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June 10, 2015 No comments

Paid advertisers watch out for illegal practices by the Eros guide www.erosguide.com

The Eros guide otherwise known as the Adult entertainment industry’s premier source for BDSM, Tantra, Massage, VIP Escorts and Porn stars has decided to Ban me because I decided against being a VIP Advertiser and preferred to keep my services completely legal in nature.

All anyone now has to do is google up http://www.erosguide.com and they will see numerous unhappy advertisers who illegally had their photographs removed by their site and text removed by this hypocritical team of con artists for not complying with their “new standards”.

For God’s sake when I lived in New Orleans for several months I was lucky if my phone rang once a week because no one even heard of the Eros guide or knew how to google http://www.erosguide.com so they had to find me on google first then they found the eros guide.
The eros guide now obviously plays favorites promoting Agencies, Porn stars, Vip escorts and GFE’s but they decided to ban me today even though I agreed to honor their wishes and comply fully with their new publishing standards. Their publishing Standards by the way keeps changing once or twice a month and without warning or reason they will willingly remove paragraphs of texts or pictures that you have uploaded to be a part of their expensive marketing campaign.

The eros guide otherwise known as WWW.erosguide.com now promotes under age web cam girl, porn star actresses and Vip escorts so if you are a massage therapist or tantra yoga teacher the general audience will most likely overlook your ad in favor of a more illegal experience.

I am warning new people NOT to give your money to http://www.erosguide.com because after you pay for your online advertising they will change all the rules on you and remove your ad completely even after you have paid for the advertising and certain pictures will be pulled off their site even if the pictures are perfectly beautiful and legitimate pictures of you. One time http://www.erosguide.com removed a nude picture of me with a rose flower covering my genitals because they said it was a superimposed image over a picture of me and therefore did not meet their standards.

If you go online and google up http://www.erosguide.com you can find plenty of angry advertisers who used legal text and legal pictures who were kicked off the site permanently. I see now that Stormi and Lisa now probably receive kickbacks from paid agencies and little people like me who work for themselves are being weeded out from being able to be a part of their website. Since the Eros guide or http://www.erosguide.com has now gone a much shadier route they are probably not a company anyone should trust. After all why should you trust a company who has to use DARK SIDE PRODUCTIONS as their fake alias or psuedonym? What is the Eros Guide or http://www.erosguide.com trying to hide anyway that you are billed by DARK SIDE PRODUCTIONS AND not their company name?

Be wise choose not to advertise with http://www.erosguide.com. You would be much better served using a google adwords campaign.

Yours
Goddess Diana
of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
no longer a paid advertiser with http://www.erosguide.com

June 10, 2015 No comments

Parting ways with The Eros guide

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Dear Audience,
A few months ago I noticed a drastic change on the Eros Guide and mostly the quality of calls I received were now a lot more inappropriate due to a change of template style and a new woman that had been assigned to my Eros Account.
A new marketing representative by the name of Lisa had been assigned to go over my account and she would literally call me multiple times during my work week mentioning the Premier Services Section and how it would benefit my Ad campaign if I chose to offer ILLEGAL SERVICES namely Vip Escort and GFE. Lisa would ask me if I was satisfied with the changes the Eros guide was making and she invited me to share commentary. When I was brutally honest and calmly told her the site was wonderful when they were more streamlined Lisa would get irrationally upset with me and PUNISH me for sharing my viewpoint.
I would always receive a nasty call the next day from one of the Eros guide Representatives whether it was Tim from the Legal department or Stormi who is in charge of marketing and Sales.

They would delete text from my ads which included the word Yoni. I mean the word YONI based on Sanskrit simply means birthplace or womb. Yoni is a sacred word and to me Yoni means flower. The eros guide basically called me up yesterday when I was having a bad day. Lisa was quite rude to me as I was waiting to visit a doctor and I was in the middle of a medical emergency. The eros guide should be ashamed of itself. They now victimize women in my industry and because I chose to use the word YONI Worship which in Tantra means HONORING THE DIVINE FEMININE AND HONORING THE GODDESS IN ALL OF US I have had my account deactivated completely even though I was an advertiser for over 15 years.

