Posts tagged “Tantra massage”
December 8, 2025 No comments

How to safely access your Kundalini Shakti 🐍

Maybe you’ve heard of Kundalini Shakti and read about it.  There is nothing harmful about learning how to activate your Kundalini energy if you practice gentle breathwork techniques and enjoy a bit of yoga 🧘‍♂️ every day.

Let’s define Kundalini Shakti the Power of the Serpent Goddess 🐍 who resides within your lower tailbone.

She is known as the coiled serpent Goddess who holds primordial, raw powers that will travel from the base of your spine and inch her way slowly by uncoiling…upwards through each of your #chakras leading you to be more spiritual, more intuitive and more aligned with your purpose.

Kundalini translated from Sanskrit literally means “coiled”. Once you learn to access your Kundalini energy you feel more connected to Source or a feeling of being connected and intertwined with Nature and Universal like force.

Once your own Lifeforce is activated you will feel tingling sensations, heat, cold shivers and you may laugh or release tears.  All of these energetic shifts are your body’s way of releasing trauma and shedding layers of stored memories.  

Meditation, yoga, chakra balancing, breathwork, pranayama, Tantra yoga and bodywork are all helpful activities that will help you slowly activate your dormant energy.

Never be fearful of my tantra massage ceremonies.  I will not be rushing you into a Kundalini awakening.  

A major traumatic experience like an automobile accident or other severe physical energy can potentially jolt your Kundalini Shakti awakening before your body is physically or spiritually prepared.  But one session with me will not shock or jolt your nervous system!

To book a paid phone or coffee ☕️ consultation please contact me via email 📧 

or by 📞 call me directly 312 339 7707

There is no charge to call me if you’re ready to schedule a tantra ceremony or reiki and sound healing session 

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing,  Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach,  & Reiki artist ♡♥

Remember only a NDE (Near Death Experience) will be jarring to your Kundalini energy. A soothing tantra massage or Guided meditation with a Guru will not lead to any negative symptoms once your Kundalini energy is accessed. Some people see colors more vividly or feel tingly or hear buzzing but no one is physically injured during a gentle awakening of Kundalini Shakti.
October 21, 2025 No comments

My personal experiences with Reiki


Unfortunately there is no predicted outcome for any reiki or healing services you pay for and receive. I cherish the few times I would leave the presence of a gifted reiki master and actually feel like I was giggly, full of hope and walking on clouds. It’s such a wonderful feeling to tap into your higher self after a reiki session that helped you tap into your inner joy.

However I’ve had horrible horrible nightmarish experiences with self proclaimed “healers” who didn’t respect me as an equal or even a human being with feelings and special gifts of my own. These two separate women were “holier than thou” types and both of them even mispronounced my true legal name because they obviously didn’t care about me. I left these sessions feeling worse about myself and very distressed.

My advice is this — if you feel like your reiki practitioner is triggered by you or they think too highly of themselves then don’t waste your time or money with them.

I’m not saying every session is joyous though. Your body is unique on how it chooses to process energy. You might store unprocessed grief or trauma that you are not aware of. Our body’s cells carry memories so after a reiki treatment you might remember something dark or unpleasant you chose to ignore or forget. There are many layers to peel away as you heal. Grief, loss and depression might be part of your reiki journey and so can intense joy and self awareness.

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Divine Priestess of unconditional Love,
advanced chakra healing,  Tantra educator,
Couples Tantra Coach,  & Reiki artist ♡♥

Mobile contact:  312-339-7707

Come Journey with Me!

Reiki is not a cure all nor a substitution for a mental disorder if you feel you have one. If you regularly suffer from a declining mental health disorder go consult with a mental health professional in conjunction with receiving alternative healing services.

I’ve met clients who vape or take cannabis during or right before or after a tantra and reiki ceremony with me but those drugs are depressants and they alter the positive affects of receiving work in the chakras.

All drugs especially alcohol will affect the central nervous system and it’s advisable not to drink before or after receiving reiki or tantra. You should be drinking a lot of fresh spring, distilled or purified what.

Receiving reiki, sound healing and authentic tantra massage is an investment in yourself. You will definitely feel physically and emotionally lighter after your visit with me. You will look younger and it will feel like a day at the spa. If however you haven’t faced your fears or done your shadow work you might feel a bit sad depending on the trauma your body might be carrying that you’ve never fully addressed. Just be honest with yourself and honor your body. Every emotion you feel and every sensation pulsing through you is valid. You can’t rush healing nor can you continue to suppress your emotions indefinitely.

