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December 16, 2016 1 Comment

Current Advertisers I Suggest you Boycott the Eros Guide indefinitely till Changes are made to benefit you.

diana-soft-focus-nudes-tantra-butterflyAs the title of this blog states I am strongly urging all current advertisers to formally BAN the site known as http://www.erosguide.com indefinitely until changes are made to benefit YOU the consumer.

You are the consumer. You pay a ton of your money to receive inferior services. I know this because I do remember when the eros guide was actually a great place to find wonderful clients. I remember when my phone “used to” ring off the hook because the earlier version of the eros guide was basic and much more pleasing to the eye. Now as you notice the site now known as http://www.erosguide.com has been taken over by a new group of people and the original owner who was a former prostitute/sex worker no longer owns this business.

You the consumer hold all the cards not the other way around. If everyone would simply not use the eros guide for several months I can assure you many positive things would happen. I found out the hard way that long years of loyalty meant nothing to them. They certainly no longer needed my business because I was just pennies to them and not a real human being with genuine feelings. Eros guide did not care about my well being and they do not care about you. All it takes is for you to use one word that they deem “illegal” and you are banished promptly from their site and all evidence of your ad will be destroyed forever. They won’t let you argue your way back or listen to you. You will be another banned useless commodity because the truth is Eros guide is also a privately owned Brothel.

About a year ago after I was banned I noticed a change in the way I was being treated. My opinions were ignored and instead of positive changes made I did notice the eros guide was actively seeking “models’ or paid sex workers and they wanted these new women to send them Id’s and photographs. All women who were attractive and between the ages of 18 to 36 were encouraged by the eros guide to send in their information online and if they were selected they could earn 2,000 and up to 5,000 per week as “models’ or escorts in New York city. I saw this ad because I researched top escort sites on google in New York city. I found that ad quite by accident and the ad stated that these women could have a two week trial period just to see how it worked out. I believe in all fairness that eros guide is now serving as a huge “brothel” and has every desire to promote their privately hired entertainment prospects and get rid of people like me and other well known major providers in the industry that serve as a threat to their personal adult entertainers or shall we say it—prostitutes and GFE’s.

There is nothing wrong with being a GFE or a prostitute but it is highly unethical to promote a handful of women and play favorites allowing these women to say what they wish to say in their ad copy then get rid of innocent women like me whose accounts are being closely monitored and restricted then BANNED permanently.

I also remember a time when I called the eros guide because I noticed changes to my text were made and I could hear a manager in the background scream out “oh it’s that BITCH again…”

So here we go again. If you want to advertise at the erosguide I can’t stop you but just know there are women that receive special favors from the staff so that their ads are outstandingly attractive and there are other people like you and me who will eventually be BANNED for using a phrase they deem incorrect. In the meantime if you still advertise with the eros guide you are feeding their fat wallets and potentially exposing yourself to being victimized by undercover stings because police troll the eros guide much much more than backpages.com to receive their easy prey. If you advertise on http://www.erosguide.com the way it is now and they way it is currently corrupt you are playing Russian Roulette.

Here is more information including a conversation via email I conducted with the eros guide last week when I was invited to enjoy a premier service because of my “loyalty”. Obviously the eros guide made a huge mistake and forgot that they banned me. When I applied to get back on I was told to send money first then told I was Banned. If you are into “bait and switch” then by all means continue to use the eros guide.
Dear potential consumer of the new http://www.erosguide.com I wish to share the following information with you since I do have experience in the adult industry and I have been a well known advertiser with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 15 years since the very beginning of its inception.

I am suggesting all current advertisers to STOP advertising with the site http://www.erosguide.com for a full 6 month period until certain changes are met. You may be a new advertiser and you may have witnessed that some of your friends are currently being BANNED WITHOUT DUE CAUSE OR ANY PRIOR WARNING.

This new site http://www.erosguide.com is not the same ENTITY I enjoyed working with when it was just starting to become a huge “hit” on the internet. I used to religiously use the Chicago Reader when I first worked in this Adult industry and to be honest the true chaos began when I decided to enroll in a FREE advertisement as a trial basis for the new eros guide that was soliciting me and others in my industry for business.

In the very beginning we were treated with genuine kindness and respect. We had a great template that allowed us to upload a series of pictures of us fully nude without childish restrictions. We could write as much text as we wished and there were no “bad” no no words that would get us BANNED or BANISHED indefinitely and or without prior warning.

Everything was peaceful (at first) but then Erosguide.com decided to ad features, reduce the body of our text and change our pictures into tiny square blocks you had to click onto. Visually the erosguide.com was no longer aesthetically pleasing to the eye and of course customer service always encouraged your feedback but nothing would be done to pacify the advertiser. Our pricing was promptly hiked up but I noticed fewer callers and some clients told me the erosguide.com was harder to navigate.

I had no idea what was going on but as the years rolled by I did notice all these cumulative changes and new restrictions on photos were hurting my potential to attract new customers to me. I had to choose words that no longer offended and my one sentence which included the word “I will help you find your inner child” was BANISHED AND DEEMED FILTHY BY upper management at the erosguide.com.

Now my intentions were good so I suggested we change the word to inner psyche and so these small changes in wording were made. I however noticed a huge HYPOCRISY going on in upper management because while my ads were being picked apart there were other advertisers allowed to infer many more graphic and lurid sexual details in the body of their lengthy ads.

I even mentioned to customer service that other women in my field were mentioning the words “edge Play” and other women were allowed to include prose and poetry from well known authors but when I wished to include a phrase from Alice in Wonderland and gave credit to the author I was chastised for it and the few sentences were removed without reason or warning.