The Eros guide now only wishes to promote Cam girls and GFE and VIP Escorts but because I chose to keep my ads pure and only stay within the bounds of True authentic Tantra healing energy work and True Massage related services Lisa chose to harass me for the past 7 months constantly barraging me with inane requests to change certain “words” that she deemed inappropriate or illegal. They even removed a text that stated that I would be able to train men to sustain full arousal and full body waves of energetic bliss using a technique known as Edge play. Now everyone that uses the Eros Guide knows Edge play is a word known in the field and is perfectly acceptable and legal with no sexual connotations.

When I recently looked up the Eros guide online I also noticed they received a number of major complaints from people in my industry who were also very displeased with services rendered from the Eros guide. If you take the time to look up THE RIP OFF REPORT you will see many providers of healing services similar to mine have been ripped off by the eros guide having paid good money to the Eros guide only to have beautiful text removed and pictures removed from off their site or advertising removed completely even though the advertising was paid for in full.

I suppose I am deeply grateful that after all these years I have been penalized now by the Eros guide because I chose to be true to myself and not wish to become a CAM GIRL or a GFE OR an ESCORT OR shall we say A PIECE OF MEAT.

The Eros guide has changed their advertising tactics and is now appealing to a completely different audience mostly men seeking BDSM or PROSTITUTION RELATED SERVICES. I won’t be sorry if the FEDS choose to shut down the eros guide permanently for insinuating illegal services online so real hard core PORN QUEENS are allowed to post but not real healers. The energetic vibration of the Eros Guide has now been lowered to a much lower vibration and a much shadier audience of men who are seeking a quick fix. Everyone knows that GFE means unprotected sex. The literal term of GFE according to Lisa of the Eros guide means she is going to pretend she is your girlfriend but everyone in the sex industry can google up the catch phrase GFE and understand that literally and technically GFE means french kissing which leads to herpes simplex II, unprotected sex which means you are not using a condom and GFE also implies oral sex which of course leads to a host of diseases like syphillis not to mention other sexually transmitted diseases.

If Lisa is implying that someone like me who really wants to promote whole body health is simply not legitimate then I wish to post on my blog for all to read that Tim from the Legal department banned me from every advertising my massage services and my tantra healing ceremonies because I chose not to be part of their VIP ESCORT SECTION. I once made the mistake of purchasing their VIP program and Lisa harassed me with upgrades trying to get me to purchase premium services, banners and other wasteful services that truly never made my phone ring ever because they have shortened the text on their templates and they have certain words banned on their site so the viewer is completely confused about what is offered.

Today they deactivated my Tantra and Massage account because yesterday during a tape recorded conversation with Lisa I mentioned to her that I am a true tantra teacher. I love teaching men how to honor and worship the Goddess and that YONI is a perfectly beautiful word to use. I stuck to my guns. I told her I am not offering sex to any of my clients nor do I wish to offer sexual intercourse but I prefer the sacred art of sustaining my energy and practicing celibacy keeps me emotionally balanced and better able to receive my new guests with a happier frame of mind.

My experiences with the Eros Guide these past two years has been very combative, humiliating and a true waste of my time, energy and money. They have constantly changed their template and changed their service to strictly online interaction. Each time they asked me for feedback I told them the truth and I stated their original template and design brought me the most work from the most desirable group of people. Now it appears backpages is the new source for anyone to find out about my services. I even asked other women in my field if they were still receiving calls using the Eros guide and they were quite honest with me and said since Eros has changed its template and standards and changed its content they are lucky receive 3 inquiries a week. I noticed that most of my calls from people on backpages or google search engines but no longer from the Eros guide. I even asked clients from New Orleans how they found me and they told me they had never heard of the eros guide. I asked a client of mine from St. Louis if he even uses the Eros guide and he said he found the women to be a bit overpriced and nasty to him on the phone so he stopped searching for women from the Eros guide since the Quality of women who advertise their has gone down too.

I even notice that AGENCIES posing as independent contractors such as THE KEY NAME penelope Waters is now posing as an independent contract so not only is Eros guide now playing favorites to Agencies they are now excluding small private tantra educators from using their site to promote their legal services. It appears to me that Lisa is now formally playing favorites and promoting professional agencies, professional GFE’s and professional prostitutes on their site and now getting ride of trained massage therapists and trained Tantra educators.

