with his ailing mother he decided to sponsor me and hire me for a full day of tantra and we would meet up in Washington DC. He sent me enough money for my traveling expenses and picked me up at the airport super excited to meet me. It’s like we had always been good friends.

After our fun weekend together he and I would meet up each time I’d travel to Washington DC or Manhattan, New York. We enjoyed eachother’s company, go out quite a bit for sushi and co create sacred space together. Mostly we just enjoyed exploring the city and engaging in mutual massage.

Gregory was a very thoughtful man and a giver. He genuinely adored women and even bought thoughtful gifts for me, his two daughters, his mother and his close female friends.

He did however feel regretful that he was no longer married and more than anything he wanted to remarry so he had proposed to his former girlfriend many times but she had a drinking problem and when she went to AA meetings she ended up meeting her true soul mate and so Gregory felt a bit discarded and resentful of her new boyfriend because he had always been there for her not only as a lover but as a dear friend.

Gregory would vent to me and share all these stories including the experience he had hiring Hayley, a young a beautiful call girl he developed a fondness for. This girl would advertise on backpacks and Gregory enjoyed her companionship so much he’d take her to extremely expensive restaurants and he even bought her a beautiful charm necklace. I think Gregory loved to romanticize that he would “rescue” her and marry her; but that never happened. She would ask him for money for her bills and she genuinely enjoyed his attentiveness and generosity but if you ask me she only saw him as a “sugar daddy” someone who would take her out and pay part of her rent and utility bills in exchange for her company and her beauty.

I always looked forward to meeting up with Gregory. He was extremely intelligent, great to talk to and very attentive and reassuring when you needed a sounding board and good advice. He had many interesting stories to tell and I thought of him as a great friend not just a client who needed my services. We always kept in touch even when i stopped traveling and when I had moved back to Chicago he sent me lovely gifts for the holidays just to make sure I knew that someone cared about me. He often mentioned he might visit me in Chicago because he loved baseball and the Chicago Cubs but sadly this never happened.

We met up again one last time in New York and we spent a few hours together enjoying tantra massage and a light lunch and then I never saw him again. He had asked me to marry him a few times but I rarely fall in love and I’d smile at him and politely decline awkwardly.

The only bad habit Gregory had was chain smoking. When he booked me for full day ceremonies or a weekend he constantly had to excuse himself to step outside and enjoy a smoke. He already had a fast metabolism and he was a very high energy kind of person who hated staying still so the smoking helped him focus and soothe his nerves.

We eventually lost touch with eachother sadly and he was mainly focused on his two daughters, taking care of his mother and traveling on cruises. He kept active with regards to animal sanctuaries and focusing on his youngest daughter when she needed to move back in with him full time during her advanced level college courses.

I tried calling him but he had changed his number and he stopped being active on Facebook. I was a bit concerned and hurt but didn’t want to bother him on messenger. It was only two months ago I noticed his two daughters and friends honoring his memory on his Facebook page. I then realized he must have passed away during covid, most likely because of his non stop smoking habit but I can’t be certain.

Anyway what I’m trying to say is Gregory was the primary caretaker of his older mother. There were times he’d share the fact that she was so sick he was almost certain she would die within months and when he inherits her home he would sell it and buy an apartment in Manhattan. He even suggested that he and I should share an apartment in New York together and split the costs but I couldn’t see that happening. Instead I always told him that when his mother dies he should keep her home and enjoy it so that his children will always have a place to live.

Instead Gregory died and his mother who is in her 90’s is still alive and currently being taken care of by her two granddaughters because I noticed his children posting her photo on his wall and assuring Gregory that they are taking care of Nonna.

I don’t know if Gregory ever truly loved himself to be ok with being alone and single. I’m not sure why he lost the will to live or perhaps he didn’t notice the toll that his life was taking on his body and his spirit. All I can say is you have to alright with just being by yourself and you should always make time for self care ❤ because if you are always focused on making others happy you will eventually run low yourself.

I hope that by reading this short story you don’t forget to take care of yourself first even if you prefer focusing all your attention on others. If your family relies on you heavily please don’t forget to take care of your needs even it it’s just a hot bath you draw for yourself at the end of the day.

If you find yourself physically drained or low on energy please reach out to me. I’m available for the Holidays and I never take a day off work because tantra brings me so much joy and personal fulfillment.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Thanks for following my blog and please don’t feel shy or embarrassed about booking a #chicagotantra ceremony with me soon.
September 23, 2023 No comments

Who would benefit from a tantra ceremony?

Who is #tantra for?

You should consider a #tantramassage if you’ve genuinely been reading up on the topic, it piqued your interest and now YOU Finally deserve a SPLURGE

Because that’s what this is ….
It’s an indulgence that’s actually physically good for you and a habit that won’t harm but heal….

Some people give me the feedback that it feels like a little galaxy of stars 🌟 ✨ gathered around their #crownchakra

And for others it’s a wake up to forgotten trauma and abuse they’ve ignored and stored within their body’s memories….

