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Why did you reach out to me?

I’d love to know how you found me! I’ve spent so many years writing articles and explaining my services to people over the phone 📱 and it’s gotten to the point where I encourage everyone to book a paid phone consultation with me or at least a coffee ☕ consultation with me initially to weed out guests who didn’t read my primary website first.

Let’s back up a few minutes here. I’ve been working with energy for a very long time and yes my family home was most definitely haunted and yes unfortunately my early years were traumatic because my father could be extremely violent. I ended up becoming extremely sensitive to energies and I’d take trips to the library to avoid the drama going on in my home 🏡 and to pick up books 📚 that intrigued me like astrology, numerology, and chakras.

I began studying reiki at age 19 and I received a full scholarship from Loyola University and enrolled in English literature; but I was miserable there and after three years I chose to drop out of college because I didn’t feel connected.

After quitting multiple jobs as a receptionist I decided to study 📖 massage techniques and I jumped whole heartedly into the sex industry but I focused on my client’s physical pain– not just sexual. I was determined to treat everyone’s body holistically.

In the beginning I didn’t charge much; in fact I allowed myself to be exploited. As soon as I took workshops in other healing modalities and certification in tantra I increased my rates so that I charged as much as my peers.

Unfortunately some of my clients were displeased about my rate increase and assumed that because I was now charging more that I was also offering escort related services. Some of my clients were extremely loyal and continued to use my services and others became enraged and slandered me on adult sites discouraging potential clients from using my services. It because increasingly difficult for me to gain client’s trust especially when I left Chicago to move to New Orleans, Louisiana.

The slanderous message board was directly linked to my website and when I took classes in Maui some of the students at the retreat Google up my legal name and website and found the slanderous adult message board just a few links below my website. I was embarrassed and it caused some people to mistrust my skillet.

Regardless I’ve had some hurdles to climb and I don’t recommend anyone become a tantra practitioner unless they have a very thick skin. Some new clients call me ready to dive in and others are very skeptical.

I’ve had my Google My Business page suspended four separate times and lost all 65 reviews 😢 and yes 7 reviews were horribly mean and unfair and written by people who either never met me in real life or asked for a cheap sports massage instead of tantra. My specialty is reiki and tantra massage. I do have experience with trigger point massage, lomi lomi massage, hot stone therapy and tantra massage but I don’t have certification in sports massage. It’s better if you select a traditional massage therapist if you are seeking a sports massage.

Now let’s pedal backwards and focus on how you found me. Many people say they found me online while googling up massage near me or tantra massage. Regardless of how you found me I still recommend new students of tantra schedule a phone consultation. If however you’ve had positive experiences with tantra massage before and you know this will be a positive experience ✨ the by all means let’s get you scheduled in my calendar.

What’s tantra though? In Sanskrit, tantra means woven together. People who practice Buddhism and Hinduism believe that all forms tantric sex are a sacred and spiritual act. They do not separate the carnal needs of the physical body from the spiritual. They believe in weaving spirituality and breathwork into sexuality and the emphasis is placed on sacred intimacy and deeper connection to your partner.

I’m not an escort service nor am I a sexual surrogate. I have my bound when I work with my clients. My ✨ specialty is helping my clients tap into their own sexual energy which is called kundalini Shakti. I don’t offer kama sutra lessons; rather I help my clients achieve full body orgssm through touch, healing sounds, chakra balancing and sensual massage techniques that I employ.

If you think we might be a great energy match please call me directly 312 339 7707 and be prepared to give me your full legal name and occupation for the verification process. I will ask you some very simple questions and a deposit is Mandatory before we meet.

My motto is when you’re ready you’ll know! Never jump into anything you’re not ready for.

Please also send me an introductory email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Afraid to try Tantra? Meet me for coffee ☕

Hello 👋 this is Goddess Diana owner of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com which is my primary website here in Chicago, Illinois.

Not everyone fully understands that the true purpose of tantra is to gradually activate your Kundalini energy (at the base of your spine) and help you feel how powerful your sexual energy can be. It will be so intense and magnified that you will feel tingling sensations like tiny volcanic eruptions throughout your limbs and heat or cold 🥶 prickly tickles along your spinal column.

