Posts tagged “Tantra

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty Experience

Hello Everyone 👋 I feel as if people truly don’t understand the purpose of receiving an authentic tantra ceremony so let me bring up some issues because lately I am noticing a trend where people are not committed to practicing daily or they expect a single session to be a one and done singular experience.

Nothing makes me feel more discouraged than witnessing a couple hurriedly leave a longer ceremony and wrap up their day with me and rush off to do their next activity. We just explored energy work together. You will need rest and time to nap or take a long bath together or just cuddle for an hour. It truly breaks my spirit to watch a couple hurriedly get dressed and rush rush rush without allowing themselves to process the energywork properly.

I love the work I do but it does take a lot out of me to teach two people how to connect to eachother and prepare an authentic tantra massage for eachother. It’s hard work for all of us and it isn’t meant to be taken lightly either.

Tantra isn’t a “novelty” experience. We aren’t in the movies and there isn’t anything glamorous about creating sacred space. You will learn how to touch your partner with positive and loving intentions and you will learn to be more patient and present for yourself and your partner. There is a lot to teach and I suggest no less than three hours but I will not expect you to know everything in one session so ask me questions and go easy on yourself. You are not performing for me and I am here to guide you both and answer your questions.

Tantra is a life changing opportunity that will open portals and opportunities for you to connect you to the highest version of yourself.

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty once in a lifetime experience.  Once you have one tantra session you should still practice a little bit daily on your own.

Be proactive! Buy some books and videos and learn from different teachers in YouTube.  One teacher isn’t going to have all the answers or tools you need to Master your own Energy.

Schedule multiple sessions with one person you trust or try sessions with different people and learn what you can with each person you meet.

It’s always preferable to build loyalty with one person and then partake in #tantra retreats if you can afford it.  During these workshops you meet a variety of people.  Some participants learning with you might feel like part of your soul family while others may actually trigger you and make you reexamine your feelings and self worth.

Regardless of where you are energetically and physically tantra is a form of #Yoga and your body will shift and go through its own unique changes.  

I do offer full day tantra ceremonies for anyone seeking relaxation therapy, education, detoxification and pure bliss

If you have the time and curiosity I can even offer tantra intensive journeys for yourself or for you and your partner as a couple.  The weekend will be a series of mini lessons and practice time for yourselves.

Schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation or phone consultation if you have questions

Get ready to be overwhelmed especially if you are sensitive to energy and need to feel connected back to your physical core.

I love shaking up your misconceptions. I love helping you restore balance within your body and clear out trauma within your body’s memories. Never be afraid of change.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Call me directly to book a beautiful ceremony for yourself or as a couple.

312 339 7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Tantra encourages Somatic Release

It’s not uncommon to experience an emotional release or “unwinding” of your emotions when receiving any form of alternative healing and #tantra bodywork

Our bodies carry so many memories and trauma is stored within your cells.  As you receive #reiki or any form of massage you have an opportunity to let go of anything negative that no longer serves you.

I love witnessing my clients cry, laugh and communicate these repressed feelings. 

I especially notice some of my guests are so psychically in tune and sensitive that their body will jump or shake at the sound of my singing bowls and tuning forks

If you are sensitive to energy and you would love to experience an array of healing modalities such as breathwork #soundhealing and the gentle awakening of your #kundalini

I would love to meet you

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Sliding fees accepted and discounts always offered for my longer ceremonies

If you don’t live in my city and you would still love a session I offer Virtual chakra balancing ceremonies which will include breathwork coaching, Bijan mantra chants, sound healing and helping you tap into your Kundalini energy gently.

VISIT my website

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

Tantra is my passion

Hello Everyone 👋 who has stumbled upon my profile
Let me just say that I love my job. Being a healer fuels me and working for myself and meeting unique people keeps me passionate about the work I do.

Lately there have been “posers” people “pretending ” to want a ceremony & asking for immediate availability.

