Posts tagged “Chicago Tantra”
June 18, 2020 No comments

Chicago Tantra The breath of Life

My sessions are meant to bring you a blissful escape that will leave you deeply relaxed and empowered. You will feel waves of electricity as I teach you how to breathe in every moment of pleasure. You will feel tingling sensations from your toes and fingertips to the top of your skull.

If you’ve ever had a tantra massage session and your Goddess didn’t teach you the importance of the breath then you have been mislead and shortchanged. You see Tantra is a form of yoga and to achieve full body bliss you must learn and practice the breath. When you schedule time with me my great responsibility is to teach you how to properly breathe while you are in my care. If I work with your Sacred Sexual energy and notice you stopped breathing I’ll gently remind you to relax, breathe deeply and relax fully so that your sexual energy can travel everywhere within your being to rejuvenate and heal you like good medicine.

Tantra is a form of yoga. Without the breath you will not feel any subtle energies moving through your body. My goal is to help you achieve a sensation of deep euphoria and full body waves of kundalini Shakti. Your kundalini energy will be gently awakened as I teach you about the importance of breathing.

I will be constantly reminding you to breathe deeply and slowly into all major chakra bodies as I touch you and have you slowly inhale essential oils during our tantra massage session. I will be working on all areas of your body especially where you hold and carry too much tension. Once you are pain free your sexual energies will be able to flow freely throughout your physical and spiritual body.

Subtle energies can shift mountains. You will feel a powerful and positive surging of your own kundalini energy moving through you and for days after our session has ended.

I love it when new clients trust me implicitly and schedule multiple hours with me especially if it’s a first time journey into alternative healing and bodywork. If you truly wish to understand the intricacies of alternative healing and bodywork please consider scheduling a half or full day of tantra with me. I will be able to take you on a full exploration of your entire chakra system and teach you more about kundalini energy and opening up your chakras so you feel more free, unlimited and empowered.

Please introduce yourself to me if you feel comfortable working with me.
You may email me here:
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com
Please let me know your legal name, profession, background if any in energy work, your goals and budget.

Or call me directly 312 339 7707
If you have a full hour of questions let’s either meet for a paid coffee consultation in person or a phone consultation. This consultation will be your time to ask me pertinent questions and see if we both connect well together prior to our first session in tantra yoga.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m on LinkedIn, Twitter, Instagram and other forms of social media.
I even have my own YouTube channel under Tantra Butterfly

Feel free to join my social media network and subscribe to my YouTube channel.

I’m transparent in all that I do and what I represent. I believe in the healing power of touch and know how the body responds to healing sounds, nourishing touch, positive affirmations and laughter.

Let’s endeavor to Co create Sacred Space together while I’m still here to serve you in Chicago 🧸 Summer is the perfect opportunity for you to unwind, let your guard down and learn new skills. I’ll be here to focus on your goals and hopefully together we can co create some Sacred Magical moments together.

I serve my Guests with integrity. If I truly feel we aren’t a good energy match I may refer you to someone else who is better suited for your needs 🎈
June 16, 2020 No comments

Chicago Tantra Summer of 2020

Well hello and I hope everyone here is having a beautiful evening! It’s been a series of strange events in our city starting with our enforcement of Stay put Stay at Home orders. Most of us actually stayed active and useful during these times; especially if you are a professional driver, grocery store clerk, nurse and private restaurant owner fulfilling take out orders.

I spent this time blogging to keep my mind hopeful and active and I did work with a handful of old clients from my past, repeat clientele whom I consider “family” and a few very loving, open and sensitive new guests who trusted me implicitly.

I must say I truly miss going to the movies because cinema is a form of deep relaxation for me not just a source of entertainment. I truly miss meeting all the new business people and tourists who visited our city each month to participate in Medical conventions, IT conventions, furniture shows and other important events that took place weekly in Chicago.

I miss receiving calls from visitors from all over the world who know exactly what tantra is and entrusted me with their sacred energy for hours at a time. I miss bringing my essential oils to their private hotel rooms then afterwards relaxing at the Hotel Intercontinental to enjoy a cheeseboard and charcuterie board after a long day of working with tourists and business professionals.

I miss the vibrancy of our city during the summer season and the block party festivals such as an annual art festival that takes place on wells street. I miss getting henna at the art booths and browsing for art, jewelry or crystals.

I also miss Chicago’s farmers markets and purchasing fresh flowers, baked goods and fresh fruit from local organic farmers each weekend.

I miss going to Lincoln Square and enjoying the weekend farmer’s markets where I could purchase Italian flatbread or wild blueberries. After the farmer’s market I’d take a seat outside at Cafe Selmarie and order an iced chai and a slice of pastry or European torte while people watching. After people watching and enjoying the fresh air I’d go to the Music box theater to enjoy a Midnight movie like The Shining or a unique art house independent horror film.

I’m sure no one here in Chicago, Illinois anticipated this long, overdrawn extended stay at home order. At first we were advised that beauty salons, nail salons, restaurants and movie theaters would probably reopen sometime in April. April of course came to an end and here we are now still living in a city that’s practically shut down completely especially after a looting took place two weeks ago that destroyed many private, small mom and pop businesses and larger chains such as Macy’s and a few Walgreens locations.

I’m deeply disappointed with how our political figures decided to handle the quarantine in black and white regulations rather than shades of grey.

