Posts tagged “meditation”
December 8, 2025 No comments

How to safely access your Kundalini Shakti 🐍

Maybe you’ve heard of Kundalini Shakti and read about it.  There is nothing harmful about learning how to activate your Kundalini energy if you practice gentle breathwork techniques and enjoy a bit of yoga 🧘‍♂️ every day.

Let’s define Kundalini Shakti the Power of the Serpent Goddess 🐍 who resides within your lower tailbone.

She is known as the coiled serpent Goddess who holds primordial, raw powers that will travel from the base of your spine and inch her way slowly by uncoiling…upwards through each of your #chakras leading you to be more spiritual, more intuitive and more aligned with your purpose.

Kundalini translated from Sanskrit literally means “coiled”. Once you learn to access your Kundalini energy you feel more connected to Source or a feeling of being connected and intertwined with Nature and Universal like force.

Once your own Lifeforce is activated you will feel tingling sensations, heat, cold shivers and you may laugh or release tears.  All of these energetic shifts are your body’s way of releasing trauma and shedding layers of stored memories.  

Meditation, yoga, chakra balancing, breathwork, pranayama, Tantra yoga and bodywork are all helpful activities that will help you slowly activate your dormant energy.

Never be fearful of my tantra massage ceremonies.  I will not be rushing you into a Kundalini awakening.  

A major traumatic experience like an automobile accident or other severe physical energy can potentially jolt your Kundalini Shakti awakening before your body is physically or spiritually prepared.  But one session with me will not shock or jolt your nervous system!

To book a paid phone or coffee ☕️ consultation please contact me via email 📧 

or by 📞 call me directly 312 339 7707

There is no charge to call me if you’re ready to schedule a tantra ceremony or reiki and sound healing session 

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing,  Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach,  & Reiki artist ♡♥

Remember only a NDE (Near Death Experience) will be jarring to your Kundalini energy. A soothing tantra massage or Guided meditation with a Guru will not lead to any negative symptoms once your Kundalini energy is accessed. Some people see colors more vividly or feel tingly or hear buzzing but no one is physically injured during a gentle awakening of Kundalini Shakti.
November 24, 2025 No comments

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty Experience

Hello Everyone 👋 I feel as if people truly don’t understand the purpose of receiving an authentic tantra ceremony so let me bring up some issues because lately I am noticing a trend where people are not committed to practicing daily or they expect a single session to be a one and done singular experience.

Nothing makes me feel more discouraged than witnessing a couple hurriedly leave a longer ceremony and wrap up their day with me and rush off to do their next activity. We just explored energy work together. You will need rest and time to nap or take a long bath together or just cuddle for an hour. It truly breaks my spirit to watch a couple hurriedly get dressed and rush rush rush without allowing themselves to process the energywork properly.

I love the work I do but it does take a lot out of me to teach two people how to connect to eachother and prepare an authentic tantra massage for eachother. It’s hard work for all of us and it isn’t meant to be taken lightly either.

Tantra isn’t a “novelty” experience. We aren’t in the movies and there isn’t anything glamorous about creating sacred space. You will learn how to touch your partner with positive and loving intentions and you will learn to be more patient and present for yourself and your partner. There is a lot to teach and I suggest no less than three hours but I will not expect you to know everything in one session so ask me questions and go easy on yourself. You are not performing for me and I am here to guide you both and answer your questions.

Tantra is a life changing opportunity that will open portals and opportunities for you to connect you to the highest version of yourself.

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty once in a lifetime experience.  Once you have one tantra session you should still practice a little bit daily on your own.

Be proactive! Buy some books and videos and learn from different teachers in YouTube.  One teacher isn’t going to have all the answers or tools you need to Master your own Energy.

Schedule multiple sessions with one person you trust or try sessions with different people and learn what you can with each person you meet.

It’s always preferable to build loyalty with one person and then partake in #tantra retreats if you can afford it.  During these workshops you meet a variety of people.  Some participants learning with you might feel like part of your soul family while others may actually trigger you and make you reexamine your feelings and self worth.

Regardless of where you are energetically and physically tantra is a form of #Yoga and your body will shift and go through its own unique changes.  

I do offer full day tantra ceremonies for anyone seeking relaxation therapy, education, detoxification and pure bliss

If you have the time and curiosity I can even offer tantra intensive journeys for yourself or for you and your partner as a couple.  The weekend will be a series of mini lessons and practice time for yourselves.

Schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation or phone consultation if you have questions

Get ready to be overwhelmed especially if you are sensitive to energy and need to feel connected back to your physical core.

I love shaking up your misconceptions. I love helping you restore balance within your body and clear out trauma within your body’s memories. Never be afraid of change.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Call me directly to book a beautiful ceremony for yourself or as a couple.

312 339 7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

March 25, 2025 No comments

Tantra is my passion

Hello Everyone 👋 who has stumbled upon my profile
Let me just say that I love my job. Being a healer fuels me and working for myself and meeting unique people keeps me passionate about the work I do.

Lately there have been “posers” people “pretending ” to want a ceremony & asking for immediate availability.

I even offered some wonderful discounts to sweeten the deal
Unfortunately the discounts have also attracted some opportunistic people who are doing very well…like taking expensive luxury trips or getting lip augmentation.

Please value my time.
I charge what I charge because of the care and thoughtfulness that goes into all my ceremonies.

I never count the clock or push people out the door 🚪
We typically start by chatting. We spend a bit of time before your session begins conversing as friends.
I ask you what your goals and expectations are. You have time to enjoy water and use my bathroom.

You have time to chat about your past experiences with other healers and #tantra practitioners both positive and awkward encounters.
I want you to leave my space feeling content, honored, fulfilled and genuinely listened to.
I have different ceremonies all at a special price point from high to low.
Please don’t take advantage of my sliding fees unless you really need them.
Please refer my ceremonies to your good friends or business colleagues if you valued our time together ❤

chicagotantra

312 339 7707
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Preverification is part of the Screening process and your information is kept private
Deposits are Mandatory but if you feel more comfortable meeting me beforehand you may book a paid coffee ☕ consultation with me and use it towards your session if you see me within 24 hours

Your enjoyment means the world 🌎 to me
Your Loyalty is paramount to my success

Sliding fees are for anyone experiencing financial hardship or excessive medical 🚑 issues
I never feel any resentment for anyone who genuinely needs a slight discount

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

please visit my main website

http://Www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you have 20 minutes or more of questions for me just book a phone 📱 consultation for a nominal fee.

couplestantra #virtualtantra #holistic

#chicagotantra #yogini #tantramassage #soundhealing #reiki #breathwork #sensualmassage

November 14, 2024 No comments

What to expect during your first tantra journey with me

Hello 👋 as a current tantra healer you should expect an extremely soothing experience which will begin with a good conversation between you and your tantra goddess of choice.

I can only speak from my personal experience though and not all Goddesses. I am a low volume tantra goddess so my session begins with a conversation in person so I can discuss the goals of my clients. It’s very important to me that my guest is satisfied both physically and emotionally.

Once we discuss goals I may begin with some fun and playful exercises like breathing and gazing into one another’s eyes. We will hold hands and breathe deeply. Once we connect to one another energetically I focus on sensual touch, chakra balancing, cuddle therapy, sound healing and reiki.

My sessions don’t just focus on full body Kundalini activation. These are tantra ceremonies and I always encourage my clients to schedule a minimum of 90 minutes so we can include edging, and hold back as long as possible to help with issues such as PE and ED.

Many of my clients might have issues with post traumatic stress disorder so my sessions are composed of somatic healing with a strong emphasis on breathing deeply and slowly.

Tantra is about connecting to your partner and learning about creating safe boundaries. My male clients often request prostate massage and my female clients usually ask me to help them work through trauma so we focus on womb healing and yoni empowerment.

Tantra is the co creation of sacred space and learning how to love yourself unconditionally while tapping into your Kundalini energy. As you slowly awaken your Kundalini energy you help increase your intuition and you access your innate abilities like creativity, self expression, and self confidence. You can tap into your abundance as your chakras are gently awakened and aligned.

Tantra massage ceremonies help you feel more grounded and in tune with your inner joy. These ceremonies uplift you and keep you focused on the present moment. If you have a tendency to overthink a tantra healing will help you become more zen and meditative. Tantra yoga massage rituals help you transcend time and space as we slow down and exchange positive energy with one another. It’s like an out of body experience where you feel like you are dreaming yet you are grounded into your body.

visit my website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to schedule your first ceremony either for yourself to enjoy or as a couple seeking to enhance your spiritual and physical connection.
November 12, 2024 No comments

Tantra helps you transcend the mundane

A tantra ceremony with me will help you heal from trauma ✨ but will also help you recover fragments of your soul’s purpose. You might feel more tingly, centered and awakened. However you may also feel more vulnerable and tearful from these awakening cell memories.