I even offered some wonderful discounts to sweeten the deal
Unfortunately the discounts have also attracted some opportunistic people who are doing very well…like taking expensive luxury trips or getting lip augmentation.

Please value my time.
I charge what I charge because of the care and thoughtfulness that goes into all my ceremonies.

I never count the clock or push people out the door 🚪
We typically start by chatting. We spend a bit of time before your session begins conversing as friends.
I ask you what your goals and expectations are. You have time to enjoy water and use my bathroom.

You have time to chat about your past experiences with other healers and #tantra practitioners both positive and awkward encounters.
I want you to leave my space feeling content, honored, fulfilled and genuinely listened to.
I have different ceremonies all at a special price point from high to low.
Please don’t take advantage of my sliding fees unless you really need them.
Please refer my ceremonies to your good friends or business colleagues if you valued our time together ❤

chicagotantra

312 339 7707
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Preverification is part of the Screening process and your information is kept private
Deposits are Mandatory but if you feel more comfortable meeting me beforehand you may book a paid coffee ☕ consultation with me and use it towards your session if you see me within 24 hours

Your enjoyment means the world 🌎 to me
Your Loyalty is paramount to my success

Sliding fees are for anyone experiencing financial hardship or excessive medical 🚑 issues
I never feel any resentment for anyone who genuinely needs a slight discount

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

please visit my main website

http://Www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you have 20 minutes or more of questions for me just book a phone 📱 consultation for a nominal fee.

couplestantra #virtualtantra #holistic

#chicagotantra #yogini #tantramassage #soundhealing #reiki #breathwork #sensualmassage

What to expect during your first tantra journey with me

Hello 👋 as a current tantra healer you should expect an extremely soothing experience which will begin with a good conversation between you and your tantra goddess of choice.

I can only speak from my personal experience though and not all Goddesses. I am a low volume tantra goddess so my session begins with a conversation in person so I can discuss the goals of my clients. It’s very important to me that my guest is satisfied both physically and emotionally.

Once we discuss goals I may begin with some fun and playful exercises like breathing and gazing into one another’s eyes. We will hold hands and breathe deeply. Once we connect to one another energetically I focus on sensual touch, chakra balancing, cuddle therapy, sound healing and reiki.

My sessions don’t just focus on full body Kundalini activation. These are tantra ceremonies and I always encourage my clients to schedule a minimum of 90 minutes so we can include edging, and hold back as long as possible to help with issues such as PE and ED.

Many of my clients might have issues with post traumatic stress disorder so my sessions are composed of somatic healing with a strong emphasis on breathing deeply and slowly.

Tantra is about connecting to your partner and learning about creating safe boundaries. My male clients often request prostate massage and my female clients usually ask me to help them work through trauma so we focus on womb healing and yoni empowerment.

Tantra is the co creation of sacred space and learning how to love yourself unconditionally while tapping into your Kundalini energy. As you slowly awaken your Kundalini energy you help increase your intuition and you access your innate abilities like creativity, self expression, and self confidence. You can tap into your abundance as your chakras are gently awakened and aligned.

Tantra massage ceremonies help you feel more grounded and in tune with your inner joy. These ceremonies uplift you and keep you focused on the present moment. If you have a tendency to overthink a tantra healing will help you become more zen and meditative. Tantra yoga massage rituals help you transcend time and space as we slow down and exchange positive energy with one another. It’s like an out of body experience where you feel like you are dreaming yet you are grounded into your body.

visit my website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to schedule your first ceremony either for yourself to enjoy or as a couple seeking to enhance your spiritual and physical connection.

Tantra helps you transcend the mundane

A tantra ceremony with me will help you heal from trauma ✨ but will also help you recover fragments of your soul’s purpose. You might feel more tingly, centered and awakened. However you may also feel more vulnerable and tearful from these awakening cell memories.

One session with me will help you transcend from the mundane and you will feel like there is no concept of time as you leave your body and your worries behind.

Your heart will beat joyfully and everything ♥ you touch will feel magically infused and special throughout your day.