I am always available whenever you are ready to shift your energies or simply feel human connection again.

When contacting me initially for a session please include your full name and current or past occupation (if you are retired).

I’d love to meet you ❤ for a paid coffee ☕ consultation if you have an hour’s worth of questions or goals you need to share with me prior to your first tantra ceremony. All of your questions and concerns are valid and will be honestly answered.

I work with men, women, non binary individuals and all couples who are seeking healing, connection, knowledge or just pure enjoyment or all of the above.

Hope to meet you soon while I am still in Chicago and all neighboring suburbs surrounding Chicago, Illinois!
July 6, 2025 No comments

Happy July 4th weekend

I’m currently visiting Arlington Heights, Illinois! Couples if you are new to tantra I am offering a lovely special discounted price this Holiday weekend so if you’re seeing this post on July 5, 2025 please enjoy $100 off a 2 hour session or pay my normal fee of $600 for two full hours and receive your 3rd hour of #tantra completely free.

If you are unmarried and just need a bit of TLC and nurturing touch just for yourself I cordially invite you to partake in one of my ceremonies. Take $100 of any tantra massage ceremony that is two hours or longer.

Couples did you know tantra is a wonderful opportunity for you to get to know your partner and understand how to have peaceful more meaningful conversations? Learn how to listen and connect to your partner by being fully present. I will teach you all the nuances of touching your partner with positive and loving intentions.

I hope to hear from you soon!

When I set up sacred space for you I include sound healing, sensual massage strokes, reiki, lingam honoring, base chakra massage, yoni massage, (for women) breathwork, chakra balancing, cranial sacral techniques and myofascial release. Your Kundalini energy will gradually build up leading you to a full body orgasm.

Please click directly to my website

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I offer tantra massage ceremonies for men, women and couples seeking a soothing and transcendental journey of the chakras.

April 17, 2025 No comments

Currently seeking Sponsorship in the East Coast

My time in Chicago, Illinois has come to a close. Whoever has currently paid me a deposit will definitely see me in Evanston and Chicago up until the end of this April and then I’m actively going to seek a rideshare to a different city.

I’ve always wanted to live in Manhattan, New York but I didn’t think I could manage it financially all on my own. Whoever is reading my blog this week is welcome to reach out to me and follow through on their tantra session.

If you’ve been interested in working exclusively with me and you have a space for rent at a greatly reduced rate in exchange for my services or as an even barter/trade situation in the East or West Coast please call me directly 312 339 7707

Ivery had some strange dreams where I’m being encouraged to explore Boulder, Colorado or other parts of the West Coast. I’m definitely feeling as if my time in Illinois is over. I’ve noticed a huge drop in excitement and many people who sent me deposits get caught up in Financial issues or personal family crisis having to cancel their appointment with me completely.

I also noticed that business people who reach out to me with a week’s notice find out upon landing here that all their business plans have changed making it impossible for them to visit me.

If you have a desire to learn tantra from me and receive a combination of massage, sound healing, reiki and tantra massage from me please contact me either by phone or email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

And of course here’s my website

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

You may show your support by donating to me here via Venmo @Diana-Grossman-1 or call me directly and I will share other ways you can donate to me. It’s too challenging for me now to continue to live in Illinois and Universe has been giving me clear signs that my time here is coming to a close unfortunately.

Please try and see me before the end of April and to whomever sent me an advanced deposit i guarantee that you will receive your session up until the end of the first week of May.
November 18, 2024 No comments

A tantra ceremony should include reiki, massage, and chakra balancing

As a reiki master, massage therapist and certified tantra educator I can say all forms of healing modalities are geared towards full body holistic wellness and all help people heal through trauma and psychic 🔮 as well as physical pain.

Here is how I define reiki. I actually wrote a short article on my website Tantra Butterfly 🦋 http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Reiki is a Japanese technique for stress reduction and relaxation that also promotes healing. It is administered by “laying on hands” and is based on the idea that an unseen “life force energy” flows through us and is what causes us to be alive.

If one’s “life force energy” is low, then we are more likely to get sick or feel stress, and if it is high, we are more capable of being happy and healthy. The word Reiki is made of two Japanese words – Rei which means “God’s Wisdom or the Higher Power” and Ki which is “life force energy”.