Tantra is about learning how to circulate your sexual energy to all your major chakra systems and your sexual energy is used as medication 💊 to heal past trauma and restore a sense of inner calm and balance with you.

I understand this isn’t a path for everyone so I invite you to meet me for coffee to chat about your experiences with other practitioners or maybe you just want to meet face to face just to potentially see if we have any chemistry between eachother.

If you have questions I even offer paid phone 📱 consultations so let’s get together soon and discuss your needs and desires for our shared time together.

Meet me For coffee ☕ this weekend learn about tantra & my background in energywork 312 339 7707

How to Empower your Divine feminine

You may not realize this but the true purpose of learning #tantrayoga is to unite the Divine Masculine [Lord Shiva] with your Divine feminine [Shakti- Kali Ma]

We are both Male & Female and when we learn to practice this delicate balance within our #chakras through breathing & yoga stretches we harmonize our physical & mental bodies.

All of us must learn to activate  our #kundalinishakti & our feminine energies

You can do this by movement such as dancing 💃 & yoga 🧘‍♀️ or hikes 🚶‍♀️ in Nature. pamper yourself by taking hot baths 🛁 or getting an indulgent massage or spa day


The #sacralchakra needs healing attentive care.  Create art, anything beautiful to harmonize your Divine feminine. Even taking care ❤ of your skin as a daily and nightly ritual is a sacred act of awakening your Divine feminine.


Learning #mudras will help heal your inner feminine so you can begin with a basic book and learn the mudras (hand ✋ gestures) that help activate your third eye 👁 heart ❤ chakra and sacral chakra.

Allow time for grounding and self healing on a daily basis. Make sure you take time to journal and self reflect.

Even the act of shopping 🛍 for beautiful objects, pillowcases, silks, flowers 💐 is self healing

Self care is sexy ….pampering yourself opens sacral energies

As your sacral energies & Divine Goddess awakens your opportunities and Abundance grows

Don’t allow yourself to grow stagnant …stagnancy leads to depression and the lack of self love leads to emotional blocks 💔 that can block your opportunities.

Hope to meet you soon

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

activation of the Divine feminine

Reasons why we Never Met :(

Good afternoon 😊 this is Diana from Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I’ve been in the sensual massage industry for 25 years plus ➕ and hopefully 🙏 will continue on this journey for many more years to come.

I always welcome new students of tantra seeking a valid form of somatic healing and release. I offer breathwork coaching, reiki, chakra balancing and traditional therapeutic massage during my tantra ceremonies.

However there is a discreet and super easy screening process for new clients. I always ask new guests for a full name, occupation and social media profile before working with them.

The only time I refuse anyone is if they aren’t cooperating with my Verification process or if they have sent me graphic and lewd text messages and photos to my smartphone.

I prefer to be treated with complete transparency and respect with all new guests seeking sensual healing.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to book a session or book a paid coffee ☕ or phone consultation. You may call me for free if you are simply calling to schedule a session and have no need for Q & A

Booking a session with me should be stress-free and simple. If I feel we make a great energy match we will proceed with the ceremony.

http://youtube.com/@DianaGrossman?si=UgqovSMGLyhd6C3j

Please introduce yourself to me first 🙏

I should not have to write this post because it should be common knowledge between all business people that a formal introduction is expected the first time you email, text or call a fellow professional.

The majority of New potential clients lately are texting me questions without letting me know who they are. I’m always going to ask who someone is if they aren’t already in my contacts list.

I’ve also had to switch cell phones numerous times in my thirty years as a tantra therapist and I’m very certain I’ve accidentally deleted clients from my past inadvertently. For this reason I would love everyone to introduce themselves first during their first greeting whether it’s an email 📧 introduction to Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or butterflyshadows@aol.com…

I’d like to know who you are and why you’re interested in tantra. Also reading my website carefully prior to contacting me is very important so please go directly to my main site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and spend some time reading my services page, ceremonial donations and especially my testimonials written by clients who appreciated their time with me.

Hope to learn more about you! Always remember to include your full name, occupation and social media status such as a Facebook business page or LinkedIn profile.