Your life force will be fully activated
Your intuition illuminated
Your face will transform and return to a relaxed
And youthful glow. I guarantee your complexion will improve and you will look years younger after just one tantra ceremony with me.

I promise your time with me will be both memorable and nurturing. I want only positive karma transferred between the two of us. I want you to be open minded, trust the process and let your body take in as much or as little energies as possible.

Your body will intuitively know how much energy you need. Your Kundalini energy will be 🐌 slowly awakened at your own pace. We do this by slowly breathing together at intervals during our time together. We quiet our minds and try our very best not to have expectations. We let our minds go trying our best not to think but to simply be in the moment. You can laugh during our ceremony and I won’t judge you. In fact a good belly laugh is great for your healing just like a good cry.

I only wish to attract gentle souls in Dire need of sacred touch; people who appreciate alternative healing, reiki, sound healing and holistic breathwork.

These are special memories we create together ❤
That I call co creation of sacredspace

Never be afraid to reach out to me for a paid virtual phone or coffee ☕ consultation. I can even offer you virtual chakra balancing and sound healing if you are miles away from me.

Your goals, fears and worries will be addressed. You are important and if I personally feel I can’t help you I will refer you to other resources.

chicagotantra #yogini

I’m planning a long distance move when the stars 🌟 and opportunities align

Kindly reach out to me soon while I’m still in the

chicagoland area and surrounding suburbs

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

When emailing me non need to send me a novel about yourself. I just need to know your full name, age range, occupation and some form of social media so I have an idea of who you are. You can always book a 20 minute phone 📱 consultation with me if you have any questions about my services that aren’t covered on my website.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m available every day of the year. I never take a holiday off so please reach out if you are genuinely interested in tantra massage ceremonies and scheduling a tantra retreat or 90 minute journey of sacred space.

New Reviews make me proud to be a tantra healer

I’m sharing a recent review from a client i met two weeks ago.

The stars 🌟 were aligned and he finally made some time to visit me all the way from another part of Illinois that was 90 minutes away from me!

Part of the fun of my job is I get to work on some spectacular people with good hearts and even better intentions

[My Newest Testimonials:
I found Diana’s website years ago and was very intrigued, but due to life’s many unexpected detours I wasn’t able to see her until recently. Now I wish I had made the effort earlier! She is warm, friendly, empathetic, and easy to talk to. I immediately felt as if I had known her for years.

Diana describes what she does as an “experience,” which is no exaggeration. She offers a completely immersive encounter that will make you feel cocooned away from the real world. I literally lost track of time when I was with her, and I never felt rushed. Her positive attitude will stay with you long after you have left. I’ve known people who talked about tantra, but Diana actually lives it. She’s the real deal, and I highly recommend her!

Tobias]

You may find this new testimony on my primary tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you were a recent or past client of mine just know I really appreciate your written testimonials because they attract the best energies to my tantra practice and I always want to help anyone needing an energy boost.

WordPress Family and Subscribers:
I’d love to meet you!  No matter what obstacles you face I’d like to be a part of your healing journey ✨ even if it’s just to escape reality for a few hours

facing financial hardship? Not to worry! let’s help you with sliding fees! Are you financially Abundant? please pay my normal rates as I’m an independent contractor & must cover all my costs for myself and my pet family.

#chicagotantra ceremonies will create more space ✨ in your heart ❤ ♥ ❤
benefits of #tantrayoga & #tantramassage are manifold including sending loving messages to your body with conscience touch and sound
speeding up your metabolism, increasing your intuition, helping your body detox and aiding you in #kundalini ascension slowly and safely
Daily breathwork helps your body process energies better and keeps you looking much younger than your Biological Age.

If you’re interested in scheduling your first tantra ceremony with me please call me directly here

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

Why did you reach out to me?

I’d love to know how you found me! I’ve spent so many years writing articles and explaining my services to people over the phone 📱 and it’s gotten to the point where I encourage everyone to book a paid phone consultation with me or at least a coffee ☕ consultation with me initially to weed out guests who didn’t read my primary website first.