I had so many creative ideas how we could have allowed most of our businesses to flourish during our quarantine by simply having these stores and nail salons accept advanced deposits for services rendered and advanced reservations. If you knew you could have a special dining experience in advance with proper sterilization of your table before you even arrived I’m sure you would have been delighted to comply knowing your favorite waitstaff would successfully remain gainfully employed.

Everything in Chicago could have continued to flourish and remain open with advanced planning especially movie theaters. For instance let’s say you wish to see a movie tomorrow and you have the opportunity to look at the seating online. Certain seats would be crossed off to prevent overcrowding of the theater so now it’s only half full; but at least the theaters are still open!

I’m not a politician nor am I a business person. But I do have enough common sense to know that isolating everyone from one another and doing a hard close with certain businesses is too extreme and completely unnecessary.

These are my opinions and I had to share them here because I’m truly disappointed to see so many of our most favorite businesses have closed their doors permanently and we still aren’t allowed to enjoy the arts; yet it’s already mid June!

We can’t live our life in a self contained, overly sanitized bubble. These bubbles are only an illusion of safety and do not build our immunity.

Let’s just say I’m here for you with welcoming arms! Since 2012 I hadn’t raised most of the rates on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com because I want my services to be affordable to most people. I just recently raised some of my rates in order to keep up with the current price of tantra services from my competitors here in Chicago; but I’m always willing and open to meeting people in the middle with their goals and budgets because I absolutely love what I do and I believe in the healing aspects of sensual massage and alternative medicine.

I’m healthy and keeping myself active getting as much fresh air and sunlight as I possibly can. I’d love to help you on your journey to good health, immunity boosting sessions and nurturing touch.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m praying our city will open fully soon! We only get four blissful months of summer and I’m sure everyone will agree that we miss patio dining, art festivals, music festivals and independent film festivals.

Let’s all visualize this city reopening its doors and invite art, beauty and conventions back into our city before the end of summer. So many people need a sense of community and hopefulness to return soon. There may never be a “perfect ” time to reopen so why are we wasting precious time waiting and watching for a “sign”?

How about this for a “Sign”; I’m open and I open my heart to receiving new and old guests who are desirous of healing, nurturing touch. I’m open to working with people seeking chakra balancing, reiki, sound therapy, aromatherapy, deep tissue massage, bathing ceremonies, chanting, tantra yoga, kundalini activation and sensual sacred touch.

I’m here to serve anyone or any couple seeking a multi hour journey of sensory delights, creative visualization and inner calm. I’m available seven days a week to empower, captivate, align, nurture and heal anyone seeking a soothing half or full day of blissful escape.

Please introduce yourself to me via email at

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com or call me directly via my cellular phone at 312 339 7707

Tell me your goals and your budget. Be honest about everything you’re dying to experience even if it’s just pure relaxation therapy.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

May 20, 2020 1 Comment

Chicago Tantra Massage lessons by Goddess Diana

Diana Grossman
Diana Grossman
Massage Therapy, Usui Reiki Master, Tantra Educator at Tantra Butterfly

I would be delighted if you would subscribe to my YouTube channel. I share a bit of information on tantra yoga and it’s also an opportunity for me to vent and share some personal life events that happen to me here in Chicago, Illinois.

I’m a native Chicagoan but I’ve enjoyed traveling throughout the United states with my pets during my career as a licensedtantra educator,  reiki master and yogini.

I offer traditional authentic tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and always implement nurturing  reiki touch, energetic healing, massage,  yoga and chakra balancing during my sessions.

One way to explore Tantra is through eye-gazing. As we gaze deeply into one another’s eyes we keep our mind and heart open and free of judgments. Your heart will expand and unfold like a blossoming flower and you will begin to be fully in the moment and honor the soul of another being.

When we gaze and focus upon the left eye of the one facing you you can look directly into their Soul. We mirror eachother and learn Empathy for another.

We are all human beings making mistakes but we can take time away from the Mundane and learn how to connect to our Higher Selves by co creation of Sacred Space.

The simple act of joining hands, looking into each other’s eyes and breathing together is part of how we establish and Co create sacred space.  We honor one another with the breath and acknowledge the Divine Creator within each of our physical bodies.

Tantra is a very intimate and Sacred way of sharing your compassion with another being. We are focused solely on the current moment and we try and empty our minds and free ourselves of self judgment.

Join me if you are seeking a journey in transcendence.   My website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com will provide you with a full array of options from the non sensual to a complete day of tantra spa ceremonies that encompass chakra balancing, nurturing tantra sensuality and bathing ceremonies.

You are encouraged to schedule a paid phone consultation if you simply wish to connect with me and ask me questions prior to scheduling a session with me.  I can even take you on a journey of the chakra bodies through chanting and breathing exercises if you would like to be fully prepared prior to our session and practice a bit of tantra yoga before we meet.

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

You may send me an email and introduce yourself to me or call me directly if you are ready to schedule your first tantra massage with me in Chicago.
May 14, 2020 No comments

Chicago Tantra Massage by Goddess Diana

The following information is to help you as a potential client gain a greater understanding of how I’m currently conducting my tantra massage practice while I’m still in Chicago, Illinois.

First of all I treat each person uniquely and I do not follow a set recipe. You will be given an opportunity to fully explore my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for yourself prior to meeting me in person.   If you have never had a tantra massage before and you are genuinely confused over the choices found on my website then you are invited to hire me for phone consultation.  I don’t usually spend more than fifteen minutes of my time going over all the details on my website so if you are honestly in need of my advice and attention simply hire me for thirty minutes or more and we will go over all your goals and concerns.