You can find my profile on LinkedIn easily. Just type in Tantra Butterfly in the search bar and follow my posts.

Hope to meet you soon!

If you want to really support me please subscribe to my YouTube channel Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I try and post weekly videos 📹 and it’s the perfect way to get to know me prior to meeting me in person.

Let’s Define what Tantra truly is

#tantra is #yoga We include breathwork, energy work, #somaticrelease, emotional release, intentional touch, co creation of #sacredspace #soundhealing #chakrabalancing and techniques for expanding pleasure

People experience waves of bliss when #kundalini is activated


You will experience tingling, warmth ✨ vibrations It’s a perfect way to increase mental clarity & activate your 3rd eye #Ajna #pinealgland #reiki is included #chanting & #mantras all used to activate, awaken & heal the trauma stored within the cells of your body & reproductive organs

I’m a licensed and certified tantra educator and I’ve been active in my field for thirty years and still have a great passion for healing people 🙏 and co creation of sacred space despite all the challenges I’ve met in recent years. I even made myself fully available for old guests and new clients during the pandemic when other people in my industry chose to retire or go online instead of offering healing touch in person.

Being sensitive is part of living on this planet 🌏 🌍 🌎 Learn how to establish boundaries while have fun at the same time….
Being more open will definitely make you more vulnerable but you will be in alignment with who you truly are— not what people expect you to be….

I’ve always maintained positivity despite the hatred, bullying and cruelty from my peers. I could care less what others think of me or how they perceive me. I’ve stayed strong and grounded because I have an understanding of how energy works and how to create a sacred space within me.

If you feel drawn to my offerings please read through my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and enjoy some short videos I’ve created to help define what tantra is. Just keep in mind tantra is yoga and we must take time to breathe deeply during our time together ❤ to help enhance your body’s ability to process energy, pain and emotions.

Hope to see you soon

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

312 339 7707 🕉

Goddess Diana Tantra Butterfly 🦋

What are the main reasons we should receive a massage?

All forms of massage whether it’s gentle and light or more aggressive like deep tissue and trigger point will definitely help increase your circulation, help rid your muscles of lactic acid build-up and create positive feelings of euphoria to help you deal with stress.

If you suffer from depression, chronic pain, insomnia or overall fatigue a full body massage will increase your metabolism, help lower your cortisol levels and help you achieve a good night’s sleep.

My favorite type of massage to receive is a combination of trigger point release, myofascial release and chakra balancing.

Your physical body affects your mental frame of mind and your psychic 🔮 body or aura.

Being around too many people or experiencing negative situations will definitely deplete you of your energy and sour your mood.

Full body massages which include hand and foot reflexology also target all organs in your body because all our nerve endings end at our extremities so when you focus on the reflex points of the hands and feet you are helping to stimulate the body’s endocrine system, your sinus cavities, your stomach, kidneys, lungs, liver, reproductive organs and central nervous system.

Receiving thoughtful, healing, nurturing touch is essential for all human beings to experience especially if you are a caretaker or if your job is physically demanding.

We all become touch starved when we lack a comforting hug or word of encouragement.

Massages help ground your energy 🙌 and keep your heart ❤ open and your outlook positive.

If you give and give and give and have a mental block regarding receiving energy you should definitely book a healing session for yourself soon!

My website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com is informative and entertaining so please read it first before contacting me….

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Whether you book me for reiki or authentic tantra massage I would be delighted to help you work through any energetic blocks and trauma that no longer serve you.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

3312 339 7707

butterflyshadows@aol.com

Why you should book a paid coffee date w/me if you are shy

I’m not a shy person; but I do understand and empathize with anyone who is hesitant about embarking on a new journey ✨ when they barely understand what they are committing to.

I offer paid coffee consultations for couples and singles who are interested in tantra but never had prior experiences in energywork or sexual wellness.

My tantra ceremonies focus on full body well-being and healing. The focus isn’t just your sexual energy; it’s an organic experience that helps you understand your own body better and amplify the latent energies already stored within you.