One session with me will help you transcend from the mundane and you will feel like there is no concept of time as you leave your body and your worries behind.

Your heart will beat joyfully and everything ♥ you touch will feel magically infused and special throughout your day.

Your life force will be fully activated
Your intuition illuminated
Your face will transform and return to a relaxed
And youthful glow. I guarantee your complexion will improve and you will look years younger after just one tantra ceremony with me.

I promise your time with me will be both memorable and nurturing. I want only positive karma transferred between the two of us. I want you to be open minded, trust the process and let your body take in as much or as little energies as possible.

Your body will intuitively know how much energy you need. Your Kundalini energy will be 🐌 slowly awakened at your own pace. We do this by slowly breathing together at intervals during our time together. We quiet our minds and try our very best not to have expectations. We let our minds go trying our best not to think but to simply be in the moment. You can laugh during our ceremony and I won’t judge you. In fact a good belly laugh is great for your healing just like a good cry.

I only wish to attract gentle souls in Dire need of sacred touch; people who appreciate alternative healing, reiki, sound healing and holistic breathwork.

These are special memories we create together ❤
That I call co creation of sacredspace

Never be afraid to reach out to me for a paid virtual phone or coffee ☕ consultation. I can even offer you virtual chakra balancing and sound healing if you are miles away from me.

Your goals, fears and worries will be addressed. You are important and if I personally feel I can’t help you I will refer you to other resources.

chicagotantra #yogini

I’m planning a long distance move when the stars 🌟 and opportunities align

Kindly reach out to me soon while I’m still in the

chicagoland area and surrounding suburbs

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

When emailing me non need to send me a novel about yourself. I just need to know your full name, age range, occupation and some form of social media so I have an idea of who you are. You can always book a 20 minute phone 📱 consultation with me if you have any questions about my services that aren’t covered on my website.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m available every day of the year. I never take a holiday off so please reach out if you are genuinely interested in tantra massage ceremonies and scheduling a tantra retreat or 90 minute journey of sacred space.
October 29, 2024 No comments

New Reviews make me proud to be a tantra healer

I’m sharing a recent review from a client i met two weeks ago.

The stars 🌟 were aligned and he finally made some time to visit me all the way from another part of Illinois that was 90 minutes away from me!

Part of the fun of my job is I get to work on some spectacular people with good hearts and even better intentions

[My Newest Testimonials:
I found Diana’s website years ago and was very intrigued, but due to life’s many unexpected detours I wasn’t able to see her until recently. Now I wish I had made the effort earlier! She is warm, friendly, empathetic, and easy to talk to. I immediately felt as if I had known her for years.

Diana describes what she does as an “experience,” which is no exaggeration. She offers a completely immersive encounter that will make you feel cocooned away from the real world. I literally lost track of time when I was with her, and I never felt rushed. Her positive attitude will stay with you long after you have left. I’ve known people who talked about tantra, but Diana actually lives it. She’s the real deal, and I highly recommend her!

Tobias]

You may find this new testimony on my primary tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you were a recent or past client of mine just know I really appreciate your written testimonials because they attract the best energies to my tantra practice and I always want to help anyone needing an energy boost.

WordPress Family and Subscribers:
I’d love to meet you!  No matter what obstacles you face I’d like to be a part of your healing journey ✨ even if it’s just to escape reality for a few hours

facing financial hardship? Not to worry! let’s help you with sliding fees! Are you financially Abundant? please pay my normal rates as I’m an independent contractor & must cover all my costs for myself and my pet family.

#chicagotantra ceremonies will create more space ✨ in your heart ❤ ♥ ❤
benefits of #tantrayoga & #tantramassage are manifold including sending loving messages to your body with conscience touch and sound
speeding up your metabolism, increasing your intuition, helping your body detox and aiding you in #kundalini ascension slowly and safely
Daily breathwork helps your body process energies better and keeps you looking much younger than your Biological Age.