Reiki is actually “spiritually guided life force energy. Reiki is defined as Universal Life Force. The Ki in Reiki is the energy component or pure life energy. In Hindu traditions life force is known as Prana. Hawaiian shamans call this life force mana. Each culture has their own definition of our vital life energy.

Reiki or life force is universal energy and is found in People, animals, and plants. Because this life force is found in everything we can draw upon its universal energy in limitless abundance.

During my reiki sessions I place my hands, my heart and my deep intent and act as a pure loving vessel or conduit for the healing Universal energy to flow and heal your body. In essence I am not “giving” you my own body’s energy; rather I am acting as a vehicle for this Universal energy to flow through me and open up your body to receiving this pure gift of love that we all deserve.

All my sessions will include an element of Reiki and you may feel surges of energy or pure warmth flowing throughout your body as I touch you. The delightful result of receiving a Reiki treatment is the blossoming and opening up of your chakras. The word chakra is Hindu in origin and simply translated means “spinning wheel’ which refers to the spinning vortexes of energy within our bodies. As each chakra awakens your energy will be more receptive to love and the transit of Kundalini energy at the base of your spine will have a clearer path to flow.

In Reiki we harmonize your spirit body with your physical body thereby permitting you to feel greater feelings of sensual bliss and hopefully enlightenment and self awareness.

Now as for tantra I incorporate sound healing, deep tissue massage, Swedish style massage, chakra balancing and breathwork to open up the energy trapped within my client’s bodies. The purpose of tantra massage is to help activate Kundalini energies and we do this by employees alternative healing and sacred conscious touch. The intention is to help people heal trauma within their body’s cellular memories and help people achieve a feeling of euphoria and sensory bliss.

Massage includes manual manipulation of the muscles of the body while reiki is more about gentle manipulation of energy where the practitioner administering the reiki is just barely touching their client’s body or hovering over the major chakra systems.

All three modalities help you detox, ground your energies and promote self healing and self awareness. You will also learn to tap into your creativity, abundance and your intuition is greatly enhanced after receiving an authentic tantra massage ceremony. Any legitimate tantra therapist will include reiki, guided breathwork, sound healing and massage therapy during a tantra massage ceremony.

If you would love to explore your energy with me definitely reach out to me via an introductory email Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com 📧

I offer authentic tantra ceremonies to men, women, non binary, trans and couples

August 9, 2024 No comments

Why did you reach out to me?

I’d love to know how you found me! I’ve spent so many years writing articles and explaining my services to people over the phone 📱 and it’s gotten to the point where I encourage everyone to book a paid phone consultation with me or at least a coffee ☕ consultation with me initially to weed out guests who didn’t read my primary website first.

Let’s back up a few minutes here. I’ve been working with energy for a very long time and yes my family home was most definitely haunted and yes unfortunately my early years were traumatic because my father could be extremely violent. I ended up becoming extremely sensitive to energies and I’d take trips to the library to avoid the drama going on in my home 🏡 and to pick up books 📚 that intrigued me like astrology, numerology, and chakras.

I began studying reiki at age 19 and I received a full scholarship from Loyola University and enrolled in English literature; but I was miserable there and after three years I chose to drop out of college because I didn’t feel connected.

After quitting multiple jobs as a receptionist I decided to study 📖 massage techniques and I jumped whole heartedly into the sex industry but I focused on my client’s physical pain– not just sexual. I was determined to treat everyone’s body holistically.

In the beginning I didn’t charge much; in fact I allowed myself to be exploited. As soon as I took workshops in other healing modalities and certification in tantra I increased my rates so that I charged as much as my peers.

Unfortunately some of my clients were displeased about my rate increase and assumed that because I was now charging more that I was also offering escort related services. Some of my clients were extremely loyal and continued to use my services and others became enraged and slandered me on adult sites discouraging potential clients from using my services. It because increasingly difficult for me to gain client’s trust especially when I left Chicago to move to New Orleans, Louisiana.

The slanderous message board was directly linked to my website and when I took classes in Maui some of the students at the retreat Google up my legal name and website and found the slanderous adult message board just a few links below my website. I was embarrassed and it caused some people to mistrust my skillet.

Regardless I’ve had some hurdles to climb and I don’t recommend anyone become a tantra practitioner unless they have a very thick skin. Some new clients call me ready to dive in and others are very skeptical.

