Posts tagged “Chicago Tantra”
November 24, 2025 No comments

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty Experience

Hello Everyone 👋 I feel as if people truly don’t understand the purpose of receiving an authentic tantra ceremony so let me bring up some issues because lately I am noticing a trend where people are not committed to practicing daily or they expect a single session to be a one and done singular experience.

Nothing makes me feel more discouraged than witnessing a couple hurriedly leave a longer ceremony and wrap up their day with me and rush off to do their next activity. We just explored energy work together. You will need rest and time to nap or take a long bath together or just cuddle for an hour. It truly breaks my spirit to watch a couple hurriedly get dressed and rush rush rush without allowing themselves to process the energywork properly.

I love the work I do but it does take a lot out of me to teach two people how to connect to eachother and prepare an authentic tantra massage for eachother. It’s hard work for all of us and it isn’t meant to be taken lightly either.

Tantra isn’t a “novelty” experience. We aren’t in the movies and there isn’t anything glamorous about creating sacred space. You will learn how to touch your partner with positive and loving intentions and you will learn to be more patient and present for yourself and your partner. There is a lot to teach and I suggest no less than three hours but I will not expect you to know everything in one session so ask me questions and go easy on yourself. You are not performing for me and I am here to guide you both and answer your questions.

Tantra is a life changing opportunity that will open portals and opportunities for you to connect you to the highest version of yourself.

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty once in a lifetime experience.  Once you have one tantra session you should still practice a little bit daily on your own.

Be proactive! Buy some books and videos and learn from different teachers in YouTube.  One teacher isn’t going to have all the answers or tools you need to Master your own Energy.

Schedule multiple sessions with one person you trust or try sessions with different people and learn what you can with each person you meet.

It’s always preferable to build loyalty with one person and then partake in #tantra retreats if you can afford it.  During these workshops you meet a variety of people.  Some participants learning with you might feel like part of your soul family while others may actually trigger you and make you reexamine your feelings and self worth.

Regardless of where you are energetically and physically tantra is a form of #Yoga and your body will shift and go through its own unique changes.  

I do offer full day tantra ceremonies for anyone seeking relaxation therapy, education, detoxification and pure bliss

If you have the time and curiosity I can even offer tantra intensive journeys for yourself or for you and your partner as a couple.  The weekend will be a series of mini lessons and practice time for yourselves.

Schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation or phone consultation if you have questions

Get ready to be overwhelmed especially if you are sensitive to energy and need to feel connected back to your physical core.

I love shaking up your misconceptions. I love helping you restore balance within your body and clear out trauma within your body’s memories. Never be afraid of change.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Call me directly to book a beautiful ceremony for yourself or as a couple.

312 339 7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

September 16, 2025 No comments

Sometimes people just need to be listened to

Best advice i can offer everyone here is most people don’t like being told what to do

and if you genuinely care for your friend and you truly don’t want them to be hurt again or date the wrong person you naturally want to warn them

The problem with being honest though is most people don’t like for you to meddle and they might resent you for being too bossy and will eventually leave you and your advice in the dust

just listen
most people need a sounding board and don’t get too wrapped up in other people’s karma

we all have karma
some of us need to just let karma unfold and that’s actually how we learn and grow

communication #selfcare #advice

If you love giving advice ♥
But then you’re rewarded with coldness or silence from your friend
After doling out your heartfelt advice
But it wasn’t welcomed advice and you lose your friendship 😕
Well I guess just listen 🎶 and Don’t judge
Don’t say “I TOLD YOU SO”

sometimes the best lesson is the ones we learn by ourselves

Don’t interfere in your friend’s Karma. Someone may not be emotionally ready to give up a toxic relationship or habit. Sometimes people need to repeat the same mistakes till they realize a belief system or a person no longer makes sense.

If you need help moving forward in life but you currently feel stuck reach out to me! I offer a variety of healing modalities that help you move through self doubt or problematic self defeating behaviors.

Please take a look at my website for options http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to book a phone consultation or schedule your first journey into tantra

July 8, 2025 No comments

Take time out just for yourself

It’s very hard for caretakers to set aside time for themselves to simply relax.

I’ve worked with clients who are  unstoppable. They focus solely on work obligations, sick family members and they overextend themselves to the point where they feel guilty relaxing.

Some of my clients leave their cellphones on and actively read incoming text messages just in case of a family or business emergency.  They never fully shut their minds off not even to experience a mindful massage ceremony fully.  Of course this isn’t recommended nor is it good for your central nervous system.

Eventually though their bodies are so run down that they become physically sick and they end up taking time out without wanting to but at this point they have no choice.

Did I mention that stress ages you prematurely?  By denying yourself moments of stillness and complete rest your body’s cells don’t have an opportunity to rejuvenate.  You will find that your skin looks dull and your body will start producing cortisol which leads to inflammation, bloating, weight gain and sleep disruptions. 