If you go online and view the women who are currently on the Eros guide they will even show you their TER id’s. Everyone who is a professional hobbyist knows that TER stands for The erotic review. The erotic review board is a place where hobbyists can rate and review their experiences with a professional porn star and with a GFE or a Prostitute. I am not prejudiced against the industry but I am stating a fact that because the Eros guide chooses of their own free will to ban someone like me yet promote porn stars who include their TER reviews I am going to assume I no longer fit into the mold that the Eros guide is now leaning towards.

It appears to me that if you are a VIP escort, GFE, professional BDSM or Madame you are going to be welcomed into their fold and allowed to post your services online for all to see but if you are a trained professional like me with over 16 years of experience with tantra yoga training and massage you might be banned from being included into their new “look.”

I was penalized today by Lisa and Tim from the Legal department of the Eros guide because I was upset that they decided to remove two beautiful sentences delineating Yoni worship.
I am no longer allowed to advertise with the Eros guide because I chose to defend myself and use the word Yoni.

Yours Goddess Diana of
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

June 3, 2015 No comments

♡♥The Healing Benefits of the Tantra Bathing Ceremony ♥♡

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Bathing Ceremonies make any Tantra Ceremony more intense simply because we have time to slow down our heart rate; breathe in the aromas of the bath and be focused on the now.

We all have a tendency to jump ahead of ourselves whether we are planning our activities several hours into the future or deciding what we wish to wear for a party. Life is so much more than looking into our past or prying into our future.

The bath ceremony is serene. We are submerged in still waters, getting used to the temperature of the room air and the temperatures of the water. We look inwards and our bodily sensations are enhanced in this stillness.

I have been spending a total of 15 years in the field of healing whether it was pure reiki, deep tissue massage, sensory awareness healing or hot stone therapy and all modalities bleed into each other.

Each session enhances your body’s ability to heal itself of trauma and allows you to move ahead and into a much better place emotionally.
The bathing ceremony I offer escalates the healing process. You can leave the bath water feeling level headed, more in balance and all the toxicity of the day will leave your spirit body and well as your physical body.

All the ingredients in the bath ceremony are highly purified, organic ingredients made from pure essential oils, sea salts and oils that help pull out your toxins in a gentle but powerful way. Anyone who leaves the ceremonial bath will be able to fully appreciate and receive kundalini shakti and the muscles will be able to soften under my touch.

Please make sure to enjoy my bathing ritual here now that I am visiting St. Louis Missouri. I have been on tour for the past 8 months and it is a treat for me to offer you a decadent and healing bath ritual for two.

When I create Sacred space for two it is with the intention of mutual shared energies so we both benefit and heal combining play and therapeutic touch in a safe environment so you feel fed and cherished.

♡♥St. Louis, Missouri is a new city for me to explore and one by one I hope to meet you in a space of shared tranquility and intimacy ❤♡

♥Goddess Diana♥
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse, confidante, energy healer
and Reiki Master♡
Fully certified to teach Tantra Yoga
to individuals and Couples

I also welcome sponsorship for small group
workshops or individuals who want one to one
training for a full day or a full weekend

For additional questions
contact me 7 days a week
between the hours of 11am
until 11pm
Serious inquiries always
welcomed and Guidance Coaching
and Counseling over the phone
for a small fee♡
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May 27, 2015 No comments

♡♥Goddess Diana Visits St. Missouri so hope to meet all of you ♥♡

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I have been indulging in road trips ever since October 2nd of last year and NOW I am enjoying my brief journey here in St. Louis, Missouri. I have to be honest here; I have not visited St. Louis, Missouri since I was an eight year old taking a Greyhound bus with my parents from Illinois just to see the Arch. I have never had a reason to explore Missouri up until now because I accepted a gracious ride share offered to me by a very kind man who met with me in New Orleans, Louisiana and had to get back to Missouri. I don’t know how to drive (yet) but I really love road trips and I have been on road trips for a total of 8 months now with my pets.

I am offering tantra massage here in St. Louis, Missouri for the week of May 24th and If anyone wishes to see me for some one on one personalized attention and healing I am here now and I would love to meet anyone who has a burning desire to explore the awakening of their own unique energy.

Tantra can refresh you and rejuvenate you. There is always that chance that any physical pain you have will be released during a tantra healing or at least make you feel much lighter.