I’ve had my Google My Business page suspended four separate times and lost all 65 reviews 😢 and yes 7 reviews were horribly mean and unfair and written by people who either never met me in real life or asked for a cheap sports massage instead of tantra. My specialty is reiki and tantra massage. I do have experience with trigger point massage, lomi lomi massage, hot stone therapy and tantra massage but I don’t have certification in sports massage. It’s better if you select a traditional massage therapist if you are seeking a sports massage.

Now let’s pedal backwards and focus on how you found me. Many people say they found me online while googling up massage near me or tantra massage. Regardless of how you found me I still recommend new students of tantra schedule a phone consultation. If however you’ve had positive experiences with tantra massage before and you know this will be a positive experience ✨ the by all means let’s get you scheduled in my calendar.

What’s tantra though? In Sanskrit, tantra means woven together. People who practice Buddhism and Hinduism believe that all forms tantric sex are a sacred and spiritual act. They do not separate the carnal needs of the physical body from the spiritual. They believe in weaving spirituality and breathwork into sexuality and the emphasis is placed on sacred intimacy and deeper connection to your partner.

I’m not an escort service nor am I a sexual surrogate. I have my bound when I work with my clients. My ✨ specialty is helping my clients tap into their own sexual energy which is called kundalini Shakti. I don’t offer kama sutra lessons; rather I help my clients achieve full body orgssm through touch, healing sounds, chakra balancing and sensual massage techniques that I employ.

If you think we might be a great energy match please call me directly 312 339 7707 and be prepared to give me your full legal name and occupation for the verification process. I will ask you some very simple questions and a deposit is Mandatory before we meet.

My motto is when you’re ready you’ll know! Never jump into anything you’re not ready for.

Please also send me an introductory email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

May 26, 2024 No comments

How to Empower your Divine feminine

You may not realize this but the true purpose of learning #tantrayoga is to unite the Divine Masculine [Lord Shiva] with your Divine feminine [Shakti- Kali Ma]

We are both Male & Female and when we learn to practice this delicate balance within our #chakras through breathing & yoga stretches we harmonize our physical & mental bodies.

All of us must learn to activate  our #kundalinishakti & our feminine energies

You can do this by movement such as dancing 💃 & yoga 🧘‍♀️ or hikes 🚶‍♀️ in Nature. pamper yourself by taking hot baths 🛁 or getting an indulgent massage or spa day


The #sacralchakra needs healing attentive care.  Create art, anything beautiful to harmonize your Divine feminine. Even taking care ❤ of your skin as a daily and nightly ritual is a sacred act of awakening your Divine feminine.


Learning #mudras will help heal your inner feminine so you can begin with a basic book and learn the mudras (hand ✋ gestures) that help activate your third eye 👁 heart ❤ chakra and sacral chakra.

Allow time for grounding and self healing on a daily basis. Make sure you take time to journal and self reflect.

Even the act of shopping 🛍 for beautiful objects, pillowcases, silks, flowers 💐 is self healing

Self care is sexy ….pampering yourself opens sacral energies

As your sacral energies & Divine Goddess awakens your opportunities and Abundance grows

Don’t allow yourself to grow stagnant …stagnancy leads to depression and the lack of self love leads to emotional blocks 💔 that can block your opportunities.

Hope to meet you soon

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

activation of the Divine feminine
February 6, 2024 No comments

Come join me in the co creation of sacred space ✨ #Tantra heals

I always wish to attract anyone who wishes to transcend the mundane and learn how to be fully present. I’m highly skilled in tantra yoga and reiki! I’m an ideal choice for people wishing to learn about rebirthing breath, giving up addictive habits, or surrendering to consciousness and intentional touch.

I welcome men, women, and non binary individuals who need a tantra partner and couples who want to learn more about bringing energy work and loving intentional touch into their current relationship.

Repeat sessions are highly recommended so I suggest visiting me bi monthly for you to see results.

Tantra massage heals social anxiety, panic attacks, unhealthy attachments and helps balance your chakras while increasing your endorphins.

Anyone seeking to learn more about establishing healthy boundaries in their sexual relationship with their partner is welcome to schedule a tantra yoga ceremony with me!

please read my main website here:

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Then send me an introductory email 📧

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

please include all your personal details to make it simple for me to verify who you are such as your full legal name, occupation, age range, social media links etc…

Include your phone number, goals, questions and I will reply. If I can’t personally help you I will refer you to the correct source.