I still see so many ads on the current erosguide.com that is allowed to intimate “suggestive” sexual connotations and yet my harmless phrases “yoni healing” and “multiple waves of bliss” were removed and even when they were removed permanently I was BANNED the very next day from “Tim” from the legal department.

I was even given permission to use the word “yoni” by Lisa who was assigned to me about two years ago. I told her I no longer wanted to use the term “Goddess Worship” because callers were confused and expected me to offer them BDSM rather than a tantra healing and education about the “yoni”. I wanted to attract men and women who were already very comfortable in their bodies and had some prior experience in yoga and or tantra massage. My intentions were good when I picked that word and if you google the word Yoni it has many varying meanings and is Sanskrit for womb or birthplace. It can also mean lotus flower or “female genitalia” but according to the new rules on eros last summer it no longer met their standards. I was given a very frantic phone call by Lisa who was a nightmare for me to deal with explaining that the word yoni is not allowed and figure out something else. She suggested Yoni healing and or Yoni education and or yoni training. I complied and allowed her to make a living mess of my once beautiful advertisement.

I allowed Lisa to butcher my ad and remove words that other providers were using on their website. I let her make me look foolish online and then without any warning Tim from the legal department called me the next day and told me according to the “tape recorded” and “monitored” conversation that I had with “lisa” or Lysette or what ever they call her I was BANNED . So in essence I did comply with their rules; I did remove the necessary text and I see plenty of women that are their “favorites” receiving as much attention online as I used to receive but they are not BANNED OR BANISHED.

if you are a new customer expect the following treatment from the “nazi crew”
a. You will not be listened to when they ask for your opinions on ad
layouts. Your conversations are being recorded and they are seeking to trap you into making mistakes so they can label you as a trouble maker and have you gleaned off their site.

B. they are using you as window dressing only. I found proof online that eros guide is involved is sex work trafficking online. I saw strong evidence from erosguide.com offering women works as “models” or sex workers and eros requesting women between the ages of 18 to 36 to apply for “modeling” gigs that will pay them 2,000 to 5,000 a week in New York city.

C. You are supporting unethical people with illegal business practices.

I have so much proof that the Erosguide.com uses you the advertisor to money launder their more shady activities. They have cam girls online on their site 24/7 which by the way is a huge distraction and it makes it impossible for clients to even find an entertainer with all the pop up ads interfering. I saw many ads online where women are advised to apply for work as models in new york and honestly part of the reason that eros guide is okay with banning so many women is because they probably have their own privately owned brothel and using the eros portal as a front and advertisers who don’t know this are being used as “window dressing”.

I truly do miss the old Erosguide.com and the simplicity of the site and the way the original owners treated you. There are new hands running this corrupt machine and providers are being banned for making mistakes in the bodies of their texts and nothing more.

I was even lured back two weeks ago. I was sent invitations to redeem coupons for Premier services so I thought maybe I was welcomed back. I jumped through hoops and sent the erosguide.com a money order but two days after my money was received my ad was not up. I asked what was wrong and said my old account had been banned so they would send my money back but I have not received my money back just yet.

No one from customer service would explain anything to me other than I am BANNED and when I explained Lisa had given me permission to use a word instead of Lisa being fired I was FIRED for being a victimized client.

The following information I am sharing with you is my communication with the people from the Eros guide. Please take all my information seriously. I have no reason to lie or make anything up and the information I shared with you is not slander since it is 110 percent true. There are very few legitimate places to advertise but I assure you if you are considering advertising with the eros guide you can and will be banned without any warning down the road. You are simply taking a gamble.

Eros Guide Customer Service
Fri, Dec 9, 2016 at 10:55 AM

Diana Grossman

Thu, Dec 15, 2016 at 2:44 PM
To: Eros Guide Customer Service
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Dear Brenda,
apparently I was BANNED permanently 17 months ago because a new
account manager with an alias of Lisa who is now known as Lisette gave
me permission to use the word Yoni healing . Three months after she
told me the word was deemed acceptable she called me to have me remove
the term. I complied and asked her why my account was being picked
apart since I was a loyal customer of 16 years. I was Banned. You
are now responsible for sending me back my money order which I sent to
you in the amount of 130. Failure to comply will lead to me writing
about how you treat your loyal customers on my blog which comes up
number one on google and the BBB and rip off report.

Yours
Diana

On 12/9/16, Eros Guide Customer Service wrote:
> Hello Diana,
>
> I hope this email finds you doing well.
>
> It was a pleasure speaking with you today, as promised here is the email
> with our best practices.
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> Below are some things we recommend to you while building/updating your ad:
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> 1. Update Your Tagline Often
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> can check your current status by clicking “More Details” next to your ad
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> This update gets your ad on the What’s New page – one of the most popular
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> 3. Ad Text
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> 6. Available Now
> The “Available Now” option allows you to tag your ad so that viewers know
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> into your Eros
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> First impressions mean everything! You want the viewer to see your best
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> It is important to fill out as much applicable information as possible in
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> location categories, eye color, cup size, ethnicity, etc.)
>
> 9. Eros Authenticated – Get a red “Eros Authenticated” seal on your ad
> and be placed in the Authenticated category for additional exposure and
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> Our publishing standards do apply and contact me for more details.
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Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing, Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach, & Reiki artist ♡♥

Mobile contact: 312-339-7707

Come Journey with Me!
December 8, 2016 No comments

An introduction to Cuddle therapy as I head to Los Angeles, California to explore Tantra

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Hello Fellow Native Chicagoans! This may be my final week here as I am being called to travel to Los Angeles, California this winter season. As you all know if you are a long standing client of mine; winter is my very least favorite season and so I do return to Chicago each year as summer begins and I tend to leave during the very beginning of our winter.