You matter!  You deserve moments of nurturing and your mind needs to rest not just your physical body.

My sessions are ceremonies
I use musical instruments like tuning forks and singing bowls 🥣 to help you drift off and silence the thoughts within your mind

Reach out to me if you would love to experience an authentic #tantra ceremony ✨ that will engage all your senses and leave you feeling refreshed, grounded and nurtured

You deserve to feel loved ❤

Please visit my main website here

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Explore all my options ✨My sessions can be purely non sensual in nature where you can relax, close your eyes and experience a soothing cranial sacral massage mixed with reflexology of the hands and feet followed up with singing bowl music.

You can book me for a full day of tantra which will include a bathing ritual, edge play, deep tissue massage and sensual touch. No matter what route you wish to choose I will encourage you to be fully in the present as we co create sacred space.

If you feel inspired reach out to me directly 312 339 7707 and or email me here

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

tantra bath ritual by Tantra Butterfly 🦋
July 6, 2025 No comments

Happy July 4th weekend

I’m currently visiting Arlington Heights, Illinois! Couples if you are new to tantra I am offering a lovely special discounted price this Holiday weekend so if you’re seeing this post on July 5, 2025 please enjoy $100 off a 2 hour session or pay my normal fee of $600 for two full hours and receive your 3rd hour of #tantra completely free.

If you are unmarried and just need a bit of TLC and nurturing touch just for yourself I cordially invite you to partake in one of my ceremonies. Take $100 of any tantra massage ceremony that is two hours or longer.

Couples did you know tantra is a wonderful opportunity for you to get to know your partner and understand how to have peaceful more meaningful conversations? Learn how to listen and connect to your partner by being fully present. I will teach you all the nuances of touching your partner with positive and loving intentions.

I hope to hear from you soon!

When I set up sacred space for you I include sound healing, sensual massage strokes, reiki, lingam honoring, base chakra massage, yoni massage, (for women) breathwork, chakra balancing, cranial sacral techniques and myofascial release. Your Kundalini energy will gradually build up leading you to a full body orgasm.

Please click directly to my website

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I offer tantra massage ceremonies for men, women and couples seeking a soothing and transcendental journey of the chakras.

April 17, 2025 No comments

Currently seeking Sponsorship in the East Coast

My time in Chicago, Illinois has come to a close. Whoever has currently paid me a deposit will definitely see me in Evanston and Chicago up until the end of this April and then I’m actively going to seek a rideshare to a different city.

I’ve always wanted to live in Manhattan, New York but I didn’t think I could manage it financially all on my own. Whoever is reading my blog this week is welcome to reach out to me and follow through on their tantra session.

If you’ve been interested in working exclusively with me and you have a space for rent at a greatly reduced rate in exchange for my services or as an even barter/trade situation in the East or West Coast please call me directly 312 339 7707

Ivery had some strange dreams where I’m being encouraged to explore Boulder, Colorado or other parts of the West Coast. I’m definitely feeling as if my time in Illinois is over. I’ve noticed a huge drop in excitement and many people who sent me deposits get caught up in Financial issues or personal family crisis having to cancel their appointment with me completely.

I also noticed that business people who reach out to me with a week’s notice find out upon landing here that all their business plans have changed making it impossible for them to visit me.

If you have a desire to learn tantra from me and receive a combination of massage, sound healing, reiki and tantra massage from me please contact me either by phone or email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

And of course here’s my website

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

You may show your support by donating to me here via Venmo @Diana-Grossman-1 or call me directly and I will share other ways you can donate to me. It’s too challenging for me now to continue to live in Illinois and Universe has been giving me clear signs that my time here is coming to a close unfortunately.

Please try and see me before the end of April and to whomever sent me an advanced deposit i guarantee that you will receive your session up until the end of the first week of May.
March 25, 2025 No comments

Tantra is my passion

Hello Everyone 👋 who has stumbled upon my profile
Let me just say that I love my job. Being a healer fuels me and working for myself and meeting unique people keeps me passionate about the work I do.

Lately there have been “posers” people “pretending ” to want a ceremony & asking for immediate availability.

I even offered some wonderful discounts to sweeten the deal
Unfortunately the discounts have also attracted some opportunistic people who are doing very well…like taking expensive luxury trips or getting lip augmentation.

Please value my time.
I charge what I charge because of the care and thoughtfulness that goes into all my ceremonies.

I never count the clock or push people out the door 🚪
We typically start by chatting. We spend a bit of time before your session begins conversing as friends.
I ask you what your goals and expectations are. You have time to enjoy water and use my bathroom.