I will help direct your focus on being fully present in the moment by guiding you with breathwork and visualization exercises. The chakras within your body respond to touch, sound and breath. If you’ve never had reiki or alternative healing before then all these techniques are going to seem esoteric to you.

A coffee consultation will give you an opportunity to digest all this information beforehand and you can ask me any questions you wish so I can alleviate your concerns and make some suggestions based on your goals and budget.

Please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Let me know more about you by sending me an introductory email 📧

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Once we meet in person and become friends instead of strangers the process of self awareness and self healing becomes much easier.

I can help you make life changes, introduce you to new activities, develop more meaningful relationships and find the courage to become fully alive in your life.

A paid coffee date with me is like no other. I am an expert in alternative healing and have studied and practiced massage, Tantra, and meditation for many years. I can provide you with healing techniques and beneficial services that do not involve a physical touch. My recommendations and advice will help you to make better decisions and live a more balanced, fulfilling life.

I believe that everyone deserves healing, rejuvenation and empowerment. Through my paid coffee dates I can help you remove blockage, create new paths and adopt a better lifestyle. During our few hours together, I will guide you through spiritual healing processes and provide you with the tools to take responsibility for your life.

Booking a paid coffee date is your chance to learn from an experienced practitioner and start a new direction in life. Whether you’re shy, anxious or simply looking for something new and different, I will be there to support and guide you towards a happier and healthier version of yourself.

Let me show you how to move forward and

The Sacred Bath Ritual as a prelude to your tantra ceremony

You aren’t required to add a #tantra #bathritual to your session but it will definitely enhance your time with me.

if you want to prepare a bath ahead of time for yourself in your own home before working with me it would definitely help me work with your energy.

the seasalt bath is composed of baking soda (a half box) and seasalt (1 or 2 cups).


This is all you need to clear and cleanse your Aura so whether you choose to hire me for the bath ritual or you bathe yourself in your own home this is a perfect start to any tantra ceremony

I include seasalt scrubs and massage the salt scrub over all the major chakras in your body when we’re together and we will be breathing in synchronicity harmonizing the #bijamantras and amplifying your energy prior to your #tantramassage

if it’s within your means and budget please allow me 24–48 hours and a substantial deposit so I may procure a beautiful suite with jacuzzi for two.

You are always encouraged to Read my website first prior to calling or emailing me.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please consider subscribing to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly and get to know me from the videos. I post frequently and upload fresh content and flash sales and offers there.

Please introduce yourself via email tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

or call me directly to schedule a tantra ceremony when you’re ready 312 339 7707

All new students of tantra are welcome to try my beginner’s level offerings and more experienced students may book advanced level tantra.

I welcome men, women and couples and look forward to meeting you for a unique and blissful escape.

Choosing a tantra healer for skillset rather than physical appearance

Many people who’ve never had #tantra before honestly don’t know what to look for when choosing the right #tantragoddess because they lack experience and don’t see the red flags.

I’ve personally been mistreated by men who didn’t think I looked like the gallery images on my website.  Instead of politely declining and just offering me a cancelation fee they chose passive aggressive and abusive behavior.

So many men only equate beauty for kindness and intelligence or worthiness. They refuse to open their heart ❤ to any teacher who doesn’t look like their ideal vision of beauty.

By being unkind to your Goddess you basically block positive flow of energy and seeing the Divine Seed of a love in a stranger which is actually the purpose of tantra yoga and tantra massage.

Most men choose their Goddess solely on chemical or physical attraction which negates the ideal that we are all worthy of love and adulation no matter what physical form we chose.

New students of tantra are at a huge disadvantage because they don’t have prior experience and don’t have anything to compare with regards to what is an authentic tantra healing or a fluffy rub down.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with feeding your Soul need by hiring an attractive and aesthetically pleasing Goddess. If you know bodily perfection is an absolute deal breaker for you then be honest with yourself but if you end up using your funds on the ultimate beauty but never learned the basics of tantra then don’t blame your provider.

Thanks for following my blog.

If you want a deeper understanding of tantra, breathwork, alternative healing and kundalini Awakening have a look at my tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Introduce yourself to me via email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and or call me directly to be considered for a ceremony in Chicago’s Gold Coast.