The purpose of tantra is to restore balance in your body and to hopefully help you understand that breath is what carries your energy everywhere and help you achieve profound states of bliss.

I can assure you you will feel more centered, more in charge of your own body and more willing to take changes.
There is no doubt you will even enhance your ability to lucid dream.

Please do join me here in St. Louis Missouri

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
St. Louis, Missouri is the SHOW ME state so I’d be honored to show all of you how powerful, how unique, how creative you truly are. Let’s Co create Sacred Space ♥♡

April 29, 2015 No comments

Goddess Worship is the Sacred Act of Pure, unconditional Love ❤♡

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Today I’d love to help people understand the difference between raw, naked, passionate lust and true, intimate, compelling love making. Did you know you can make love to your lover without laying a finger on him or her? Did you know the preparation which leads up to the love making shows more care and concern than engaging in a raw, sexual encounter.

Almost all of us can appreciate that as young teenagers or college age adolescents we all had at least one sensual encounter where raw lust rather than love was involved. I feel that women have more of a tendency to give of themselves when they think they are in love and that women must feel safe before engaging in any sexual activity with someone she has chemical feelings for.

There is a difference between raw, impassioned chemistry and the vulnerability of being in love with someone.
When I work with men on Goddess worship my intention is to hopefully teach them how to use their voice, their eyes, their hands and their gentle intentions in a more loving and sensual way to instill a sense of calm, peacefulness and ease in their lover. No one likes being “seized” or hungrily groped during a love making session.

My true intentions are to help alleviate shyness and awkwardness between a man and is lover by teaching him to be less needy and more natural. Women are very sensitive beings and we love to approached with tenderness and not so much a sense of urgency or neediness. When men are too needy and focus on touch only from a place of desperation and lack then women tend to coil up and retreat back into themselves which will only make a man feel even more vulnerable and misunderstood. If a man is patient enough to listen to his lover’s body and get a sense of her body’s reaction to more gentle touches and strokes then his reward will be her yielding and he will feel her soften and invite more touch to the love making session.

Making love is always an art. When you dine out with someone special you want to take time to listen to your friend and you want to be non rushed. You are there for companionship not necessarily to gobble your food down as greedily and speedily as you can with a sense of urgency and impending doom. This is why men wish to learn tantra yoga and goddess worship.

Goddess worship is not BDSM. Goddess worship is the art of being open enough to listen and send loving vibes into the arena of sensual foreplay. You want to learn how to approach your lover with true compassion and not so much a motive or agenda. You are not there to “get her off” or fulfill your lustful needs. You are there to support her as a real woman who has vulnerability. You want to send her soothing sounds and make sure she feels safe in your presence. You should also be prepared for her to lay out a set of strong boundaries for you and if you hear her say she needs some time out from sensual play then you need to honor her wishes and let her feel safe enough to tell you what she needs more of or less of.

The session is about her and not you so please stand back and do not let your “ego” get in the way. Goddess Worship is an honoring of her divine feminine and her gentleness. You want to give her time to expand her heart towards you so that she feels safe and more receptive to your touch. Do not be impatient for instant results and do not make her feel self conscious if she can not have an orgasm in front of you. Orgasm is not the goal of a Goddess worship healing; orgasm is a delightful surprise that happens quite by accident with the main focus being her complete healing and deep feeling of being loved and honored by you.

Lust does not enter as part of the Goddess worship ceremony. Lust is a reaction to pure sexual attraction but if you are a true healer you do not have to be sexually attracted to your partner to heal her. You are there to make her feel safe and more feminine. You are the compassionate soul who loves her without conditions or ulterior motives.

The heart can become more guarded through years of repeated abuse either during the formative years of childhood or young adulthood dependent upon our encounters with the same sex and the opposite sex. Goddess worship helps heal those old wounds and traumas and brings two compassionate lovers closer together. You can share and trust more if you learn the basic healing techniques of Goddess worship and tantra massage.