I am offering a brand new ceremony that might appeal to you before I head West so please call me at (312)339-7707 for my new Cuddle Session priced at only $90 per hour. If you have been reading and following my blog http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com then you may have been compelled to try one of my tantra massage ceremonies here in Chicago. I will be heading to Los Angeles, California very soon to offer Tantra Massage, Kundalini Massage, Goddess worship ceremonies and Reiki healings to enjoy the warmer weather and participate in more Tantra workshops that are offered in California. It is my strong desire to immerse myself in new offerings in Los Angeles, California so that I can continue to grow as a spiritual being and hopefully share all of that good energy with all of you no matter what city I happen to travel to.

If you are a native of Los Angeles, California but you have never tried one of my Tantra Ceremonies please do peruse and enjoy the visual beauty of my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com because everyone is very unique in how they present Tantra. I am a formally trained hot stone therapist, Reiki Master, Pranic healer and Tantra Educator and no matter how skilled you are I invite you to schedule your first Tantra Massage Session with me once I arrive in Los Angeles. This will be the first winter season I spend in California and I wish to meet any couple or private student of Tantra, man or woman who needs a bit of healing and Sacred Sensual touch.

My intentions for being in Los Angeles this winter are pretty simple; I wish to escape Chicago’s brutal winter and I truly want to manifest some wonderful new opportunities which includes networking with others in my field and potentially growing and expanding as a healer so I can share more with all of you. I am sure Tantra Massage and Goddess Worship is heavily practiced in California and I will be one of many but remember we each present Tantra so differently from each other and all Goddesses can gift with something special that you never felt before.

Here are the details of my newest Ceremonial Offering that will soon be shared on my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Cuddling Ceremonies in Los Angeles, California by Sensual Muse Diana of Tantra Butterfly

I have noticed a new craze going around all over the United States; but honestly this is nothing new to me because I have included the Sacred Spoon or Sacred Cuddle during all my Beginners Tantra sessions and I personally love to cuddle everyone who comes to see me (even if they did not request it).

The reason why cuddling is so essential is the fact that it enhances your Creativity and I work with so many Creative people which includes film directors, writers, educators, musicians and independent business owners who all have one thing in common—they love touch! Touch and cuddling stimulates your mind and helps increase your levels of oxytocin which prevents heart disease, ulcers and chronic illness. Cuddling helps clear the cobwebs from your mind and each time I meet a new guest I love to simply spoon and breathe quietly together during at least a quarter of the time we spend together during any of my Tantra Ceremonies to help instill trust and complete surrender.

I have spent three years traveling everywhere in the United States and I always seem to come back home here in Chicago to the Midwest because I grew up here all my life and miss many of my clients from 20 years ago. Now I am going to be heading to Los Angeles, California to meet new people and hopefully to attend workshops in my field and maybe a few cuddle parties which are very popular now in California and all over the United States.

It is becoming the new “hot trend” to become a licensed cuddler and so now I wish to provide this essential healing service to men and women who need to be held sacred and who are touch starved. Maybe you are getting over the illness of a loved one and you are their primary care taker so now you feel depleted yourself. Cuddling will fill your cup and help you feel connected to your body so that you are being given something back. I can help you if you suffer from Chronic fatigue syndrome or depression simply by spooning you for an hour or more and using my reiki hands to cleanse your chakras and help you release negative emotions that are holding you back from being abundant and positive about life.

The long term effects of a good cuddle are numerous but here are just a few benefits you will receive from the Conscious cuddle:

Cuddling releases oxytocin a chemical that is produced in your brain that keeps you feeling satiated!
Cuddling boosts your immune system preventing you from acquiring colds or chronic illness.
Cuddling relieves pain and gives you a brighter outlook so you can tackle stress with gracefulness.
Cuddling helps deepen your relationships whether they are romantic interludes or pure platonic friendships.
Cuddling can lead to more bonding and intimacy between you and your partner.
Cuddling helps women bond in a group setting and trust their partner more.
Cuddling reduces social anxiety and makes you feel confident about yourself giving you a good dose of self esteem.

Now that you know of all the benefits of my Sacred Embrace I welcome you to spoon with me for a full hour of cuddling! I am a naturally cuddly person and I am very confident about my body so I welcome all body types because there is no need for you to feel self conscious or fearful especially around someone as natural and bohemian as me! I have been surrounded by people since my early twenties and I truly enjoy hugging everyone I meet so you will feel my genuine ease and hopefully this will help you to reach out to more people for a huge hug or cuddle when ever you need one. You might even decide to throw a cuddle party yourself after working with me for a few sessions.

During our time together we can engage in some quiet breathing exercises or you can open up to me about something that is pestering you and preventing you from going to the next step. I am highly intuitive and sometimes I am able to draw out something inside of you that needs to come out. I am also a Reiki Master and during our Sacred Cuddle you will feel a sense of true relief and hopefully you will be more aligned at the end of our shared cuddle.

My fees per each hour are $90 and during our cuddle you can also ask for additional Reiki if you are suffering from heartbreak or physical pain such as a backache, sprain or headache because Reiki is a very subtle, warm form of energetic healing that helps your body heal by itself on its own time frame.

During our Cuddle session in Los Angeles, California we will both wear either pajamas or comfortable clothing such as yoga outfits. If you feel most comfortable in a fluffy costume or footie pajamas then bring those items with you because we will be “cuddling” and “snuggling” but we will be wearing clothing and we will not be “molesting” one another. During my cuddling session the main goal is to make you feel safe and held sacred and there are boundaries so this will not be a hot, steamy, sexual interlude; this is more about getting you to feel loved in a very warm, platonic healing way that is akin to complete unconditional love. I need for you to feel completely safe and I will not be inviting you to “grope” my body nor will I be “groping” your body in a sexually charged way. I have Tantra Massage Ceremonies that are listed on my site that are more geared towards mutual touch and Goddess Worship but my Sacred Cuddle Ceremony in Los Angeles, California and Chicago are purely Sacred HUGS and spooning.