The memories within each cell of your body is triggered during any form of #somaticrelease & #alternativehealing

You are unique
And your body’s blueprint will guide me
Where shall we focus?
That answer will come to me once we meet and co create #sacredspace

You can speak your boundaries and feel safe

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com butterflyshadows@aol.com
312 339 7707

Email me your goals

Preverification is Mandatory for all serious students of #chicagotantra

A Deposit will show me how serious you are …..

I will hold space for your joy, your healing, your body awareness and your #kundalini activation

Eye Gazing a simple Tantra exercise
September 1, 2023 No comments

Please introduce yourself to me first 🙏

I should not have to write this post because it should be common knowledge between all business people that a formal introduction is expected the first time you email, text or call a fellow professional.

The majority of New potential clients lately are texting me questions without letting me know who they are. I’m always going to ask who someone is if they aren’t already in my contacts list.

I’ve also had to switch cell phones numerous times in my thirty years as a tantra therapist and I’m very certain I’ve accidentally deleted clients from my past inadvertently. For this reason I would love everyone to introduce themselves first during their first greeting whether it’s an email 📧 introduction to Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or butterflyshadows@aol.com…

I’d like to know who you are and why you’re interested in tantra. Also reading my website carefully prior to contacting me is very important so please go directly to my main site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and spend some time reading my services page, ceremonial donations and especially my testimonials written by clients who appreciated their time with me.

Hope to learn more about you! Always remember to include your full name, occupation and social media status such as a Facebook business page or LinkedIn profile.

You can find my profile on LinkedIn easily. Just type in Tantra Butterfly in the search bar and follow my posts.

Hope to meet you soon!

If you want to really support me please subscribe to my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I try and post weekly videos 📹 and it’s the perfect way to get to know me prior to meeting me in person.
March 16, 2023 No comments

What are the main reasons we should receive a massage?

All forms of massage whether it’s gentle and light or more aggressive like deep tissue and trigger point will definitely help increase your circulation, help rid your muscles of lactic acid build-up and create positive feelings of euphoria to help you deal with stress.

If you suffer from depression, chronic pain, insomnia or overall fatigue a full body massage will increase your metabolism, help lower your cortisol levels and help you achieve a good night’s sleep.

My favorite type of massage to receive is a combination of trigger point release, myofascial release and chakra balancing.

Your physical body affects your mental frame of mind and your psychic 🔮 body or aura.

Being around too many people or experiencing negative situations will definitely deplete you of your energy and sour your mood.

Full body massages which include hand and foot reflexology also target all organs in your body because all our nerve endings end at our extremities so when you focus on the reflex points of the hands and feet you are helping to stimulate the body’s endocrine system, your sinus cavities, your stomach, kidneys, lungs, liver, reproductive organs and central nervous system.

Receiving thoughtful, healing, nurturing touch is essential for all human beings to experience especially if you are a caretaker or if your job is physically demanding.

We all become touch starved when we lack a comforting hug or word of encouragement.

Massages help ground your energy 🙌 and keep your heart ❤ open and your outlook positive.

If you give and give and give and have a mental block regarding receiving energy you should definitely book a healing session for yourself soon!

My website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com is informative and entertaining so please read it first before contacting me….

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Whether you book me for reiki or authentic tantra massage I would be delighted to help you work through any energetic blocks and trauma that no longer serve you.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

3312 339 7707

butterflyshadows@aol.com

March 14, 2023 No comments

Why you should book a paid coffee date w/me if you are shy

I’m not a shy person; but I do understand and empathize with anyone who is hesitant about embarking on a new journey ✨ when they barely understand what they are committing to.

I offer paid coffee consultations for couples and singles who are interested in tantra but never had prior experiences in energywork or sexual wellness.

My tantra ceremonies focus on full body well-being and healing. The focus isn’t just your sexual energy; it’s an organic experience that helps you understand your own body better and amplify the latent energies already stored within you.

I will help direct your focus on being fully present in the moment by guiding you with breathwork and visualization exercises. The chakras within your body respond to touch, sound and breath. If you’ve never had reiki or alternative healing before then all these techniques are going to seem esoteric to you.

A coffee consultation will give you an opportunity to digest all this information beforehand and you can ask me any questions you wish so I can alleviate your concerns and make some suggestions based on your goals and budget.

Please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Let me know more about you by sending me an introductory email 📧

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Once we meet in person and become friends instead of strangers the process of self awareness and self healing becomes much easier.

I can help you make life changes, introduce you to new activities, develop more meaningful relationships and find the courage to become fully alive in your life.

A paid coffee date with me is like no other. I am an expert in alternative healing and have studied and practiced massage, Tantra, and meditation for many years. I can provide you with healing techniques and beneficial services that do not involve a physical touch. My recommendations and advice will help you to make better decisions and live a more balanced, fulfilling life.

I believe that everyone deserves healing, rejuvenation and empowerment. Through my paid coffee dates I can help you remove blockage, create new paths and adopt a better lifestyle. During our few hours together, I will guide you through spiritual healing processes and provide you with the tools to take responsibility for your life.

Booking a paid coffee date is your chance to learn from an experienced practitioner and start a new direction in life. Whether you’re shy, anxious or simply looking for something new and different, I will be there to support and guide you towards a happier and healthier version of yourself.