Let’s back up a few minutes here. I’ve been working with energy for a very long time and yes my family home was most definitely haunted and yes unfortunately my early years were traumatic because my father could be extremely violent. I ended up becoming extremely sensitive to energies and I’d take trips to the library to avoid the drama going on in my home 🏡 and to pick up books 📚 that intrigued me like astrology, numerology, and chakras.

I began studying reiki at age 19 and I received a full scholarship from Loyola University and enrolled in English literature; but I was miserable there and after three years I chose to drop out of college because I didn’t feel connected.

After quitting multiple jobs as a receptionist I decided to study 📖 massage techniques and I jumped whole heartedly into the sex industry but I focused on my client’s physical pain– not just sexual. I was determined to treat everyone’s body holistically.

In the beginning I didn’t charge much; in fact I allowed myself to be exploited. As soon as I took workshops in other healing modalities and certification in tantra I increased my rates so that I charged as much as my peers.

Unfortunately some of my clients were displeased about my rate increase and assumed that because I was now charging more that I was also offering escort related services. Some of my clients were extremely loyal and continued to use my services and others became enraged and slandered me on adult sites discouraging potential clients from using my services. It because increasingly difficult for me to gain client’s trust especially when I left Chicago to move to New Orleans, Louisiana.

The slanderous message board was directly linked to my website and when I took classes in Maui some of the students at the retreat Google up my legal name and website and found the slanderous adult message board just a few links below my website. I was embarrassed and it caused some people to mistrust my skillet.

Regardless I’ve had some hurdles to climb and I don’t recommend anyone become a tantra practitioner unless they have a very thick skin. Some new clients call me ready to dive in and others are very skeptical.

I’ve had my Google My Business page suspended four separate times and lost all 65 reviews 😢 and yes 7 reviews were horribly mean and unfair and written by people who either never met me in real life or asked for a cheap sports massage instead of tantra. My specialty is reiki and tantra massage. I do have experience with trigger point massage, lomi lomi massage, hot stone therapy and tantra massage but I don’t have certification in sports massage. It’s better if you select a traditional massage therapist if you are seeking a sports massage.

Now let’s pedal backwards and focus on how you found me. Many people say they found me online while googling up massage near me or tantra massage. Regardless of how you found me I still recommend new students of tantra schedule a phone consultation. If however you’ve had positive experiences with tantra massage before and you know this will be a positive experience ✨ the by all means let’s get you scheduled in my calendar.

What’s tantra though? In Sanskrit, tantra means woven together. People who practice Buddhism and Hinduism believe that all forms tantric sex are a sacred and spiritual act. They do not separate the carnal needs of the physical body from the spiritual. They believe in weaving spirituality and breathwork into sexuality and the emphasis is placed on sacred intimacy and deeper connection to your partner.

I’m not an escort service nor am I a sexual surrogate. I have my bound when I work with my clients. My ✨ specialty is helping my clients tap into their own sexual energy which is called kundalini Shakti. I don’t offer kama sutra lessons; rather I help my clients achieve full body orgssm through touch, healing sounds, chakra balancing and sensual massage techniques that I employ.

If you think we might be a great energy match please call me directly 312 339 7707 and be prepared to give me your full legal name and occupation for the verification process. I will ask you some very simple questions and a deposit is Mandatory before we meet.

My motto is when you’re ready you’ll know! Never jump into anything you’re not ready for.

Please also send me an introductory email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Afraid to try Tantra? Meet me for coffee ☕

Hello 👋 this is Goddess Diana owner of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com which is my primary website here in Chicago, Illinois.

Not everyone fully understands that the true purpose of tantra is to gradually activate your Kundalini energy (at the base of your spine) and help you feel how powerful your sexual energy can be. It will be so intense and magnified that you will feel tingling sensations like tiny volcanic eruptions throughout your limbs and heat or cold 🥶 prickly tickles along your spinal column.