I love working with men who have had no prior experience in tantra or Goddess worship. It is harder for me to teach men how to touch with love if they are visiting me for the wrong reasons. Tantra will heal you whether you decided to visit a goddess out of pure lust or whether you felt the need to be pampered for a few hours. There is no getting around the healing and you will find out you learn more about patience, empathy and unconditional love if you let yourself go and try to learn something new rather than follow the same old recipe.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse, Educator, friend, Holistic Healer,
Couples Coach and Tantra Massage therapist

April 23, 2015 No comments

Come♬ join me for Tantra and Couples Massage in New Orleans for Jazz Fest ♬♪

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New Orleans, Louisiana isn’t just for DRINKING, PARTYING, CAROUSING, STRIP BARS, GOOD FOOD, JAZZ FEST AND ALL AROUND ROWDINESS ❤

NEW ORLEANS LOUISIANA IS ABOUT AWAKENING YOUR INNER CHILD AND EXPLORING SEXUAL ENERGIES IN A SAFE AND GENTLE WAY.

THERE IS a lot of feminine energy in this city and I want to help introduce that feminine energy back into your life whether you are here exploring the city by yourself or a as a couple ❤

What compliments outstanding food and the Jazz festival? If you are in New Orleans, Louisiana for Jazz fest come by yourself or as a couple and indulge in some pampering here today or this weekend.
I love spoiling my guests with an infusion of soulful and healing music that will tune up the vibrations of your chakras and we can co create some magic together.
If you are a couple who wants to learn the basics about breath or touch you will be able to train with me for some practical and easy massage practices this weekend here in New Orleans. I am not just a tantra healer but a gifted massage and reiki teacher and we can choose a half day or just a simple 90 minutes session together so you both can learn how to touch with compassion.

Massage is the most wonderful medicine. I use organic aromatherapy oils to enhance your ability to breathe more profoundly and get your diaphragm muscles to work. Constricted diaphragm muscles are caused by inappropriate breathing and we learn this as we get older through bad posture or unhealthy habits like smoking cigarettes or cigars.

After the party is over for jazz fest come visit me or I will visit you at your hotel or time share here in New Orleans Lousiana. My passion is to make you feel alive, awakened, empowered, lively and profoundly passionate about yourself again.

Consider tantra as a vehicle to put you in a better frame of mind to receive love, return love and have your body spin in the right circles again. Chakra healing and Chakra balancing are part of our tantra ceremony.

I hope to join you these next few days for Massage, aromatherapy, reiki, tantra yoga, couples massage and sound healing here in the heart of New Orleans, Louisiana. New Orleans is such a romantic and feminine city ruled under Scorpio. She is sexual city but she is also yielding, soft and appealing so let your heart petals unfold and join me for Compassion exercises, deep peaceful breaths and mutual cuddling.

New Orleans is for lovers… ❤ ❤ ❤

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

April 19, 2015 No comments

The healing Aspects of a Sensual Massage ☆★

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When was the last time you were touched? Do you work long hours at your computer for the type of work you do? Are you in a job where you are consistently giving more and more of yourself and your time to your coworker? Do you give of yourself to your colleagues but don’t receive the same consideration back?

If you answered yes to any of these questions chances are your body and mind are eventually going to burn out and your ability to cope with stress will reach its limit. You will begin to feel a bit “rough” around the edges and might even feel yourself becoming “short” with people you converse with or a bit “nippy” when you meet people randomly on the streets.

How can this be happening to you so suddenly? If all you do is give of yourself 24/7 without receiving a bit of love or kindness back eventually your body will give out on you to the point where you can make yourself sick and run down or you will have an accident.

Yes — accidents are our body’s way of dealing with stress in stressful times because if you don’t treat yourself with kindness your body will give you an ENFORCED time out even in the form of a sprained ankle or a small mishap. I can assure you this will happen to you because little incidents like this used to happen to me in my past if I did not value time out and appreciate the fact that my body needs to be pampered once in a blue moon too.

Where does sensual massage factor into the Equation? If you have not been in a loving relationship in eons perhaps sensual massage is going to be more of a bridge for you to acclimate your body back into receiving mode and help you release some of your boundaries so you are better prepared to dive into a relationship once again with a healthy partner.

Good touch is most important not just for lifting our moods but so that we can know the difference between a healing and loving tender approach and the more unsettling touch that is not so loving and is very “conditional”.