About Goddess Diana

Tantra Goddess Diana offers sensual full body pleasure and Goddess worship lessons to men, women and couples.
I offer sessions in your home, hotel or a separate Upscale private spa space which includes a traditional tantra massage, Goddess Worship, mutual cuddling, aromatherapy, reiki, a jacuzzi for 2 and deep tissue massage.
I also offer half day and full day tantra retreats at a beautiful spa space in the city of Chicago with advanced planning and a small deposit.
If Chicago is not convenient for you to get to I can hold tantra ceremonies in all the nearby suburbs such as Oakbrook Terrace,  Rosemont, Schaumburg, Buffalo Grove, Arlington Heights, Evanston, Illinois, Oak Park and the O’Hare airport area.  I myself am a Native Chicagoan and I’m comfortable traveling to most of these neighborhoods just in case you prefer a private visit to your home instead.
If you call me any day of the week before 3PM and agree to send me a deposit immediately I can acquire a luxury spa space with a jacuzzi experience for two!
If you are unsure what type of session would best suit your needs you are encouraged to meet me for a paid coffee consultation and I will use your fee as a deposit towards a future tantra ceremony. If you can’t meet me in person for coffee you may book a 35 minute phone consultation or hour long phone consultation with me to discuss all your concerns.
I strongly suggest scheduling tantra for 2 full hours to ensure you receive my undivided attention and to help you fully relax and understand every nuance of sensory awareness and Kundalini activation.
My sessions are meant to bring you a blissful escape that will leave you deeply relaxed and empowered. You will feel waves of electricity as I teach you how to breathe in every moment of pleasure. You will feel tingling sensations from your toes and fingertips to the top of your skull.
PLEASE NOTE: If you call me the day of for an appointment then you must have a space for me to go directly to you. I’m strictly outcall only for same day scheduling needs. If you need me to provide a space then I need 24 hours notice and a deposit from you so I may secure an appropriate and lovely space for our tantra ceremony. If however you provide me with an immediate deposit the day of your session before 3 PM then I can acquire a luxury space that will suit your needs!
I do not work from my home. I acquire a beautiful luxury space that meets your expectations and budget so please plan ahead if you need to visit me.
I am a seasoned and educated tantra professional with 25 years of experience and a strong social media presence. I am well reviewed and even have my own YouTube channel that you may peruse prior to connecting with me. You are invited to subscribe to my YouTube channel, follow my blog and connect with me on LinkedIn if you wish!
Because I choose to be so straightforward, honest and transparent I expect the same of you. I will ask you to provide me with your real legal name and profession prior to our first meeting so I feel safe and comfortable. I have had the pleasure of serving high profile Ceo’s, Executive chefs, attorneys, film directors, producers, writers, physicians, Educators, Inventors and other creatives and I am very mindful of discretion. I prefer to work with corporate men and women seeking multi hour spiritual journeys in tantra, alternative healing and spa retreats.
Please thoroughly read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com prior to contacting me and I’d love to offer you some wonderful suggestions for our first session together. If you wish to learn more about me you are encouraged to subscribe to my YouTube channel under TANTRA BUTTERFLY. You will be able to view fresh content weekly and get a strong sense of my personality and what it is tantra massage and tantra yoga can do for your emotional well being, mental outlook and physical health.
I stand behind the heart healing work that I do and always recommend a session of 2 hours in length or longer for your complete understanding of the process of sensual well being and alternative healing. When you schedule a session with me you are in professional, nurturing hands and I am always generous with my guests.
If you need me to go directly to your home and you haven’t given me notice make it simple for both of us and provide me with an Uber or Lyft or send me a small deposit to cover my traveling expenses to you. My desire is to be expedient and offer you my exquisite services at the most desirable time for your needs so please be thoughtful and provide me with transportation so I may arrive promptly.
Reasons why you should consider hiring me as your Tantra Guide are manifold because I have life experience as a healer and Sensual guide and I’ve been formally trained by several masters of reiki, tantra, chakra balancing and traditional massage modalities. I am not a clock watcher and I have a great passion for creating sacred space! I hope you choose me soon for yourself or as a couple seeking authentic tantra and sensual bliss therapies.
When you agree to contracting my tantra services you need to also understand that I am not a prostitute.  I will be offering you tantra lessons, breathing exercises, chakra balancing, sound healing, sensual massage, therapeutic massage, chanting lessons, cuddle therapy, couples education and traditional tantra yoga bodywork.   We will not be engaging in sexual intercourse so please don’t ask that of me before booking time with me or during our tantra ceremony.
What I do is a form of Pink Tantra. I combine my knowledge of Kundalini Yoga and sensual massage that will activate your sexual energy trapped within the lower part of your tailbone known as your base chakra or root chakra.
The combination of breathing exercises, chanting, trigger point massage and alternative chakra balancing will help you feel sexual energies travel throughout your entire being and bring you waves of tingling sensory bliss we call Kundalini Skakti.
Congratulations! You’ve got this far and you’ve carefully read my brief description of how I present tantra to my students seeking unconventional healing and nurturing touch.
The paragraphs below will detail my current pricing system.
There is some slight wiggle room with some of the prices you see listed here on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.  Once you enter my website you will see a page entitled Ceremonial Donations.  The donation page covers non sensual ceremonies like pure reiki which are priced lower than my tantra ceremonies.  All non sensual sessions are created to address your energetic body and you and I will be fully clothed if you choose to hire me for an hour or 90 minute session of reiki.  When you choose a tantra massage session reiki will be completely complementary to you at no additional charge to you.