You have time to chat about your past experiences with other healers and #tantra practitioners both positive and awkward encounters.
I want you to leave my space feeling content, honored, fulfilled and genuinely listened to.
I have different ceremonies all at a special price point from high to low.
Please don’t take advantage of my sliding fees unless you really need them.
Please refer my ceremonies to your good friends or business colleagues if you valued our time together ❤

chicagotantra

312 339 7707
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Preverification is part of the Screening process and your information is kept private
Deposits are Mandatory but if you feel more comfortable meeting me beforehand you may book a paid coffee ☕ consultation with me and use it towards your session if you see me within 24 hours

Your enjoyment means the world 🌎 to me
Your Loyalty is paramount to my success

Sliding fees are for anyone experiencing financial hardship or excessive medical 🚑 issues
I never feel any resentment for anyone who genuinely needs a slight discount

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

please visit my main website

http://Www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you have 20 minutes or more of questions for me just book a phone 📱 consultation for a nominal fee.

couplestantra #virtualtantra #holistic

#chicagotantra #yogini #tantramassage #soundhealing #reiki #breathwork #sensualmassage

December 15, 2024 No comments

Tantra & Reiki can be ideal for pregnant Guests experiencing discomfort

Prenatal massage is created for women expecting a child and so great care is placed on not harming the baby by having the patient lay face up and on her side instead of facedown on the massage table.

Here are the benefits of receiving a prenatal massage treatment:

  • Pain relief: Massage alleviates joint and muscular pain while reducing inflammation in the body. Women carrying extra weight will often experience pain in their legs, ankles, feet and calves.
  • Reduces anxiety: Massage reduces stress and anxiety, and improve mood. Women have extreme bouts of hormonal changes which affects their mood. Massage reduces cortisol in the body thereby reducing inflammation and anxiety attacks.
  • Reduces swelling: pregnant women suffer from reduced blood flow and extra pressure on the their blood vessels. Massage helps the blood circulate better
  • BETTER QUALITY SLEEP: Pregnant women may find themselves restless at night. A weekly massage improves your serotonin levels making it easier to sleep 💤
  • Shorter & Easier Labor: women who’ve received prenatal massage therapy are reported to have a much shorter labor than women who never received massage therapy
  • Improves the Bond with your newborn: Your child receives every nuance of feelings during your term. Everything that stresses you out will also stress your unborn child. Be mindful of what you ✨ experience so listen to peaceful music, enjoy yoga and mindfulness activities which include hikes in nature, reiki, beautiful music 🎶 and regular massage therapy and sound healing.

Women who are pregnant are also vulnerable to certain pressure points so be sure your therapist is licensed to practice prenatal massage.

Pressure points you must avoid are the pelvis, wrist, hands ✋ and ankles

Prenatal massage is geared especially for pregnant women who need to be extremely careful not to harm their child growing within their bodies.

If you know of anyone in your circle of family members or close friends who is experiencing mood swings or stress during their pregnancy please consider gifting one of my ceremonies to them.

My focus will be on sound healing, reflexology of the hands and feet to reduce inflammation, reiki to help Bala out the chakras and emotions and yoni healing to heal trauma.

I have an in depth conversation with my pregnant clients beforehand to discuss their goals and boundaries and together we come up with a beautiful ceremony that will create a feeling of deep peace and empowerment.

Please visit my main website first

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Then call me directly to book your first tantra or reiki ceremony tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

I look forward to working with you no matter what your goals are. You can even schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation with your spouse just to make sure you feel comfortable moving forward.

November 12, 2024 No comments

Tantra helps you transcend the mundane

A tantra ceremony with me will help you heal from trauma ✨ but will also help you recover fragments of your soul’s purpose. You might feel more tingly, centered and awakened. However you may also feel more vulnerable and tearful from these awakening cell memories.

One session with me will help you transcend from the mundane and you will feel like there is no concept of time as you leave your body and your worries behind.

Your heart will beat joyfully and everything ♥ you touch will feel magically infused and special throughout your day.

Your life force will be fully activated
Your intuition illuminated
Your face will transform and return to a relaxed
And youthful glow. I guarantee your complexion will improve and you will look years younger after just one tantra ceremony with me.

I promise your time with me will be both memorable and nurturing. I want only positive karma transferred between the two of us. I want you to be open minded, trust the process and let your body take in as much or as little energies as possible.

Your body will intuitively know how much energy you need. Your Kundalini energy will be 🐌 slowly awakened at your own pace. We do this by slowly breathing together at intervals during our time together. We quiet our minds and try our very best not to have expectations. We let our minds go trying our best not to think but to simply be in the moment. You can laugh during our ceremony and I won’t judge you. In fact a good belly laugh is great for your healing just like a good cry.

I only wish to attract gentle souls in Dire need of sacred touch; people who appreciate alternative healing, reiki, sound healing and holistic breathwork.