I welcome anyone who is emotionally mature enough to join me on a unique journey of self healing and sexual wellness.
February 6, 2024 No comments

I Love & appreciate ❤ testimonials from my Guests

If you loved our time together ❤ and want to receive a discount off our future Chicago Tantra ceremony simply write me a thoughtful review. Your review doesn’t have to be a novel in length or graphic in nature. I’m always in need of new reviews for my website and you are welcome to use whatever alias suits you. You will receive a $50 credit off any future tantra ceremony of any length or if you prefer extra time added onto any session.

This weekend I worked on three special guests. Each person came to me without any prior knowledge of tantra or alternative healing. I used a combination of my knowledge of breathwork, aromatherapy, holistic bodywork, chakra balancing and kundalini full body activation. It’s always satisfying to me when each person reacts so positively to the energie. Your body intuitively knows what to do with your stored sexual energy and you will receive a feeling of intense heat wherever you needed the healing the most.

Here’s a copy of the lovely review I received most recently. I’m including a link to my main website so you can read more testimonials from current and former clients of mine

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I rarely write reviews but I feel Diana genuinely deserves to have one written for her and so here I am on a Sunday evening trying to share my very personal and intimate session I shared with her this past weekend.

What prompted me to seek out a tantra session was a combination of genuine curiosity, a little extra spare time and a lot of grief.

A good friend of mine lost a battle with cancer and I spent many hours supporting him emotionally and taking care of his family’s needs these past few months.

I was having trouble sleeping and found myself thinking too much so I went through Diana’s website last week because I was planning a trip to Chicago.  I emailed her and received a response within the hour and when she called me back she gave me a few suggestions and so I wanted her to visit me since I had rented a beautiful airbnb in River North and didn’t feel like leaving my space.

Diana has a lovely touch and she is clearly knowledgeable and enthusiastic about her craft.  We had a great chemistry between us and I ended up extending our two session into three hours just because I didn’t want our time together to come to an end.

If you’re low on energy or find yourself depleted Diana’s touch will be just what you need.  

Marvin from Dekalb… 

So there you go! I truly hope you will choose me as your future tantra muse and guide. I take great pride in my work and this is my only passion in life. I put all my focus and attention on the co creation of sacred space ✨ because I love making people feel good!

Fancy a session with me? Well please tell me more about you! Please include your full legal name and occupation and one or two links to your social media account(s). Even if you’re retired or in between jobs, or a student enrolled in College. Be sure to share two important goals you have for our time together even if it’s just to engage in play or have a soothing and relaxing time together.

Your reasons for wishing to experience tantra massage and tantra yoga don’t need to be complex 🙏 I will accept you as a new guest if I feel we have a mutual connection ✨

Contact me via email 📧 first tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and you can always send me an informative text and call me directly here too 312 339 7707

January 30, 2024 No comments

Mantras play a major role in authentic Tantra massage ceremonies


Chanting #Mantras can help alleviate stress, depression and severe anxieties.  Chanting Mantras helps you focus & help you potentially attract an end result.  For instance there are mantras for abundance, attraction, positive energies and better health.

A #Mantra is a single word and or sound you chant repeatedly to induce meditation and also help open up your #chakras


When your chakras are in Alignment you attract more positive situations & opportunities to you.

I love using #mantras or chants in my daily ritual & as we co create #sacredspace together you will have the opportunity to listen to these mantras during your #chicagotantra ceremony ♥️

Your body’s energies will flow better; your #chakras will be in alignment and your physical body will glow with health ✨️ Not to boast but my guests who visit me leave refreshed and looking years younger 💫 than their true physical age. Let’s be honest here a poor diet, physical & emotional stress & a lack of good quality exercise & sleep ages your body prematurely.  In order to reverse the Aging process you must remove the stressors & practice daily rituals and self care ❤

I also include Mantras & #soundhealing during my #reiki treatments

If you are interested ✨ in working with me
Let me know more about you!
Send me an introductory 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Please include your details, your goals and budget and I will suggest a ceremony perfect for your needs.

Please visit my main website prior to contacting me http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’ve spent over 25 years perfecting my craft and I hope to exceed your expectations.

If you wish to book a session immediately call me directly at 312 339 7707 and also send me a text message. Please include your full legal name, occupation, and one or two public social media accounts in the body of your text and emails that you send me. It’s part of the verification process and is mandatory before we actually meet.