Let me Create more Sacred Touch in your life and get your body flowing with positive CHI! Contact me directly on my mobile phone for questions regarding my Cuddle Ceremonies in Chicago and California (312) 339-7707

Chicagoans Please see me one last time before I head to California. I will truly miss all of you and I thank all of you with trusting me with your sacred energy. If you are going to be visiting Los Angeles, California for the winter season I would love to reconnect with you once I am there!
November 29, 2016 No comments

Tantra Massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana to help Activate your bliss hormone!

diana-halloween-cat-pantiesHappy Holidays and I do hope everyone here had a busy and uplifting Thanksgiving. I spent most of the time enjoying it with my two loving pets, creating Sacred Space for a few special people and just enjoying everything Chicago has to offer like the International Film festival and some great art.
I am available for couples sessions, full day tantra retreats for singles and private workshops for your tiny group of friends. If you have been seeking healing touch in Chicago my focus is essential oil blends to enhance relaxation, reflexology upon request, Tantra Massage and deep tissue sports massage to get you feeling better about life.

My sessions are always uniquely yours meaning I tune into your body and we co create a special session or it can be more structured if you want to learn more about how your chakras work and I can help you open each chakra with focus, breathwork, meditation and concentrated touch if you feel like one of your energy centers is stuck.

Tantra is a fully integrated journey of all your senses and helps your body produce healthy levels of oxytocin which is a hormone your pituitary gland releases giving you a feeling of love and connection after receiving gentle sensuous touch. It is a love hormone activated after cuddling, and intimate touch.

Oxytocin is an anti anxiety effect upon our body and mind helping you increase your openness for romantic union and allowing you to become more intuitively aware of your needs and your partner’s needs. In other words your awareness and empathy will increase and you will be more willing to open up to touch so if you have been partnerless for an extended amount of time Tantra will open up your blocked pathways of bliss and help you reconnect to your sensual feelings.

Oxytocin also protects your intestinal lining from damage and with continued sessions in Tantra you will notice a huge improvement in your third chakra which rules your digestive tract. If you suffer from stomach pain for instance and your are not receiving enough positive and healing touch Tantra Massage will increase your doses of Oxytocin and help heal your gut lining so the mental and physical affects work together to help promote wellness and self healing in your emotional and physical body.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a list of complete services I have to offer. I have a very flexible schedule and we can prepare a full day, half day of self healing or a couple of hours together to help you feel more loved and aligned for the Holidays!

On a bright note I always offer sliding fees for serious students of tantra and for longer increments of time. I want everyone to be able to afford this treat!

Goddess Diana
Sensual Muse
Chakra Activator
Couples Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Coach

Cellular number 312-339-7707
September 7, 2016 No comments

Couples Tantra in Chicago to help regenerate trust in your relationship and self awareness.

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Dear Audience, I hope everyone here had a peaceful Labor Day Holiday. I myself balanced play, work and some wonderful fun self love activities into my weekend.

I met a wonderful couple this weekend from Missouri and it was their first opportunity to receive couples Tantra so not only were they open to touch but they came here to Chicago without any misconceptions, bias, bad experiences or expectations.

I feel that when you are open to what the energy of Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage can do for you and your relationship you end up receiving so much more than what you could have possibly anticipated. Of course when you have misconceptions and you base your new experience on sex videos then yes you might be let down. Not everyone is going to receive multiple orgasms the first time they come to work with me with their partner. Some people feel a tingling in their limbs or a gentle heat vibration along their spinal column but do not actually have the ability to reach orgasm in front of their partner especially not if they are shy or self conscious when meeting with a sex educator.

I am so pleased when people are just open to sensing their own energies and finally being aware of the transference of energy from their own body to their partner’s body. We have a tendency to numb our body’s ability to sense touch and tantra yoga and massage helps your body open up so that your concerns are gone and all you are aware of is your own body. You might feel weightless or timeless during a couples tantra ceremony and my goal is to make both of you feel more vital, awakened but centered and calm.

The following is a testimonial I just received and I am happy to share it with all of you especially if you have never tried a couples tantra session before in the hopes that you will understand what Tantra Massage can do for you and your frame of mind.

Goddess Diana,
Thank you for your gift of touch this past weekend and thank you for accommodating my wife and I for our second year anniversary and making this a most unique Labor Day Holiday. My wife encouraged me to try tantra through out the years we dated but I really was not ready for the journey and honestly I had no real idea besides videos we had watched together what Tantra Massage or Tantra yoga practices involved. I don’t normally even receive massages and when you touched me and I could actually feel your presence I understood exactly what I’ve been missing all this time and now I do realize I have a lot of “catching up” to do.

I could feel your energy move through me and when you and I started working on my wife I felt a tingling sensation vibrating between my fingers and my wife’s skin as if we were electrically charged and feeding each other energy. I almost felt weightless and timeless if I can put all this into words for you. We scheduled you for a full three hours and to me it felt like we spent a good seventy five minutes together because our session moved through so quickly and without effort. I had no expectations and I just trusted you to guide me.

My wife and I were tingling for hours after our session and we both felt awake but peaceful at the same time. I can say I felt safe, loved, renewed and peacefully content after our couples session. Also I am so happy with your hotel suggestion because we had a gorgeous view of the city and loved the spa bath that we all shared together so now I even know of a great place to stay in the future the next time we visit Chicago.