If you are experiencing some financial difficulties now but still desire a session we can discuss a slight price adjustment. The only services not available for a discount are my Couples tantra sessions and Goddess Worship ceremonies. If however you are experiencing Abundance right now please do not attempt to exploit my pricing system and pretend to need deep discounts if you truly do not

need one. I’m seeing fewer people now which means you will receive my genuine attention if we decide to work together. If you are thriving feel free to tip me and share your Good Karma. I’ve had many people trying to exploit my generosity which isn’t fair to me or the people that truly do need a discount. My prices are comparable to other major tantra professionals in my field and I’m always appreciative and generous to clients who treat me with complete respect and kindness. Let’s be Karmically correct with one another during these times!

Reiki Master
Licensed Tantra Master
Licensed Pranic Healer
Hot stone therapist
Couples tantra coach
You are welcome to connect with me on LinkedIn and Subscribe to my YouTube channel under Tantra Butterfly
Mobile Contact:  312 339 7707
Email addresses
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com
April 4, 2020 No comments

Phone consultations available by Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

If you are seeking a phone conversation my rates are extremely reasonable depending upon your issues and length of phone call.

I’m still preparing sacred space for 90 minutes on up to a full day and we can meet in your home, private hotel room or plan with 24 hours notice and meet at a separate spa space that will be beautiful.

Read more on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Then call me directly to book a session this month or next month at a discounted rate if you agree to pay half up front.

You will find excellent reviews of my services on my public Google Maps page and many testimonials on my main website.

Looking forward to working with you soon

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Healer, Advisor, Empath, reiki master, Certified tantra coach

Remember to properly introduce yourself to me initially via email

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Or by calling me from a non blocked number at 312 339 7707

Always accepting new clients

 
March 25, 2020 No comments

Tantra in Chicago March 2020 Goddess Diana

Good Morning Chicago!

We are here in the midst of the CORONAVIRUS quarantine order and  people here are worried, bored with nothing to do and or so incredibly busy they can barely breathe!

Every time I try to do a simple grocery run to whole foods my cat’s most favorite food is always sold out or my favorite sesame stick bulk snack is gone.  I just wish people in Illinois would relax because we aren’t experiencing a food shortage or any threat of the apocalypse; we are being challenged by a virus we know very little about.

I’m writing this article today not to complain about how we all ended up here. I’m not going to downplay or sugarcoat anything for you. I’m absolutely not thrilled that we are restricted from doing the activities we have grown to love such as attending a social event or a movie.

I’m writing this article today in the hope that I can be of service to anyone visiting Chicago or residing near our city who now has the free time to actually learn more about tantra massage in Chicago,  Illinois and all neighborhood suburbs surrounding our city.

My website is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and there you can find articles, information on tantra and Ceremonial donations. I have so many diverse ceremonies to offer you and I’m I’m positive you’ll find the right service for your emotional needs and or budget. You might be interested in cuddle therapy (fully clothed) or reiki (fully clothed) if you aren’t fully committed to learning about tantra in Chicago.

If you already have your desires set to try tantra massage in Chicago I can offer you a tantra spa intensive for either a half or full day of tantra spa immersions that include a bathing ceremony for two.

During quarantine you can use this time to gain a new understanding of what tantra yoga can offer you and your partner.  I’m offering my services to anyone here in Illinois who knows they are physically healthy and who would love to use their spare time to heal, learn something invaluable and enjoy sacred touch.

If you have been diagnosed with this virus and know you are contagious you can still learn about tantra through a phone consultation which I offer to anyone who can’t physically see me in person for a coffee date meet and greet.  Usually when people are slightly nervous or inquisitive they do wish to meet me in person for coffee so they can share their goals with me.  But unfortunately our restaurants and coffee houses are no longer offering dine in options so I am substituting my phone consultation for a more personalized meet and greet experience.

You are encouraged to hire me for a paid phone consultation if you know you have thirty minutes to an hour’s  worth of questions for me regarding tantra massage in Chicago.  I have so much knowledge to share with you. I can even help you unblock your chakras by meditating with you on the phone and help you feel more balanced, centered and clear.

You can book a solid hour with me over the phone or a half hour if you just want to get a sense of what tantra yoga can do for you.

I can assure you I haven’t been abroad or traveled these past two years while I’ve been in Chicago.  I have been focusing on my clients here in Illinois and working with professional business people visiting Chicago all this time who are seeking pampering, reiki, tantra massage and chakra balancing.

During the entire month of March, April and beyond my passion is to work on making you feel more balanced and more connected to your own energy.  I feel my prices are extremely fair because I divided my offerings into two distinct sections namely pure energy work which is administered fully clothed and traditional tantra yoga which is performed sky clad or unclothed.

You have a choice now. You can be proactive and productive and use your free time to decompress and see what tantra yoga can do for you; or you can book me for a paid phone consultation to plan ahead and set your positive intentions for a future date that suits you.