Tantra is about learning how to circulate your sexual energy to all your major chakra systems and your sexual energy is used as medication 💊 to heal past trauma and restore a sense of inner calm and balance with you.

I understand this isn’t a path for everyone so I invite you to meet me for coffee to chat about your experiences with other practitioners or maybe you just want to meet face to face just to potentially see if we have any chemistry between eachother.

If you have questions I even offer paid phone 📱 consultations so let’s get together soon and discuss your needs and desires for our shared time together.

Meet me For coffee ☕ this weekend learn about tantra & my background in energywork 312 339 7707

Tantra is about self love & safe boundaries

You know yourself better than anyone and if you keep doing things to please others; but it goes against your comfort zone you can and will make yourself psychically and physically ill.

When we only act to please others we can stress our bodies out and I guarantee you your spirit will be broken and you will feel energetically drained until you’re all tapped out.

Not being honored for your boundaries and belief systems can lead to self neglect and depression.  Being with someone you no longer like or love 💔  will wear down on your psyche.

Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to walk away from toxic environs and people who refuse to listen 🎶 to what we have to say.

Self love ❤️ and self care is a byproduct of receiving ✨️ a #reiki healing ✨️ or a good massage or a #tantra ceremony

If you choose to schedule a #chicagotantra ceremony with me you will receive nurturing, intuitive bodywork, holistic ##breathwork #soundhealing reflexology #reiki #cuddletherapy and the opportunity to activate your #kundalini

I am here for you ❤

To me connection is everything ❤️
If you call me but I personally don’t feel a heart connection with you based off your voice vibrations I might suggest someone else for you to work with. 

I am extremely intuitive and Empathic by nature and my services will appeal to highly sensitive people seeking a real connection and sense of community.

Email 📧 me at
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
butterflyshadows@aol.com

let me know more about who you are and why you are excited to try tantra

We aren’t the same people we were 20 years ago. We evolve and we understand more about ourselves and what we need. Sometimes when people begin a romantic relationship with a partner early in life they find out their needs change with age, experience and self wisdom. However just because we become more emotionally mature and independent; it doesn’t mean our partners grow with us. Sometimes our partners have a completely different belief system and there’s nothing in common between the two of you anymore. One partner might still remain devoted and completely in love; but the other person grows away 💔 and needs more out of the relationship so the two grow apart.
If you’ve grown out of certain behavioral patterns or limiting beliefs never be afraid to engage in alternative healing paths. Suggest tantra workshops and tantra sessions to your partner just as a means to draw your bond closer. However if you’ve tried your very best to express your needs and goals and your partner is resistant to change or the newer version of who you are then it’s time for you to create healthy boundaries or move on from the relationship so you can continue to grow as a person.

Call me directly at (312) 339-7707 for a free 15 phone 📱 conversation or book me this week for a paid coffee ☕ consultation or full hour phone consultation.

You will find detailed information about my tantra ceremonies here:

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

you may also subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly

Tantra helps you love yourself unconditionally

Reasons why we Never Met :(

Good afternoon 😊 this is Diana from Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I’ve been in the sensual massage industry for 25 years plus ➕ and hopefully 🙏 will continue on this journey for many more years to come.

I always welcome new students of tantra seeking a valid form of somatic healing and release. I offer breathwork coaching, reiki, chakra balancing and traditional therapeutic massage during my tantra ceremonies.

However there is a discreet and super easy screening process for new clients. I always ask new guests for a full name, occupation and social media profile before working with them.

The only time I refuse anyone is if they aren’t cooperating with my Verification process or if they have sent me graphic and lewd text messages and photos to my smartphone.

I prefer to be treated with complete transparency and respect with all new guests seeking sensual healing.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to book a session or book a paid coffee ☕ or phone consultation. You may call me for free if you are simply calling to schedule a session and have no need for Q & A

Booking a session with me should be stress-free and simple. If I feel we make a great energy match we will proceed with the ceremony.

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