I want you to know I am more open now to the possibility of exploring other aspects of Tantra and I do now wish to learn more about the energy centers involved especially when you helped activate my sexual energy. Our session as a couple this weekend meant a lot to us and I am now better prepared to want to explore other venues like tantra workshops because I feel a lot less self conscious about this entire journey. Your patience, your compassion and your ability to infuse laughter into our ceremony has left a strong impression on me. I guess I never valued touch till I saw the smile on my wife’s face this weekend and I never felt so open and ready to learn more! Thank you for being so generous with your time. I know I paid you for three hours but I noticed maybe it went on a bit longer even though the time went so fast. Next time we might see you for a whole day if we have the time and if you are still in Chicago.

Thank you again for taking the time to reach deep within me and helping me feel and sense energy I never felt before. I never realized how touch starved I was or how energetically charged a good massage could be till I experienced your touch! I realize now that touch, sexual chemistry, love, connection, and energy are all interwoven. I am even expressing myself much differently than I used to and I am thankful for people like you that actually do have passion for the work they do! I don’t ever want to let myself get so “shut down” again.

Jonathon and Krysten from Kansas, Missouri

As I leave you with this information and thoughts to ponder I invite you to peruse my website for additional offerings just in case you have that urge to free up your own energy or come visit me here in Chicago or sponsor me in your city for Couples Tantra Massage. Please visit my main site at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly here at 312-339-7707

I look forward to your call.
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
July 20, 2016 1 Comment

Come explore a Full Day Tantra Retreat with Goddess Diana in Chicago this summer!

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Are you planning something special this summer with your lover? Do you wish to spend several hours escaping your normal reality and immersing yourself in alternative healing?
I invite you to explore your sensual side this summer in Chicago as a couple or completely by yourself. I provide a safe, comforting environment where you can let your guard down and learn the basics of chakra balancing, tantra massage and couples tantra here in Chicago.

Many people this past summer have opted to choose learning tantra in longer increments of time and they are seeing immediate results that last for days and weeks. I can offer you a half day journey of tantra massage in Chicago where we will learn proper breath control and some rudimentary chanting of the bija mantras. I playfully teach you how to open up your chakra bodies using chants that activate you so you can feel empowered throughout our Tantra Ceremony here in the city of Chicago.

A small intro to the bija mantras will be explored and you will sing with me simple one-syllable sounds called seed sounds that help you feel tingling during our ceremony. In order for me to help you arouse your erogenous zones we make use of these simple seed sounds which tunes and tones your body with resonance bringing you fully back into your physical body. The purpose of our chakra chants is to keep you here in the moment with me and hopefully make you strum with energy and maybe giggle a little too. Our goal is to keep you in a trance form of mind and bring you into states of greater psychic awareness. The end result of our shared singing of these seed sounds is laughter, a tingling sensation and a state of satiation and mindfulness.

A Mantra is a string of sounds or words that create a sense of transcendence. You will transform your body through sound healing and each muscle and cell of your body will be elevated and uplifted as we explore the seed sounds together. There will be moments as I touch you that I will encourage you to take slow, deep, soothing breaths into all of your chakra bodies and then as you exhale you will utter a sound or a bija mantra. Each chakra or vortex of energy will open with a corresponding seed sound so as we sing together you will feel heat and a great surge of energy connecting from your toes to the top of your skull or crown chakra. There will be times I will just allow you to relax completely and I will bathe your body with these healing sounds. Most people feel a genuine vibration or “echo” resonating in their physical body while I perform these sounds. I will have you relax and breathe deeply into your chakra system while I chant the seed sounds LAM, VAM, RAM, YAM, HAM, OM, OM repetitively into your energetic bodies. Eventually you will have enough stamina to recite all six of these sounds all in one long breath with enough practice and patience.

During my full day retreats we will meet at a spa space in Chicago where we can take time to connect, help you meet your goals and fully digest all the energy centers that help enable you to feel more connected to your own power source. I will teach you reiki, tantra massage, tantra yoga, kundalini yoga and I will infuse our session with pure organic essential oils and trigger point massage. Each step of activation leads to a greater understanding of this organic process of Tantra bliss. You will even have a chance to learn about activating the female body as I teach you the subtleties of yoni healing during my longer sessions.

Join me this summer in Chicago for single day retreats, weekend retreats, couples Tantra massage, Yoni empowerment, Reiki and Sensual exploration. You can read my testimonials here on my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com by clicking onto my testimonials index page.

I hope to hear from you soon! Help me plan a special day or weekend for you as a couple or just as a decadent and healing escape for yourself!

Goddess Diana
(312) 339-7707

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May 23, 2016 No comments

Tantra to calm your mind and amp up your capacity for Eros!

It’s time for me to blog again! Every so often I am drawn to my online habit of writing because just like energy work I always find great pleasure in letting my fingers etch out my thoughts. Creative writing has always been something I loved so it doesn’t surprise me that I find myself here trying to spark up anyone’s interest in Tantra Yoga through the written medium!

First if you haven’t found my main tantra website I wish to include a link in here for you to peruse ~> http://www.tantrabutterfly.com. My site was first developed by a client of mine and he and I exchanged a few tantra sessions so that he could put together the bare skeletal system of my ongoing tantra process and

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project. Lately I am immersed in writing here because this word press site costs me nothing to upload fresh content for you and It helps me with SEO that I don’t have to pay for.

In case you don’t know me personally I have been a sensual healer since my early twenties and have never worked for anyone but myself no matter how busy I got or how sluggish I am with the occasional lapse of work. In the past two years I have taken my tantra show on the road and took my two beautiful pets with me sharing rides with strangers or chipping in with gas if someone requested gas fare to get to where we needed to go.