I am available for half day and full day tantra massage spa immersions here in Chicago.  I am also available for shorter tantra sessions to he brought to you professionally and personally to your home environment.  I offer these options because I know I can be of service to you and help you focus on the moment at hand so you feel empowered and emotionally fed.

If you are having problems with Erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety tantra yoga and tantra massage involves breathing techniques and simple muscle exercises that will strengthen your sexual core and lead to healthier sexual stamina.  If you have the time now to learn basic tantra yoga then please reach out to me soon at 312 339 7707.

I feel my pricing system is fair for the dedicated attention I provide for all my clients and my sincere interest in trying to help you achieve full body sensory bliss and kundalini activation.

Tantra in Chicago can be a simple full hour of relaxation to a more intricate day of chanting, bath ceremonies, alternative bodywork and traditional Goddess Worship where I teach you how to honor your partner’s sensual energies.

Tantra yoga is about balance, connection with yourself and your partner  and using and harnessing your own sexual energy as a medicine you use to heal your entire spiritual and physical body.

Let’s use your spare time to develop a new skill!  I have so many wonderful ideas so that no matter what your current circumstances are you will definitely feel much better emotionally even if I am just your sounding board for the hour and you need to talk to someone over the phone.

My special gifts include reiki, intuitive touch, lomi lomi massage, alternative bodywork, hot stone therapy, sound healing, chanting and traditional tantra yoga massage.

I hope to hear from you as soon as this week so we can begin our journey together and co create sacred space.

Your dedication to learning and healing will help me create the tantra ceremony of your dreams.  If you meet me half way and try to be fully present during our shared time together I guarantee you will leave feeling refreshed, more youthful and more intuitive.

Enjoy my website first prior to calling me http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and if you prefer you may email me a little information about yourself to the following addresses:

Butterflyshadows@aol.com

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Or fill out the Contact form listed on my website and introduce yourself that way to me making sure to leave me your phone number and first and last name.

I have a strong social media presence if you search my name and look for the keywords Chicago tantra massage on Google.

I’m on LinkedIn, Facebook, Google maps, YouTube and have helped many people find their bliss.  I’m looking for to serving you soon!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Certified tantra educator Chicago, Illinois

Certified Usui Reiki Master

Certified pranic healer

Certified hot stone therapist

Certified lomi lomi therapist

Certified tantra couples coach Chicago, Illinois

312 339 7707

Www.tantrabutterfly.com

 
February 10, 2020 No comments

Chicago Tantra Goddess Diana

Greetings! Today is Monday February 10th 2020 and we are now formally immersed in the tail end of our Chicago winter season.

The purpose of today’s new blog entry is manifold and so I hope everyone reading this article today will be compelled to let go of their fear, introduce themselves to me soon and begin their first journey into tantra here in Chicago.

In the past I was virtually one of three major tantra teachers and tantra providers available for hire within the city of Chicago.  I started my career path as a sensual massage therapist in my early twenties and in the past my clients could easily find my nude massage services printed in a free publication known as The Chicago Reader.

The Chicago Reader had a section known as Adult Classifieds and because the newspaper was privately owned the Reader would allow all sex educators, bdsm professionals and sex workers to purchase advertising.

Our advertising fees are what helped keep the Chicago Reader thriving and business was stable and always good for me because all of Chicagoland had easy access to our content and contact information.

Life was so much less complex and convoluted back in the 1980’s and 1990’s because we didn’t rely so heavily on social media platforms to be found online.  Clients could simply pick up a copy of the Chicago Reader and turn to the Adult section to acquire the services of their favorite providers and or new providers to satisfy their needs for adult fun or sensual healing.

At a very young age I was always studying alternative healing techniques and learning more about the chakra bodies and reiki.  I decided that I’d love to try out the sex industry field because it seemed intriguing and a fun way to make money and meet new people.

I had no premeditated thoughts regarding the adult entertainment industry; I simply plunged in by purchasing a pager because we didn’t have cell phones yet and I purchased my first ad with the Reader.

Now the Chicago Reader no longer has an adult section and let’s be honest people now rarely read printed papers anymore because they can just use their cellphones and search for services using a Google search.

Well if you found me here now please have patience with my stream of consciousnessness writing. I promise I’ll always be honest and be as descriptive as possible when you read my blog or read information on my main tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

Times have most definitely changed and I’ve moved away from Chicago multiple times during my career only to find a huge surge of other tantra professionals have moved here permanently.

Most of the tantra professionals now divide their time between Chicago and their own hometown to keep their work opportunities fluid.  The market for tantra now here is overwhelming and oversaturated and my efforts to be seen here now on the internet have made it necessary for me to continue to be seen here on social media.

My budget is tight these days so I am much more conservative with my spending and I’m not investing in SEO services like my competitors.

My only endeavor is to spread positive energy with people who are seeking authentic traditional tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and all neighborhoods near Chicagoland.

My focus is on alternative healing, Usui Reiki, aromatherapy, tantra yoga, breathing instructions, cuddle therapy, sound healing, hypnosis, deep tissue massage, sensual massage and spa retreats.

Part of the reason I’m writing today is to emphasize to all new clients to formally introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable responding to your questions over the phone.

You need to provide your full legal name to be considered for a future session and I always accept and accommodate same day requests for tantra in Chicago from anyone who introduces themselves to me over the phone and via my contact form or my email address tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

I have so many interesting and informative articles on my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com that you should not have too many questions for me. In the event that you find yourself unsure about which ceremony to choose I suggest we meet in person for a paid coffee consultation so you feel comfortable moving forward.