These are special memories we create together ❤
That I call co creation of sacredspace

Never be afraid to reach out to me for a paid virtual phone or coffee ☕ consultation. I can even offer you virtual chakra balancing and sound healing if you are miles away from me.

Your goals, fears and worries will be addressed. You are important and if I personally feel I can’t help you I will refer you to other resources.

chicagotantra #yogini

I’m planning a long distance move when the stars 🌟 and opportunities align

Kindly reach out to me soon while I’m still in the

chicagoland area and surrounding suburbs

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

When emailing me non need to send me a novel about yourself. I just need to know your full name, age range, occupation and some form of social media so I have an idea of who you are. You can always book a 20 minute phone 📱 consultation with me if you have any questions about my services that aren’t covered on my website.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m available every day of the year. I never take a holiday off so please reach out if you are genuinely interested in tantra massage ceremonies and scheduling a tantra retreat or 90 minute journey of sacred space.
October 29, 2024 No comments

New Reviews make me proud to be a tantra healer

I’m sharing a recent review from a client i met two weeks ago.

The stars 🌟 were aligned and he finally made some time to visit me all the way from another part of Illinois that was 90 minutes away from me!

Part of the fun of my job is I get to work on some spectacular people with good hearts and even better intentions

[My Newest Testimonials:
I found Diana’s website years ago and was very intrigued, but due to life’s many unexpected detours I wasn’t able to see her until recently. Now I wish I had made the effort earlier! She is warm, friendly, empathetic, and easy to talk to. I immediately felt as if I had known her for years.

Diana describes what she does as an “experience,” which is no exaggeration. She offers a completely immersive encounter that will make you feel cocooned away from the real world. I literally lost track of time when I was with her, and I never felt rushed. Her positive attitude will stay with you long after you have left. I’ve known people who talked about tantra, but Diana actually lives it. She’s the real deal, and I highly recommend her!

Tobias]

You may find this new testimony on my primary tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you were a recent or past client of mine just know I really appreciate your written testimonials because they attract the best energies to my tantra practice and I always want to help anyone needing an energy boost.

WordPress Family and Subscribers:
I’d love to meet you!  No matter what obstacles you face I’d like to be a part of your healing journey ✨ even if it’s just to escape reality for a few hours

facing financial hardship? Not to worry! let’s help you with sliding fees! Are you financially Abundant? please pay my normal rates as I’m an independent contractor & must cover all my costs for myself and my pet family.

#chicagotantra ceremonies will create more space ✨ in your heart ❤ ♥ ❤
benefits of #tantrayoga & #tantramassage are manifold including sending loving messages to your body with conscience touch and sound
speeding up your metabolism, increasing your intuition, helping your body detox and aiding you in #kundalini ascension slowly and safely
Daily breathwork helps your body process energies better and keeps you looking much younger than your Biological Age.

If you’re interested in scheduling your first tantra ceremony with me please call me directly here

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

August 20, 2024 No comments

What motivates you these days?

I’d love to know more about the people who are viewing my blog either by accident or because they chose to subscribe to learn more about tantra.

Are you excited to wake ⏰ up in the morning and get to work? Do you set your alarm for 5 AM take a long hot shower and walk your dog 🐕 or go to the gym then get to work in a corporate setting? Or do you work remotely so you sleep in till however late you wish and then check your phone and emails 📧 for the day ahead? I’d love for all of you to leave me a public comment here on my blog and tell me your daily routine.

Almost every person I meet lately travels once or twice weekly for the corporation they work for. All the traveling means they might miss out on family time and might not have enough time to book massage and spa appointments for themselves even though their shoulders and neck might be strained from the uncomfortable airplane ✈ seats.

I’m proud to say I do offer my sessions at the last minute for traveling executives for as long as my new clients offer up a full name and deposit. I love being needed and willing to travel to any safe and reputable hotel by the airport or within the city if Chicago. I’d like to think I can be an important part of your self care routine when you need a pick me up.

Unfortunately CEO’S might forget about receiving healing services and may not be eating super mindfully based off of missed flight connections and by the time they arrive to their destination only fast food places are open instead of healthy options. I strongly suggest you take along freshly sliced cubes of fruit, veggies and cheeses 🧀 with you on all flights ✈️ or even better call up the hotel front desk and have them go grocery shopping 🛍 for you and have your mini fridge stocked up with healthy items so you can snack on your favorite foods by the time you arrive at your destination.

Book me in advance but if you find yourself stuck at the airport bored and achey with nothing to do never be afraid to reach out to me for my tantra services.

Have a look at my primary website here http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly at (312) 339 7707 to schedule something special for yourself. I use sound healing, deep tissue bodywork, sensual massage, reiki, cuddle therapy and Authentic tantra massage during my tantra ceremonies.

You can even book a coffee ☕ consultation or dinner engagement with me if you have questions before we meet.

Hope to see you soon!