Sometimes people have no clue how to approach us with tender care. Sometimes we can go out on a date and have an agenda in mind but the date ends in rough touch. Sometimes the people we go out with are seeking something more akin to friends with benefits. Friends with Benefits can work for some people but not all of us. Some people do not have tine in their lives for intimacy but others truly crave intimacy more than straight on sex and that is where sensual massage and tantra massage comes into play.

If you have gone months or years without touch your body can break down on you. Everyone needs a bit of tender loving care and people simply perform better under stress when they receive a hug or a gentle massage. Deep tissue massage, sensual massage, tantra yoga and reiki all are powerful sources of tenderness when we don’t have time in our lives for a real life partner.

Some of us have jobs that involve constant travel. If you travel a bit and you maybe only spend a quarter of your time in your home you still have needs. You can only go without touch for so long before you start feeling a bit “off” or imbalanced. Your immune system starts to shut down and you begin to feel a bit exhausted or confused during day to day activities.

Sensory pleasure, cuddling, gentleness and healing light energetic touch completes the balance inside of you and the back and forth positive interaction between you and your healer opens the pathway for greater things to come to you because you are in a better frame of mind.

I love making people feel whole again and needed and loved. This work I do is my passion and I can’t think of a more fulfilling path than helping people feel touch in a safe and sane arena of healing and sensual play.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

March 30, 2015 No comments

What makes a Tantra Ceremony special? ❤♡

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There are many roads to happiness in this lifetime and my number one passion will always be the ability to carry the work I do anywhere I want to in the United States. There are some cities where tantra is well known and well received and other cities that are far more challenging such as New Orleans, Louisiana.
Let’s face it, this is a DRINKING town. People come here to let loose and this is one of the few cities that will allow anyone to walk around with cups of gargantuan sized lethal doses and quantities of alcohol so the fact that I exist here might not pique enough tourist’s interests because this city is known for stripping bars, great food, late night drinking establishments and of course casinos where you can win a lot or lose everything.

Why on Earth should anyone drop everything and come see me ? Well I can assure you during my sessions I work on tight areas first because sexual energy can only flow freely when your body is completely relaxed and muscle tension can and will inhibit your sexual energies from traveling where it needs to go.

Sexual energy can travel up towards the top of your skull or it can even travel downwards to your ankles and personally I feel the energy knows exactly where to go because if you have had old injuries anywhere in your body your sexual energy is going to go directly to that area of your body that needs some extra TLC.

Tender loving care is exactly what you will receive during any of my tantra ceremonies. Tantra is not simply a journey in arousal and testing your sexual boundaries; tantra is an exploration of you living completely in the moment and being aware of the weight of your body.
All tantra ceremonies involve a connection between me and you but also a deeper connection and link to your own body.

You will be made to be aware of the temperature of the room that we both inhabit and the feeling of my hands as I wander all over your body. You will be aware of the weight and pressure of your own body on the bed and you will be breathing deeply and slowly alternatively into your heart center and your abdomen as I touch you so you can feel energy open up where formally you were numbed out.

If all you do as a tourist is simply numb out by drinking you are missing you. You are missing the gentle nuances of energies and the subtle smells and tastes that bring about heightened awareness. You can numb yourself out when visiting New Orleans or you can spend some time getting to know your own body more intimately.

I enjoy teaching beginners how to breathe deeply for maybe the very first time of their life. We tend to breathe very shallowly as we get older. We become more self conscious and when we listen to others we might even stop breathing altogether. The central nervous system relies on proper breath to work properly and to sustain our bodies. If you constantly breathe shallowly this leads eventually to stress and over taxes your body. Little things and annoyances begin to bother you. Tantra yoga allows you to learn how to gain more control of the way you breathe and it sets a pace so that you feel you have more control and command over your nervous system and your body’s ability to heal.

Tantra massage is a very unifying, healing exploration in full body orgasmic bliss. We start with blockages in both your physical body and then your astral body. The focus is on healing and preparing you for extreme weightlessness and timelessness. A good session should feel as if you are floating and your natural breathing rhythm will set the pace so you feel as if time has never passed.

Share some sacred time during your next vacation. There will always be time enough for drinking but there is never enough time to learn more about your body’s natural abilities to heal itself.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

March 15, 2015 No comments

♼ What exactly happens during Your first Tantra Session? ♻

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First of all I do follow a “recipe” and I do not both at the same time. If you over think what may or may not happen during your first tantra session you may not fully understand that there is no thinking involved but there is an awakening of all latent energy and trapped trauma. I find that it’s best to follow a simple process of connection, breathing, mutual touch and open communication.