Just understand that the term tantra yoga itself is esoteric and reading about tantra yoga is not the same as experiencing a tantra massage for yourself in real time. You have to decide for yourself if you’re ready to take the plunge and indulge in a session.  You can spend money on a coffee consultation and at least meet me in person to carefully go over my website with me so I can advise you before you decide to invest on a half day, full day or 90 minute tantra immersion.

The following paragraphs you read are taken directly from my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so you can understand more about my writing style and my tantra offerings. Please take time to read my main website at your leisure and only ask me educated questions if you’re still confused.

In accordance with traditional hindu Yogis and buddhist Tantra practices. The Sanskrit word Anahata literally means unstruck or unbeaten. The sound of this sacred chakra is the sound of serenity and completeness within one’s self and all chaos is destroyed by this powerful sound of self love.
Too many times during the day we can forget how important positive self talk can be after dealing with people we encounter either through our casual encounters or our repetitive dealings with people in our work environment.
Do you ever catch yourself hunching over and caving in your chest after receiving negative feedback from a colleague or after being misjudged by a new person who barely knows you?
It’s impossible for us to avoid pain or hurtful commentary but not impossible for us to have compassion for our mistakes and learn how to correct our self talk and correct our bodily posture so that we can open our heart to receiving love and make ourselves more ready to accept positive feedback.
For instance do you find it difficult to accept compliments? Are you able to smile and warmly receive a genuine hug from a close friend or stranger or do you feel guarded and awkward? I am not asking you to willingly accept all interactions, compliments and random hugs without setting your boundaries. I am simply suggesting that you empower your heart so you can make wiser choices and send loving messages to your own Heart chakra during times of stress.

To read more please log onto my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you would like to schedule a session you may call me directly at 312 339 7707.
When you call me introduce yourself to me formally. I do not answer more than fiftern minutes worth of questions unless you introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable.

If you know you definitely have additional questions that last more than fifteen minutes of my time then commit to a full hour of questions and answers during a paid #coffeeconsultation. Your coffee consultation will allow you to share your goals with me and will also serve as a deposit towards your first tantra ceremony or reiki session.

My blog here serves a purpose.  I want you to have as much information on tantra massage and alternative healing as I can share with you via the written word. I want you to feel comfortable committing to a future session or at least understand that I’m passionate about what I have to offer you.

I don’t like wasting my valuable time with game players who hide their true identity with aliases or blocked and restricted numbers. In order for me to answer your questions you must first gain my trust just as I’ve taken years to upload public information for everyone to read.

I do my best to purposefully create a sense of transparency in all that I do, say and write.  In order for us to have a beautiful session and a strong connection I simply ask you to trust me and meet me in the middle as we co create sacred space together.

 
November 26, 2019 No comments

Tantra massage in Chicago

About Diana offull-image-for-tantra Tantra Butterfly

Many of my prospective clients ask me the all important question:

“What exactly is Tantra?”

My initial reaction is to pause and think to myself if I were a new student to this tantric path what would make me wish to continue or begin this new journey? If I were a new student to Tantra what would make me grasp this concept and take this belief system from its place in the esoteric realm to a more solid level of my own understanding? What would I gain in experiencing a tantric healing? Does Tantra simply mean sex? Will the study of this practice heal my old wounds or would it take me into a scary place I do not wish to explore? Of course all new students of Tantra may share these fears and some new students might even fear it will be a shallow or even disappointing experience. All these fears are valid and this is why I am now taking the time to explain a little bit about the word Tantra and what it is I do and the role I play as your tantric teacher and tantric healer.

The Word Tantra is taken from its ancient Sanskrit roots and simply means to weave and expand and just like the threads of a loom the threads join and intertwine with each other forming a beautiful and interconnected tapestry . The word Tantra in and of itself is a connective force just like the word “Akasha” which translated from Sanskrit means the collective primary substance out of which all things are formed. During the practice of Tantra we engage all our senses and acknowledge our unique male and female energies as complete halves of a whole. We acknowledge and honor ourselves as we acknowledge the Divinity in our tantric partners. During my tantric healings I focus on your needs and my goal is to keep you present in the moment with me as your shamanic guide. A true tantric is one who follows the path of simply “being”. So many times we are so lost in thoughts that we are not experiencing the moment. We dwell on the past which we can not change or we worry about the future which we do have the potential to change if we simply live for now in the present. Our future is affected by how we treat ourselves and others with the time we have NOW.

My intention as your tantric guide is to keep you focused in the present and give you the opportunity to experience all aspects of your nature not just a part of your persona. My personal responsibility is to take you to the edge and to challenge you and give you that unique opportunity to change so you can manifest greater joy in your life and not just daydream about it! Just imagine if you could step out of your normal zone of comfort and take this spiritual journey with me expanding your energy and awareness so you can become more aware and awake.

Do you have additional questions? Your questions can be answered if you directly follow the link to my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

My website is explicit and directly to the point. In the event you have issues understanding the tantra verbage then I advise you to schedule a one hour coffee consultation with me and your consultation fee acts as a deposit towards your future tantra massage here in Chicago.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly

Tantra massage in Chicago is geared towards your specific goals.

Tantra massage in Chicago aides in your ability to stay focused in the moment and be fully present to receive healing energies.