If you’re interested in scheduling your first tantra ceremony with me please call me directly here

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

May 26, 2024 No comments

How to Empower your Divine feminine

You may not realize this but the true purpose of learning #tantrayoga is to unite the Divine Masculine [Lord Shiva] with your Divine feminine [Shakti- Kali Ma]

We are both Male & Female and when we learn to practice this delicate balance within our #chakras through breathing & yoga stretches we harmonize our physical & mental bodies.

All of us must learn to activate  our #kundalinishakti & our feminine energies

You can do this by movement such as dancing 💃 & yoga 🧘‍♀️ or hikes 🚶‍♀️ in Nature. pamper yourself by taking hot baths 🛁 or getting an indulgent massage or spa day


The #sacralchakra needs healing attentive care.  Create art, anything beautiful to harmonize your Divine feminine. Even taking care ❤ of your skin as a daily and nightly ritual is a sacred act of awakening your Divine feminine.


Learning #mudras will help heal your inner feminine so you can begin with a basic book and learn the mudras (hand ✋ gestures) that help activate your third eye 👁 heart ❤ chakra and sacral chakra.

Allow time for grounding and self healing on a daily basis. Make sure you take time to journal and self reflect.

Even the act of shopping 🛍 for beautiful objects, pillowcases, silks, flowers 💐 is self healing

Self care is sexy ….pampering yourself opens sacral energies

As your sacral energies & Divine Goddess awakens your opportunities and Abundance grows

Don’t allow yourself to grow stagnant …stagnancy leads to depression and the lack of self love leads to emotional blocks 💔 that can block your opportunities.

Hope to meet you soon

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

activation of the Divine feminine
May 9, 2024 No comments

Tantra is about self love & safe boundaries

You know yourself better than anyone and if you keep doing things to please others; but it goes against your comfort zone you can and will make yourself psychically and physically ill.

When we only act to please others we can stress our bodies out and I guarantee you your spirit will be broken and you will feel energetically drained until you’re all tapped out.

Not being honored for your boundaries and belief systems can lead to self neglect and depression.  Being with someone you no longer like or love 💔  will wear down on your psyche.

Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to walk away from toxic environs and people who refuse to listen 🎶 to what we have to say.

Self love ❤️ and self care is a byproduct of receiving ✨️ a #reiki healing ✨️ or a good massage or a #tantra ceremony

If you choose to schedule a #chicagotantra ceremony with me you will receive nurturing, intuitive bodywork, holistic ##breathwork #soundhealing reflexology #reiki #cuddletherapy and the opportunity to activate your #kundalini

I am here for you ❤

To me connection is everything ❤️
If you call me but I personally don’t feel a heart connection with you based off your voice vibrations I might suggest someone else for you to work with. 

I am extremely intuitive and Empathic by nature and my services will appeal to highly sensitive people seeking a real connection and sense of community.

Email 📧 me at
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
butterflyshadows@aol.com

let me know more about who you are and why you are excited to try tantra

We aren’t the same people we were 20 years ago. We evolve and we understand more about ourselves and what we need. Sometimes when people begin a romantic relationship with a partner early in life they find out their needs change with age, experience and self wisdom. However just because we become more emotionally mature and independent; it doesn’t mean our partners grow with us. Sometimes our partners have a completely different belief system and there’s nothing in common between the two of you anymore. One partner might still remain devoted and completely in love; but the other person grows away 💔 and needs more out of the relationship so the two grow apart.
If you’ve grown out of certain behavioral patterns or limiting beliefs never be afraid to engage in alternative healing paths. Suggest tantra workshops and tantra sessions to your partner just as a means to draw your bond closer. However if you’ve tried your very best to express your needs and goals and your partner is resistant to change or the newer version of who you are then it’s time for you to create healthy boundaries or move on from the relationship so you can continue to grow as a person.

Call me directly at (312) 339-7707 for a free 15 phone 📱 conversation or book me this week for a paid coffee ☕ consultation or full hour phone consultation.

You will find detailed information about my tantra ceremonies here:

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

you may also subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly

Tantra helps you love yourself unconditionally
March 29, 2020 No comments

Tantra Massage Retreats In Chicago by Goddess Diana

I highly recommend all new students of tantra plan ahead for a unique and celebratory 3 hour to 6 hour t antra retreat with me here in Chicago, Illinois.
The benefits are endless for as long as you feel you deserve the pampering and the self healing.
Many people however have a hard time simply receiving pleasure. They prefer to give to their partner but they themselves don’t feel deserving of caring, nurturing touch.