I encourage everyone for the first time to ask me as many questions as they wish. You can ask me why we are singing together or why we are breathing so deeply. Most people don’t realize that 60% of our “panic” attacks are caused by breathing improperly and breathing too shallow. Shallow breathing translates into muscular pain in your diaphragm and when you connect with me I will make sure to slow down your breathing pace for every touch you receive.

The breathing is the key ingredient and if you start this practice every day it will be a new practice that gradually becomes easier so you will naturally breathe deeply every time you receive a tantra healing or a sports massage. Breathing facilitates complete oxygenation of your body’s cells and when you learn to breathe deeply you will feel warmth and tingling everywhere in your body. I have seen people shake a bit and this is trapped energies that have remained stagnant but during a tantra yoga session your energy is free to roam everywhere and you will literally feel a vibratory “tingle” that will permeate from the tips of your toes through the roof of your mouth!

Don’t over stress about what will or what will not happen. What ever happens is your unique response to your body’s ability to process kundalini energy. Use your sexual energy to regain your sense of grounding. Use your energy to activate all muscles and chakras in your physical and spiritual body by breathing and keeping your mind free of clutter.

Talk therapy can also be a part of our shared time together. It’s only natural and healing for you to release pent up feelings and I encourage beginners to share anything that should crop up as your memories are triggered.

Goddess Diana

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

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March 2, 2015 No comments

Connection Exercises that build trust between you and your Tantra Partner ❤♡

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When you are fully prepared to connect with your partner’s energy be ready to honor your beloved and that means HONOR your beloved with praise and let all your passive aggressive anger fall to the way side. When you are fully present for your loved one you are going to agree that for this moment in time you are going to your hold your partner in the highest regard. Now is not a good time to mention that their eating habits are poor or that the hairstyle they chose is not suitable or becoming to their features. Forget all the bad things. Forget the buttons they seem to push when the two of you are arguing over something silly.

Here is what you need to focus on and these steps will instill a sense of trust and a fresh start.

Put aside your anger. You are going to heal your partner and you are going to gaze upon their features in a a completely calm steady gaze of unconditional love because this is your time to be a giver and you want to reassure your partner you find them stimulating enough to focus on. When you gaze quietly into their eyes try and keep a blank mind and don’t use a critical eye. We as humans are very intuitive and if your body language is giving off signals of anger or discontent your loved one will sense this in you and not feel comfortable enough to receive a healing from you.

Spooning and cuddling your partner is a simply connection exercise that is very tantra like in nature and very organic. You are holding a space for your partner and your cuddle will be soothing so pay attention to your partner’s body but don’t focus on the sexual areas. Avoid touching your partner’s nipples and avoid touching their gentles. This is not about “groping” or molesting your beloved to suit your urges; this cuddling exercise is about being the soothing embrace they need at the end of the day to fully unwind and be still. You will be breathing in synchronicity and breathing deeply and slowly using the gentle pressure of your bodies to fall into an even steady pace of trust and alignment.

When you have this spooning time try not to be in on a time clock. I want you to ditch your phones, turn off the television set and unplug your electronic devices. You are in the moment and your beloved needs to know they are more important than anyone or any work deadline. They alone are your world and the focus is on mutual healing and peacefulness.

Once you have had the time to cuddle ask your partner what kind of touch they might prefer. You can introduce stillness of hand placement where you hold your hands in stillness on their body for extended lengths of time and simply breathe with them. You can introduce light caress where you are lightly tickling their body with light strokes from your finger tips and your finger pads. You can ask them if they might prefer a hard, deep tissue massage that is invigorating. You can also introduce tapping and steadily but firmly tap on different parts of their body so they feel your energy. This is going to be a session determined on what THEY NEED and not what you THINK they might need.

Don’t play guessing games but truly ask your loved one what kind of touch they crave.

Remember this session is not about you and you need to leave your ego out of it. You are going to let your partner know how loved they truly are and how deeply honored and respected they should and will feel. It feels good to be honored and it feels even better to be listened to.

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