Hello! My name is Diana Lynn Grossman , shapeshifter 🐼 playful muse   reiki master, and psychic, alternative healer for over twenty five years and proud to be a part of the sexual industry.

I have a sweet tooth, adore my cuddly pets, am playful, and strongly passionate about working with a select few of incredibly sensitive and consciously aware individuals who accidentally find my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com while seeking a tantra massage in Chicago!

Lately the government has passed a new law which has shut down many adult oriented websites such as Backpage, the massage sections of Craigslist, cityvibe, foxylist, the erotic reviw in the united states and many others I may have left out.

This new law will criminalize any adult message board forum or certain adult content advertising portals and hold them legally responsible for sex trafficking!

I am strongly against sex trafficking but now sex workers have lost a viable and safe option for advertising their services online indefinitely unless you the general public decide to get involved and pass laws decriminalizing sex related fields and finding new healthier options to keep escorts and sex workers educated, safe, regulated and legalized.

I propose any woman or man who is truly excited to teach sexual education or offer healing massages or escort services be screened for mental and physical health including a criminal background check to see if they are emotionally prepared to create sacred space for their potential clients.

Potential clients will also be pre screened by the government prior to a sensual encounter and they will also go through the same rigorous testing to make sure they are disease free and of sound mind before being eligible to hire a sex worker.

My proposal will benefit everyone creating mutual rules, boundaries and self respect.  Sex workers will be regulated and licensed with free health insurance benefits and increases in salary based on their client’s feedback and positive reviews.

Clients who act harmfully or disrespectfully towards any escort or sex surrogate will be penalized and subject to counseling until they are deemed harmless to any sex worker they choose to employ.

Sex workers must take classes in alternative healing, abnormal pychology, classes in tantra yoga and traditional massage therapy modalities.  Sex workers will take new classes every  year and earn more money based on their increased skill set rather than their good looks and youth.  The younger, more inexperienced sex workers first starting out will earn less but they will have the potential to grow income based on good reviews and the willingness to take on extra classes in alternative healing and traditional bodywork like chakra balancing.

Each month, sex workers will go through a health check preventing any unforeseen illness or STD.  Every sex worker must also pass a drug test to ensure they are clear headed and emotionally fit to heal others.

Every sex worker will have gracious tax deductions for being independent contractors and their tax dollars will go to their retirement fund and health insurance because they are providing a needful service to anyone who is touch starved or going through marital challenges.

As the sex worker ages he or she will go through a fully subsidized retraining program meaning they can now be trained to become sex educators in schools, lead tantra yoga retreats or go into a completely brand new career with free housing until they are fully capable of embarking on a brand new career path.

Does this sound fair and comforting to all of you? Would you like to see these new ideas being implemented soon?  Please support your sex workers and fight the new bill that has been passed.  Sex workers typically love what they do!  Let us be respected, honored, adored, educated and legalized so we can finally be protected by the law rather than violated and raped by law makers who have not given this new law serious thought.  We want to protect our civil liberties not destroy what we have fought so hard to uphold!

Get in contact with Congress and legalize sacred sensuality 🐦

Happy Mercury retrograde 💓 I’ve always found this a challenging time personally in my career as a tantra guide because most of my days are spent communicating with the verbal and written word and Mercury retrograde can invoke miscommunication and even irritability.

I’m going to celebrate this retrograde by focusing on intentions and being more patient with people contacting me for the first time.  Be careful with how you phrase your words and my best advice is to be clearly honest before you speak or write to avoid arguments and confusion.

My sessions will benefit you in multiple ways but mostly you will leave my space being more open, more communicative, less inhibited and more empathic.  Empathy is the ability to place yourself deeply in someone’s situation.  You understand fully all the emotions of anyone whether they are content, confused, angry or despondent.  An empath can tune into the wavelength of a single individual or room full of people and feel that distinctive vibe as if it was their own emotion.

A natural born empath must be cautious not to confuse other people’s emotions as their own mood and so an empath is s psychic sponge able to soak up all the joy or drama of anyone they are close to.  Because of their strong intuitive nature’s they do need to protect their own aura by perfecting some grounding and self cleansing rituals so they won’t take on the psychic debris of people they have interacted with.

Tantra massage is an organic art and ritual which will include all the basics of helping you become more aware of your boundaries and better able to implement tools to keep your energy vibrant and cleansed.

Breathing deeply is the first step we engage in to activate our chakra centers.  I’ll change into your energy bodies and you’ll learn how to use seed sounds to cleanse, heal and activate your aura.  Each breath we take helps create a circular flow of positivity between the two of us and with just one session you’ll feel comfortable enough to share these breathing techniques with a good friend or your love partner so you can create a bond of understanding and trust with anyone you care about.

Many of my tantra massage sessions involve mutual cuddling and sacred touch.  As everyone knows human beings thrive on healing, compassionate touch and our moods improve as well as our  ability to learn about ourselves and others.  Touch is a gateway to understanding your limitlessness as well as your boundaries.  During our shared tantra ceremony you’ll be sharing your boundaries with me and we’ll be giving each other feedback on what feels comforting and loving or what feels threatening or unpleasant.  Your tantra massage is a time for you to grow but also a time for you to unplug and escape mundane concerns.