Your chakras will be fully accessible and activated during our tantra ceremony here in Chicago.

Kindly read all the information on my tantra massage services here in Chicago or if you are already prepared for this healing journey and process call me directly at 312 339 7707 and let’s share positive energies.
August 31, 2019 No comments

You have contracted my services…now what?

This article is meant to guide and enlighten you so that you receive the most loving and heartfelt healing touch I am capable of offering you.

You may have never received a tantra massage before so let me give you a few basic pointers so you receive the best session for your needs.

First of all if you still don’t understand my pricing system and if my services confuse you then let’s meet up together for a coffee.  A coffee consultation helps you meet me in person and you are encouraged to ask me questions and share your goals with me before we actually have a session together.  The key word here is Togetherness or UNITY.  If we meet for coffee I can assure you you’re going to feel a lot more comfortable and more understood.

Right before we have a session I advise you to get enough sleep, avoid drinking alcohol, avoid a heavy meal and to stay hydrated.  Water is perfect for helping you detoxify and during our tantra session I’ll be helping you move a lot of “sludge” or “stuck” energies.  You will need to drink water before, during and after our session to help you move those impurities out of your body.

Now that you’ve shared a few goals with me over coffee and now that you’re well rested and hydrated your session will be more enjoyable and the potential for full body bliss exploration is within your realm of possibilities.

Please bare in mind I’m a massage therapist and a trained and licensed tantra massage educator with traditional training in Usui Reiki. I am not an escort service so do not misconstrue my tantra massage offerings for escort related services.  If you proposition me inappropriately or make me feel unsafe I may decide to end our session early.

You and I agree to honor and respect eachother and our set of boundaries.  I tend to be very generous and empathetic but that does not give you permission to take advantage of my kind nature and push my boundaries or guilt me into offering a service that isn’t listed on my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

If I go out of my way to accommodate you and we accidentally go over our allotted time together then a tip is always appreciative and appropriate for my services rendered. I am a professional business owner just like any other business professional you may encounter and I do like being appreciated so I do accept tips, referrals and positive reviews.

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August 31, 2019 No comments

Do not disrespect me or violate my boundaries

Right after I finished eating my delicious sushi meal …I had a very strange urge to go online and Google up my public tantra page TANTRA BUTTERFLY and found this ugly and SLANDEROUS review which of course brought my score of 4.6 back down to 4.4

On Monday against my better judgment I accepted an extremely low almost HUMILIATING discounted price for my tantra massage services by a legally blind and EXTREMELY MANIPULATIVE blind man who is a life coach who actually has a Facebook profile.

After going all the way from Schaumburg in the pouring rain and incurring my own personal expenses to take transportation to him I accepted a fee of $250 for 2 full hours of tantra massage.  Please note the price was agreed on for a tantra massage NOT an escort session!

I am not a prostitute nor am I an escort service. I am a trained Reiki Master and Licensed tantra educator from Source School of tantra with 25 years of experience in alternative healing, tantra massage, reiki and deep tissue massage.

During the final 30 minutes of our time together Muhammed Noman asked to go down on me not once but twice! I declined his PROPOSITION, packed up all my belongings and left unceremoniously. At this particular point I felt disgusted, disgraced, disrespected and dishonored.

He was warned that if he attempted to charge back our session or slander me online I would post his actions against me on my online blog and on all forms of my social media here and on my YouTube channel.

I’m warning people in my field not to take him on as a client because he chose to retaliate against me and because he has in some way defiled me online and tried to violate my personal boundaries and safety.

Here is the review he posted of me two days ago on my public business page:

Muhammad Noman Ahmed

2 reviews

2 days ago

My personal experience with Diana was very obnoxious. I am disabled and her behavior towards me was very disrespectful. She is very unfriendly and rude and I would never recommend her services

TONIGHT I decided to include his behavior because I have every right to end a session if my boundaries are violated and my personal safety is threatened.

Please do not think that just because you have a disability you are entitled to a huge discount and that you are entitled to any services you wish to receive even though it is not part of the menu of offerings.

I will not tolerate being violated, slandered and blackmailed especially if I was overly generous and went out of my way to offer a greatly reduced price for my tantra massage services.

There is a VAST difference between what I offer and what an escort service chooses to offer.

I am not comfortable crossing that fine line with any of my clients. If I were a professional escort service I would be changing $600 per hour and not $250 for two full hours at a whopping bargain basement price for a selfish, manipulative, emotionally abusive misogynist like MUHAMMAD NOMAN AHMED.

I actually had a very strong premonition against working with him especially since he wanted to know if I give discounts to people with disabilities. I have no qualms offering a BIT of a discount but he actually received my services for less than half of what I normally charge.

From this point on I will need to be much more DISCERNING and careful about who I work with.
Just because someone has a DISABILITY doesn’t mean they are allowed to disrespect you or violate your work and personal boundaries.

Just because an individual is a professional therapist or life coach it doesn’t mean they are not emotionally unstable, retaliatory and MANIPULATIVE.

I have boundaries and I am allowed to state my boundaries and end a session prematurely or abruptly if I am not being honored and respected.

People in my field are often manipulated, taken advantage of, slandered, belittled and blackmailed if we refuse to offer certain services that violate our personal code of safety and ethics.

I have morals and boundaries just like any other trained business professional and I am allowed to have genuine feelings if I’m being emotionally abused by any of my clients.