Let me show you how to move forward and
March 4, 2023 No comments

The Sacred Bath Ritual as a prelude to your tantra ceremony

You aren’t required to add a #tantra #bathritual to your session but it will definitely enhance your time with me.

if you want to prepare a bath ahead of time for yourself in your own home before working with me it would definitely help me work with your energy.

the seasalt bath is composed of baking soda (a half box) and seasalt (1 or 2 cups).


This is all you need to clear and cleanse your Aura so whether you choose to hire me for the bath ritual or you bathe yourself in your own home this is a perfect start to any tantra ceremony

I include seasalt scrubs and massage the salt scrub over all the major chakras in your body when we’re together and we will be breathing in synchronicity harmonizing the #bijamantras and amplifying your energy prior to your #tantramassage

if it’s within your means and budget please allow me 24–48 hours and a substantial deposit so I may procure a beautiful suite with jacuzzi for two.

You are always encouraged to Read my website first prior to calling or emailing me.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please consider subscribing to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and get to know me from the videos. I post frequently and upload fresh content and flash sales and offers there.

Please introduce yourself via email tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

or call me directly to schedule a tantra ceremony when you’re ready 312 339 7707

All new students of tantra are welcome to try my beginner’s level offerings and more experienced students may book advanced level tantra.

I welcome men, women and couples and look forward to meeting you for a unique and blissful escape.

February 27, 2023 No comments

Choosing a tantra healer for skillset rather than physical appearance

Many people who’ve never had #tantra before honestly don’t know what to look for when choosing the right #tantragoddess because they lack experience and don’t see the red flags.

I’ve personally been mistreated by men who didn’t think I looked like the gallery images on my website.  Instead of politely declining and just offering me a cancelation fee they chose passive aggressive and abusive behavior.

So many men only equate beauty for kindness and intelligence or worthiness. They refuse to open their heart ❤ to any teacher who doesn’t look like their ideal vision of beauty.

By being unkind to your Goddess you basically block positive flow of energy and seeing the Divine Seed of a love in a stranger which is actually the purpose of tantra yoga and tantra massage.

Most men choose their Goddess solely on chemical or physical attraction which negates the ideal that we are all worthy of love and adulation no matter what physical form we chose.

New students of tantra are at a huge disadvantage because they don’t have prior experience and don’t have anything to compare with regards to what is an authentic tantra healing or a fluffy rub down.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with feeding your Soul need by hiring an attractive and aesthetically pleasing Goddess. If you know bodily perfection is an absolute deal breaker for you then be honest with yourself but if you end up using your funds on the ultimate beauty but never learned the basics of tantra then don’t blame your provider.

Thanks for following my blog.

If you want a deeper understanding of tantra, breathwork, alternative healing and kundalini Awakening have a look at my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Introduce yourself to me via email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and or call me directly to be considered for a ceremony in Chicago’s Gold Coast.

February 8, 2023 No comments

Establish your goals & boundaries regarding #chicagotantra before we meet

No one likes to be disappointed after receiving a massage and so it’s completely up to you to delineate healthy boundaries prior to receiving a holistic service.

On Monday morning 🌄 I woke up in extreme pain…my jaw ached, my neck muscles ached, and my shoulders were stiff.

I was in so much pain I tried to force vomit to change the pressure in my skull 💀 cavity and that actually did bring me some form of relief.

I decided to book myself a last minute massage 💆‍♀️ and instead of my Therapist letting me relax all she wanted to do was pry about my life because I made the mistake of telling her I was a massage Therapist too.

She was incessant and I did tell her where the areas of pain were in my body and even though I mentioned it was sinus related she started me facedown in the massage cradle.

I should have spoken up and suggested we begin face up first but I deferred to her wishes instead hoping for the best.

After about 25 minutes of laying facedown I spoke up and stated it’s gotten to the point where laying face down is aggravating my sinus cavities and we need to finish face up so we can work on my TMJ issues.

She knew rudimentary moves but not advanced myofascial release and the massage was “decent enough ” but I still left the table in pain and felt a bit better.

What shocked me though is upon payment I was charged 165 for a 50 minute massage 💆‍♀️ because gratuity was built into the experience and this most definitely wasn’t a medical grade massage.

I left absolutely disappointed because I spent my session chit chatting and answering questions about my massage practice with my masseuse and entertaining her instead of being allowed to fully relax.

I’m sharing these details with all of you because I don’t wish to ruin anyone’s #tantra massage ceremony when booking a session with me.

I want you to tell me how much pressure you need, where the areas of soreness reside, whether you love chit chat or complete silence and how often you need a bathroom break.

it’s your session and your time to decompress so let me know more about your goals and don’t feel bad about interrupting the flow of the session by taking breaks, asking for water and telling me you need a blanket.

The co creation of #sacredspace is about both of us feeling comfortable and accepted. 
We both need to communicate our needs and honor one another’s boundaries.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

click on my website and blog to learn more

subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly  to feel comfortable about meeting me

send me an introductory email 📧
to
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
butterflyshadows@aol.com

312 339 7707
call me directly to book a session

Let’s work together soon ❤