If you really wish to blow away your veil I’d suggest a three hour journey which includes a bath ceremony similar to watsu where I will be partially supporting your weight in the bouyant water and you will be guided in three dimensional breathing while I sing into your chakra bodies.  Your third eye or ajna in Sanskrit  will be gently coaxed into awakening.  Nothing will feel rushed to you as I chant into your body.  You’ll simply feel comforted and loved as your body vibrates to the bija mantra chants.  These are baby steps to awakening your intuition.  As your kundalini energy is coaxed into awakening your ability to see and feel emotions will increase your capacity to love without condition and potentially be more compassionate.

There is a difference between being empathic and having compassion for others.  Being compassionate involves actively seeking to create a better condition of mental well being for anyone who you see is suffering.  You are consciously activating your heart center and you are making a choice to help someone so you are using your gift of empathy but actively seeking to create a positive change in a being’s life.

When  you actively engage in energy exchanges you practice heart centered and mindful touch activating your heart chakra with the intention of sending unconditional love to your partner.  All your chakra centers are pleasantly engaged in compassionate touch and your intuition is at the forefront allowing you to take pleasure at the lightest of caresses to move the greatest energies.  You will learn the difference between subtle touch and baser more clumsy non sensate energies.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete understanding of what tantra massage and reiki can offer you!  You will have an opportunity to explore your aura and learn how to be an empath while exploring the sensual realms of kundalini Shakti 🐍 I can briefly summarize all your immediate benefits in my final paragraph.  Tantra enables you to be more present, more focused, more compassionate and more intuitive.  You will be both giver and receiver and you will be a student and teacher.  Your chakras will be cleansed, honored and rebirthed.  Your sense of inner calm will be restored as your core is centered and reawakened.  You will be calm but joyfully teased and aroused as we go from edge play to soothing breathing practices.  Your sensual energy will become your body’s restorative medicine and you will leave our shared space a completely different person.  It will be up to you to decide to practice this healing journey a little bit every day until our next session.  You will become more sensitive to your own energy as your intuition and empathy awakens within you.   You can return to being numb again or continue on this meditative path by joining tantra workshops or practicing with a partner.  Tantra yoga opens portals of pleasure, gratitude and self awareness.  We always attract exactly who we are as our mirrors so isn’t it wonderful to see through clear,  untainted glass?

welcome to my world http://www.tantrabutterfly.com where you are allowed to be yourself.  You will be listened to, your body will be held sacred and we can both be real together.  If I have advice to give you based on my intuition during our session I promise I’ll be fair to you because I make plenty of happy mistakes which lead me here to you right now.

You’ve created your reality and your story whether you found me by someone who encouraged you to try reiki, energy work or tantra massage.  Maybe you suffer from depression, post traumatic stress disorder or you’ve numbed your needs out because your last relationship was disastrous or unfulfilling.

This is the part where I tell you I’ve likewise made poor judgements that kept me in toxic, unfair, unbalanced relationships because I didn’t realize how powerful I am just by myself and that I contain within me the capacity to heal my own wounds.  In tantra a sense of fairness and healthy boundaries are explored as part of your healing process.

I’m here to help you breathe self love back into your being and help you recapture your sense of innocent play.  Tantra massage encompasses more than sports massage and reiki; tantra works with your desire and creativity using three dimensional breathing and visualization.  As as I lay my hands in stillness I’m consciously awakening your vitality, your DNA, your life force and your inner child.

Do you wake up not remembering your dreams?  Do you wake up in pain stressed out even before your day has begun?  Have you silenced who you are because someone or done life event silenced you into submission?  Tantra yoga is a lavish ceremony that celebrates life and if you have the time to spend on yourself I will engage you in activities for self healing that are highly playful, stimulating and decadent.

You can join me for a half or full day of alternative tantra delights here in Chicago or we can plan a full weekend of touch positive, sensually healing and life changing retreats in your city if you wish to sponsor me.

So many tantra body workers neglect to tell you how powerful you truly are and that just one focused session of tantra yoga can permanently change you, making you more intuitive and determined to alter your current path.  The primary reason for you to engage in a tantra ceremony is because you are ready to seek change and you’re tired of feeling shut down energetically or half awake.

I see so many sex workers here using fake aliases, rebranding themselves, hiding behind a fake persona and I’m amazed at the fact that they can’t be real and can’t admit to their clients that they themselves are in need of healing and compassion!

When you choose me as your guide you are choosing a fellow being who understands abuse and gas lighting because I myself am a survivor of emotional and physical abuse as a child and I have every desire to continue growing my skills as not just a healer but as an evolving human imperfect in so many ways but willing to conquer my own fears.

I welcome gender fluid couples, male and female singles,  newly married couples and just about everyone out there recuperating from illness or tolerating chronic pain or self doubt.

Let me help build your confidence back and while doing so we’ll both create new challenges in ourselves because as you grow and heal I’ll be fine tuning my skills and transfer my positive energy back into you like a sacred circle of woven cloth.  You deserve to feel passion, inner strength, laughter and hopefully rediscover who you essentially are. You will learn to breathe not just for survival but breathe fully to expand your energy and your inner intuition.  Once you have tried at least three separate tantra sessions you won’t feel as if you have to rely on others for making important life decisions.  You also will understand that you yourself contain everything you need to manifest your own reality with or without a life partner.

I welcome your call after you’ve had time to explore my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com  💓

Become more psychic, become less afraid of claiming your right to be powerful and filled with creative fire 🔥 besides all these wonderful goals….you get to hear me sing!!!! No extra charge for sound healing ^_^