Now I find myself in Washington D.C. which of course borders Virginia and Maryland. I picked this area for the past month and a half so I could run into old guests from my past and hopefully catch people in transition or en route to their ultimate destinations while they are headed to work or vacation.

Whether or not you are familiar with tantra or new to tantra in Washington D.C. there are some simple things to know about how this type of massage can potentially change you.

First of all this is a form of energy work so if you have any unfinished business buried in your psyche or sub conscious mind they will come to be awakened during or shortly after our session is over. I can’t always promise it will be a pleasant memory but it will be healing for you as we learn to help you peal away debris and old layers of your persona.

Nothing would delight me more than to have you deliriously laugh and or giggle during and after our time together because that sometimes happens as a result of triggering kundalini shakti. I can assure you you will leave completely altered and changed. You might taste food with acumen to the point where bitter is too strong for you or salt too salty for your taste buds to endure.

You might see colors more intensely and your sense of audio might be crisper and well honed. All these sensory awakenings are part of your body’s unique way of adapting to the new you. You should not feel afraid if your mouth vibrates with pleasure or your finger pads and toes are tingling. All of these symptoms are clear proof that your energy has been fully activated during our shared Tantra Ceremony.

Tantra Yoga and Tantra Massage promotes full body healing and wellness. We will be breathing deeply and soundly during our time together and so much of your own natural oxygen will be used throughout your entire body building stamina and strength in your erogenous zones and all your energy circles or chakras.

When I work on people I feel fed because I am being of use. I am quieting and unwinding your mind and body helping you feel safe and grounded. My tantra techniques are enhanced and amplified by my own natural ability to spend more time on areas of your body that I feel are problematic or blocked. For instance, if you recently suffered from a trauma or injury I may intuitively spend more of my time on that part of your body helping you breathe pleasure into those areas that were bringing you discomfort.

Sensual energy is intensely powerful and any journey we take together will be special with it’s own outcome whether it be rage, joy, increased abilities to understand yourself or a more tender heart that is awakened within you.

Many people leave my space feeling more elevated, hopeful and Compassionate and that is honestly what my goals are for you; but some people who have deep seated trauma or self loathing or guilt might feel enraged or unsure of themselves either because of their upbringing or due to what they believe is right or wrong morally.

I feel tantra is medicine for your soul and the biggest muscle I hope to awaken in you is your ability to love and we do this together, face to face as I endeavor to open up your heart chakra wider and wider till you feel an overflow of self love and more compassion for others.

Join me in yab yam or mutual cuddling if that interests you more. Ask me questions as we go along because I want you to understand every hand placement and every shared gaze. I don’t want you to leave feeling confused or “cheated” because you were too afraid to ask for something special that peaked your curiosity. When we meet together for the first time we will have a chance to laugh, chat briefly and if you are a beginner I want to know one or two goals that we can fit into our tantra session. The only people that leave here unenlightened are those individuals that had expectations of me or themselves that were not explored or met. Just remember you are a beginner and I am not completely telepathic. I might start out much slower than you wish during our first tantra session together especially if you have never mastered the breath or had any introduction to energy work before.

Please be patient with me and be loving and patient with yourself. You can’t become an expert at the tantra breath just by partaking and dabbling with one session or two spread far apart. You on your own have to have the desire to learn by practicing a little each day and by attending workshops and private classes that interest you. You can take one class a week in white tantra which is Kundalini tantra and helps you activate your hormones by chanting, holding poses and breathing slowly. If you take one white tantra class a week you are slowly adapting your body to the value of the breath work that needs to be done in order for you to transfer energy and charge up your energy centers during sensual awakenings.

You are encouraged to buy some books on the male and female orgasmic centers so you can practice at home by yourself or with your partner. You will learn how to breathe, charge up your own chakras and contract your kegels more readily by reading these books which include diagrams of the female and male sexual centers. Don’t just dabble in one session or two or jump from one tantra expert to the next. You are cheating yourself and you won’t be able to master the baby steps if you constantly starting and stopping with new people. New teachers can always enhance your awareness and peak your curiosity but if you can’t gain trust with one or two or three trusted masters of tantra you won’t have a sense of gaining more knowledge you will just be avoiding your own self. Self awareness and patience is developed through this practice so learn to take the baby steps first and eventually the breath will be so natural for you, you won’t even be thinking of consciously breathing into your chakras you will just be fully present in the moment and pulsing with energy!

I hope to meet you soon whether you have years of experience under your tantra belt or you have never even enjoyed a massage in all your adult years. I have worked with sex workers, virgins, patients recuperating from cancer, military men, corporate business women, housewives, and the very young adult male to older men in their mid seventies. I am dedicated to making you feel more alive, accepted and loved.

Fondly,
Your Sensual Muse Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Best contact number (312) 339-7707
May 11, 2016 No comments

Healing aspects of Sensual Massage and Sensual Surrender

jean harlow faceHello! I am inspired to graze over the topic of sensual massage and Tantra Eros on my blog today. I can’t promise there is a cure all to what ails you but I can only offer my humor, healing presence and gentleness to teach you how to be more loving to your partner.
If however you have deep seated anger issues against your significant other or if you have an axe to grind against women in general I would prefer to suggest you seek professional counseling because my sessions are more suitable for men who love women and honestly I would prefer you seek counseling if you have passive aggressive tendencies.

I value anyone’s feelings who come to me for a sacred healing. I am currently visiting the Washington D.C. and Maryland borderline and I hope to attract men or couples who do have a desire for connection. I am not a licensed psychotherapist so if you feel anger towards your partner please seek a licensed therapist and I think you can move on with a greater perspective on your life and what’s eating you.