I will not tolerate bullies who hire me under the false assumption that my VALUE and WORTH is less than any other human being.

No one has an right to force me to do any sexual act that goes against my freewill.
My body is sacred. It may be that this particular individual MOHAMMED NOMAN AHMED doesn’t feel I have value considering how much time he received from me for less than half my normal price but I see things differently.

I was sent in excess of 20 text messages from this unsavory, unethical man who calls himself a life coach. He was incessant that Monday was ideal for us to meet and that he could only afford $250 for 2 hours.

I personally had to travel all the way from the suburbs, incur my own traveling expenses and visit him in a dangerous neighborhood only to be insulted by him when he requested to EAT ME!

YES he asked me twice for sexually exploitive services for a BARGAIN BASEMENT PRICE.
Muhammed Noman Ahmed is an example of a client I DO NOT WISH TO WORK ON.

I May decide not to accept anyone who requests sliding fees based on this particular negative and exploitive experience.

I had of course missed my last bus for the evening and I was forced to spend $30 of my own money just to get home safely and when I did get home trust me I had a good cry.

I hope that people understand that EMPATHY and COMPASSION and RESPECT should always be extended to any sex worker or sex educator that you encounter.

Please treat us as you would treat any business professional and if you are refused a service and you are told A FIRM NO then don’t be childish by retaliation with fake, unfair, unjust reviews.

Now I still have a lot left to say because I’m not quite over my anger.  I have two pets I take care of, no family members, two separate sets of storage fees, a huge monthly phone bill for my private business, ongoing website costs and high weekly rental fees. If you think I will tolerate abusive behavior and bullying I won’t.  I have ZERO tolerance for slander especially when I know I issued a genuinely generous discount to anyone who needed a sliding fee discount.

When I contracted to work with Muhammed Noman Ahmed (life coach at 310-536-6289) he claimed he had read my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com in full. If you read my website CAREFULLY you will plainly see I have a full page dedicated to ETIQUETTE.  On my ETIQUETTE page you will read that I’m not a professional escort.  I am not offering services that you would receive from a paid escort. My fair pricing is not a substitute or POOR MAN’S version of a low budget option for clients who are seeking escort services but simply can’t afford these higher prices.  I was BEYOND ANGRY AT this man Muhammed Noman Ahmed for taking advantage of my generous discount then asking me twice towards the end of our session if he could EAT MY PUSSY.  Obviously this individual had shown me he regards me as a bargain basement cheap whore for rent because he devalues women in my field or all women in general.

I do not offer escort services.  I teach goddess worship, I offer tantra bathing ceremonies, I’m a level 3 reiki master and I’m a licensed tantra educator.  I am not for sale. My body is NOT FOR SALE.  I AM NOT a human punching bag. My services are available to anyone who genuinely seeks a traditional tantra session or a fully clothed reiki session or cuddle therapy session.  This particular individual thought he could get away with lying about what truly transpired during our time together in his small studio apartment on Foster Avenue.

Can you imagine how upset and violated I felt being PROPOSITIONED after I spent half my day traveling to his apartment in the rain, unpacking all my essential oils and incense and working DEEPLY on his major muscle groups?  I put everything I spiritually had within me to create a safe, loving, healing vibe to this unsavory, ungrateful, perverse pervert whose only true motivation was to see if he could take full advantage of me based on his disability then solicit me for something I don’t even offer on my website! If this is the way most Muslim men view women in my industry then I need to advise my fellow sex workers to be extremely cautious about who they choose to work on simply for safety reasons.  No one likes to be grossly taken advantage of or psychically abused.

I warned him that I would share publicly what he did to me on my social media if he chose to slander me and tonight I am sharing this factual story of what transpired in his home.  I of course had missed my last bus to my home and incurred an additional expense late at night just to make it back to my place by midnight.  I had a good cry that evening and felt deeply hurt, enraged and disappointed with how I was treated with complete disdain and disrespect.  It is NOT OKAY for anyone to treat a sex educator or tantra yoga therapist this way.  Every individual has triggers and boundaries and I felt energetically raped that evening by a so called, self proclaimed life coach.  I definitely have a strong sense of foreboding before taking on certain clients and in Mohammad’s case I feel regretful that I worked with him despite my strong intuition against seeing him.

I’ve said everything I wish to say here this evening and I decided that tomorrow I’ll be creating a special video about how awful it feels to genuinely give someone your very best and then have that same individual cheapen the healing experience by soliciting illegal sexual favors that you are uncomfortable offering.  I also wish to add that when Muhammed Noman Ahmed chose to write a derogatory google review two days ago he not only insinuated I was abusive to people with disabilities but he lied about my normally kind and generous giving nature. If I wish to defend myself based on my moral code and end a session because I no longer feel safe and respected then that is my freewill and choice to make based on someone’s disrespectful and vile actions and behavior.  Being legally blind does not excuse anyone for acting disceitfully or being manipulative.  If I feel threatened and or dishonored I have every right to leave 20 minutes early especially after I’ve already overextended myself by giving someone an overly GENEROUS discount.

I hope anyone reading this article will digest everything I have written and KEENLY intuit that everyone has boundaries and everyone no matter who they are and no matter what profession they choose is entitled to complete respect as a human being with valid emotions and sensitivities.

Just because you choose to hire a sex worker doesn’t mean you own their soul or their body.

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