The purpose of tantra yoga and massage is to teach you bodily awareness, mindfulness and sensitivity.

I will strive and do my best to awaken your latent and dormant pleasure zones and energy centers (chakras) by using pleasing touch, light caresses, deep trigger point release and Usui reiki on your physical body.

My tantra ceremonies are meant to revitalize and restore you. If you are a writer or director or CEO you need something to inspire your creative spark and encourage your writing or your brain power.

Musicians also need to release their potential through the expression of their sexuality and sexual energies.  Many successful entrepreneurs and musicians have a very open base or Mulhdara chakra and find g spot massage helpful to their mental outlook and in the creation of new musical material

Tantra inspires creativity and intuition
We will focus together on chakra balancing, chakra baths, mutual cuddle therapy, bodywork, reiki, goddessworship, intimacy training, reiki, aromatherapy, soundhealing, and basic tantra yoga exercises that you can use for your daily practices for yourself or with your partner at home.

Do give my services a try.  I genuinely love what I do and I love setting up sacred space
here in Chicago, Illinois.

For a more comprehensive listing of all my services and unique offerings please visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and spend at least 90 minutes there.

I have written articles on what tantra is and everything tantra yoga can offer you.  I have written articles on my main website that might inspire you to dive in and try a tantra massage or spa retreat and get your energies flowing for the better.

Let’s Co create something positive and beautiful together. Married couples are also encouraged to schedule a tantra retreat or any shorter length session with me in the privacy of your home or hotel room.

Remember the *Magic* begins within you.  I am here to simply remind you of how powerful you are and help you release hour own kundalini energies.  I am a Catalyst and an empty Receptacle connecting to Source.  I am not giving you any of my energy nor are taking on any of my energy or Karma.

Tantra is about the co creation of Sacred Space, the establishment of loving boundaries, and Divine touch that activates the Fires within you.

Let’s create memories together and start you on your own journey of transformation and rising Kundalini.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312 339 7707

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Connect with me on LinkedIn and join my network there today.

You are also encouraged to follow me on Instagram and subscribe to my YouTube channel for additional information on my personal character, firsthand experiences and mini tantra lessons.

I am intentionally transparent so you feel more comfortable with meeting me in person; but for anyone here who is still undecided on what ceremonies to choose from you are encouraged to book me for a paid phone consultation and we can discuss your goals, budget and concerns.

I’m delighted you found me here today and hope we can meet in person soon.  I also have chakra balancing sessions available via a live and interactive phone conversation for anyone who can’t visit with me here in Chicago.

 
December 31, 2019 No comments

Happy New YEAR’S 2020

The following poem was written by me on New year’s eve of 2012….please enjoy 🦋

Some Bridges are meant to be Crossed
Some Bridges are repaired
Some bridges are rickety
They require extra special Care

Some Bridges lead to no where
Some Bridges lead to Ecstasy
Some Bridges lead you wandering
with no return trip back home

Some Bridges you travel leave you lost and lonely
And these bridges you must travel alone

Some bridges are brand new
But some bridges are Meant to be burned
knowing when to burn bridges is a skill
you don’t want to harm innocents along the way

A thousand Warriors and a Thousand Bandits
A thousand feet traveled old roads before
some leading to beauty some endless rapes
A Million to one
The karma was set long before you were even
a conscious thought a mere concept

Wandering these valleys
takes a lot of patience and for some
their thirst is endless
feeding the Poor hungry ghosts along the way
The Road you thought you chose
lead you to further roads you choose never to cross
and a thousand villages count now as the only
Soul witness
a Mansion you have made
from Bridges left unturned ~<3~

A little New Year’s Eve poem I wrote In 2012
Diana Grossman

Happy new YEAR’S 2020

May you never be afraid to explore new roads, cross new bridges and or repair and rebuild on what you already do have.

Change can be daunting but sometimes you have to be able to abandon what you grew accustomed to in order to evolve and heal.

Wishing everyone here the courage to become more alive and the ability to meet every challenge you encounter with enthusiasm and acumen.

Happy New YEAR’S 2020