My sessions are for men going through hunger pains either due to physical illness, transitions in career paths or divorce. If you have been without touch my sensual massage sessions will include cuddling exercises that will help you feel more grounded and centered. I allow cuddling, mutual conscious touch, light feathery sensory touch and exercises that can amp up your energy into a full body tingling awakening. If you are ready for a full body kundalini activation I include male g-spot massage during my traditional tantra ceremonies and all tantra ceremonies include sensual touch. You may find my g-spot massage helpful if you are feeling a bit stuck in life or if you are doubting your ability to manifest what you want in your life.

Sensual Massage is good for your brain activity and your central nervous system. The lightest touch can make you feel more hopeful about life and help you find more creative approaches to problem solving. Sensual Massage does not always have to culminate in the most mind blowing orgasm because that may not be where your body is in the moment. There will be alternative times where you feel blissfully awakened and vibrating with energy and other moments when you feel trance like and calm. You might leave your body and drift off peacefully for a while as you receive my healing sensual touch but I will always allow you to be what you need to be in the moment.

Please join me this week in Washington D.C. for sensual massage, traditional tantra ceremonies and Reiki. I can to the best of my ability focus on your needs and I can promise positive results for as long as you are open to the healing aspects of sensuality without guilt or shame.

You are welcome to read my testimonials on my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com/testimonials.htm and get a feel for what is possible. No two people can expect the same results but I can assure you what ever aspects you carry in your consciousness will come out more clearly after you receive a sensual massage or a traditional tantra activation.

Visit my main website for a full listing of offerings at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and feel free to ask me questions prior to your first visit. My best contact number is 312-339-7707 and feel free to address me as simply Diana.

Sensual massage is offered during my visit to Washington D.C. and I love to include essential oils, aromatherapy, reiki, tantra and breathing exercises to help lift you up and bring you to a brighter place. My sessions are best suited for men or women who are touch starved and who have an open and loving heart and or sensitivity to touch.

Hope to hear from you when you are ready to shift your energy.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
April 24, 2016 No comments

Astral travelling while receiving Sacred Spot Massage during Kundalini Shakti

Maya Derren The relector (meshes)I promised I would write a brief essay on a couple of experiences I had with clients who did actually go into a lucid/dream trance and were able to coherently share bits and pieces after our session so we could both enjoy the story of their “whereabouts” in the astral plane!

The first incident and the most profound took place during a trip I made to visit San Diego, California a few days after my mother died of cancer. At the time I was living in New Orleans and visiting my mother once a month in Chicago while keeping my client base in Chicago. I decided to visit San Diego and walk along the ocean and I attracted one individual who said he’d always wanted a session with me and was following my website for a long time but we were never in the same city during his business travels.

He admitted to me that he practiced yoga and meditation for a long time now and he enjoyed vision quests, transcendental meditation and tantra yoga was now part of his path so he told me he was very comfortable with me exploring his sacred spot and to feel free at the end to do this since he had no boundaries and was excited to try anything.

I had some beautiful music and in the background a man was taking you on a journey to the depths of the earth and you could hear sounds of the cave and dripping water from caverns.

At the end when I was triggering his sacred spot I noticed he actually convulsed steadily and his eyes rolled back till all I could see were the whites of his eyes. He was no longer with me and I did not know how to pull him back in but I figured I would just let him ride and not panic. After his eyes were rolled back for a considerable time he spoke in an Ancient language that sounded like Ancient Hebrew or Aramaic but it was incredibly real and lovely to listen to. Again I refused to panic and I just held the space for him to do what he needed to do.

Finally after he was triggered into full body orgasm he came back to me gradually breathing deeply and I asked him if he remembered speaking in tongues.

He looked blankly at me and said he had no recollection but could I share with him what he was saying. I said I can’t translate ancient hebrew but it was beautiful like a reverent chant and I really was not sure of the language origin but it was pretty so i was not scared.

He did say he had visions during his awakening and he said it involved two different goddesses. The first Goddess that encountered him danced around him in circles and she had a gold body and long, blood red hair. She danced and left. The second Goddess was the white goddess and she had long, silver hair and as she danced around him he realized she was going to become famous and author many books on tantra yoga.

I did not know what to say but I thanked him for sharing his story with me. I do know one thing with regards to tantra yoga. If a student comes to you with a pre knowledge of proper breath and the yoga postures then he or she will have a more profound experience rather than just telling you they felt some “heat”. He obviously trusted me enough to go into the astral plane and just zone out there for a while so I was very grateful to be a witness to his journey!

My second experience with astral travels occurred years later in the city of Chicago. I met a really nice, slightly out of shape man with a huge teddy bear heart. He was just so open and caring and when he arrived at my apartment he hugged me and he kept saying repeatedly that he felt like he has known me forever.

He also gave me permission to work with his prostrate and again I noticed he got very quiet at me towards the last half hour of our session. We were still together and I could still feel his energy near me but somehow his breathing became much heavier sounding and when it was again time for his full body awakening his entire body became electrical like a wire overflowing with energies. I did bring him back to reality and I encouraged him to speak about his journey.

He told me he saw the two of us in a very dark room, dimly lit only by the light of candles. He was wearing a heavy ceremonial crown upon his head and he felt the vibe was joyful and festive rather than being sombre. He knew for a fact we were together enjoying a joyous occasion in Ancient Egypt. I was so excited to hear this and I wanted to know what I looked like because when I participated in a DNA activation ceremony in Boulder, Colorado I heard a song of the Goddess Isis during my activation ceremony so I knew I was of her DNA lineage and she had importance to me.

He said it was too dark for him to see my face clearly but he knew it was me from my energy and my vibration. Well you can’t believe how excited I was to share this experience with a new client whom I had never met before! I felt deeply grateful that he was able to remember such detail as he traveled back into one of his past lives with me.

If anyone needs to know why I am so passionate about assisting people with the Sacred Sensual energies I think it is the unknown and all the wonderful unexpected surprises you can find and feelings of deja vu when you meet new clients who seem familiar to you on your path.

It takes a strong sense of self to put yourself in such a vulnerable and open position and if you can let yourself zone out and can fully trust your body takes you places and your spirit tunes into Universal flow so easily and so readily. Being receptive to these sexual energies is a gift and involved maturity, trust, joy and complete openness. One thing both of these men had in common was inner joy and a blind belief in the miracles of energetic healing. Both men trusted me with their sacred energy implicitly without holding anything back and without any cynicism.

If anyone wishes to learn more Sacred Spot Massage there are wonderful authors everywhere on the internet who compile a collective of stories but you can only “conjecture” when you read a book. If you are brave enough and willing to let go then I welcome you to take your first step with Sacred Spot Massage and we can go as slowly as you need working within your comfort zone and your boundaries.

Please visit my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and if you feel ready and if you do feel a connection to me I would be flattered to be your first Tantra Muse on your new path to self discovery and greater body awareness. Your third eye takes it’s own sweet time to awaken and Sacred Spot Massage assists you in your awakening process with gentleness and arousal of all your erogenous zones.

Goddess Diana Sensual Muse
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
(312)339-7707
April 23, 2016 No comments

Tantra in Washington D.C. and the Tantra Bliss path

maya deren 1How well do you know the architecture of your own human body? How well do you understand the subtle energy bodies that enhance your ability to feel deeply and profoundly the intricacy of layers of touch?

I am a Dakini to some and to others a Muse but I simply see myself as someone who is a Master of subtle touch and an Adept. I delight in teaching you how to awaken your dormant energy centers not just your ability to feel sexual pleasure but to feel your lungs expand each time you challenge yourself into a deeper breath.

When we are absorbed in our inner train of thoughts we can sometimes feel ourselves stop breathing completely. I am sure you have had that feeling before where you are so focused you don’t even feel yourself breathing. But the breath is what expands Consciousness and is a very important “spice” that enhances our ability to deeply feel even if the feelings bring up pain, pain filled memories or vulnerability.

It’s good to wake and rouse yourself from intervals of deep sleep. If you feel you have taken a long vacation from being fully perceptive I invite you to reconnect to your sensitivities. I don’t expect you to feel joyful all the time but I know human contact is something we all crave but don’t always make time for.

I would love for you to trust me enough with your sacred sensual energies for the brief moment we spend in expansion of your heart consciousness. We are always on a continuous search for something outside of ourselves that brings us peacefulness or purpose.

Some people participate in vision quests but others take aside a few moments a day to meditate and be in complete silence without any music playing just to give their minds a rest. Tantra Yoga is a path that leads you to get in tune with your higher being and your inner intuition. During moments of confusion or inner turmoil your vision of yourself and your capabilities tend to be cloudy . When you doubt yourself you may find that you don’t always trust yourself or your intuition so you seek counsel from other people or strangers just to validate who you are and if you are making a correct decision.

I like to think that when a new guest comes to meet me we have the ability to connect as friends during our time together. I have a chance to understand more about what you value and you have a chance to see me as a vulnerable Being doing their very best to join you in bliss and meet you where ever you are. We understand and acknowledge each other and you might find yourself connecting with your higher vibratory self.

When you engage in yoga or Sacred Space you learn to devote yourself to being present and this idea of being here fully awakened can serve as your totem or space marker keeping you in alignment when things get a bit patchy or rough in your world. You begin to trust yourself more and you realize you have Most of the Answers and don’t need to seek too far out to be or feel completely grounded.

Reiki is like wiping the cob webs away from your eyes. I sweep over your aura, taking my time to playfully arouse you but making you feel secure and balanced. In time with repeat Reiki sessions and tantra yoga you realize what a gem you are and as we explore the shadow aspects of our personalities the light aspects come out and this is the yin and the yang.

Yin energies are female and female energy tends to be reclusive and retreating in nature. The Yang is the shadow or male energy which is not afraid to bravely explore and is strong and carries a very forceful, positive energy very sure of itself. If we can explore all aspects of our yin and yang together during our sacred ceremony you will feel more balanced, less shameful and better able to relate to the opposite sex and opposing forces of our natures.

Nurturing is our nature and we become more loving in our humility when we Mirror aspects of each other. I mirror you and you mirror me so what ever it is that sets us off is Blessed because we can understand more about our male/female essence just by gazing into each others eyes.

Tonight is the beginning of Passover and it is also Earth Day. I think these two events are not a coincidence. During the Pesach Ceremony we are in deep meditation mindful of everything we are grateful for and humble in our vulnerability. During the Seder there is the asking of pointed questions like what is the meaning of Passover and the symbols for each food group from the wine to the bitter herbs. Many Jewish people contemplate everything from their history to Ancestral tribulations during Egyptian times where they were enslaved by the Pharaohs.

Today we all also decided to honor Mother Gaia and we may have conserved energy or decided to spend most of our day enjoying Nature or meditating love to the Spirit that keeps us firmly grounded. We throw a lot of our worry and negative energy grounding our chords to the core of the Earth and she accepts our energy feeding off our anger and taking it in as food because Energy is Energy whether is is positive or negative and when you realize that you have nothing to fear you can just let go and be you.

I would love to have you as my Tantra Guest and partner while I visit the D.C./Maryland area so feel free to learn more about my Sacred Ceremonies at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then if you wish to connect by phone please speak with me directly at (312) 339-7707

I hope to help you feel stronger inside!

Sensual Muse Diana of
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com