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Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty Experience

Hello Everyone 👋 I feel as if people truly don’t understand the purpose of receiving an authentic tantra ceremony so let me bring up some issues because lately I am noticing a trend where people are not committed to practicing daily or they expect a single session to be a one and done singular experience.

Nothing makes me feel more discouraged than witnessing a couple hurriedly leave a longer ceremony and wrap up their day with me and rush off to do their next activity. We just explored energy work together. You will need rest and time to nap or take a long bath together or just cuddle for an hour. It truly breaks my spirit to watch a couple hurriedly get dressed and rush rush rush without allowing themselves to process the energywork properly.

I love the work I do but it does take a lot out of me to teach two people how to connect to eachother and prepare an authentic tantra massage for eachother. It’s hard work for all of us and it isn’t meant to be taken lightly either.

Tantra isn’t a “novelty” experience. We aren’t in the movies and there isn’t anything glamorous about creating sacred space. You will learn how to touch your partner with positive and loving intentions and you will learn to be more patient and present for yourself and your partner. There is a lot to teach and I suggest no less than three hours but I will not expect you to know everything in one session so ask me questions and go easy on yourself. You are not performing for me and I am here to guide you both and answer your questions.

Tantra is a life changing opportunity that will open portals and opportunities for you to connect you to the highest version of yourself.

Tantra isn’t meant to be a Novelty once in a lifetime experience.  Once you have one tantra session you should still practice a little bit daily on your own.

Be proactive! Buy some books and videos and learn from different teachers in YouTube.  One teacher isn’t going to have all the answers or tools you need to Master your own Energy.

Schedule multiple sessions with one person you trust or try sessions with different people and learn what you can with each person you meet.

It’s always preferable to build loyalty with one person and then partake in #tantra retreats if you can afford it.  During these workshops you meet a variety of people.  Some participants learning with you might feel like part of your soul family while others may actually trigger you and make you reexamine your feelings and self worth.

Regardless of where you are energetically and physically tantra is a form of #Yoga and your body will shift and go through its own unique changes.  

I do offer full day tantra ceremonies for anyone seeking relaxation therapy, education, detoxification and pure bliss

If you have the time and curiosity I can even offer tantra intensive journeys for yourself or for you and your partner as a couple.  The weekend will be a series of mini lessons and practice time for yourselves.

Schedule a paid coffee ☕ consultation or phone consultation if you have questions

Get ready to be overwhelmed especially if you are sensitive to energy and need to feel connected back to your physical core.

I love shaking up your misconceptions. I love helping you restore balance within your body and clear out trauma within your body’s memories. Never be afraid of change.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Call me directly to book a beautiful ceremony for yourself or as a couple.

312 339 7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Tantra encourages Somatic Release

It’s not uncommon to experience an emotional release or “unwinding” of your emotions when receiving any form of alternative healing and #tantra bodywork

Our bodies carry so many memories and trauma is stored within your cells.  As you receive #reiki or any form of massage you have an opportunity to let go of anything negative that no longer serves you.

I love witnessing my clients cry, laugh and communicate these repressed feelings. 

I especially notice some of my guests are so psychically in tune and sensitive that their body will jump or shake at the sound of my singing bowls and tuning forks

If you are sensitive to energy and you would love to experience an array of healing modalities such as breathwork #soundhealing and the gentle awakening of your #kundalini

I would love to meet you

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Sliding fees accepted and discounts always offered for my longer ceremonies

If you don’t live in my city and you would still love a session I offer Virtual chakra balancing ceremonies which will include breathwork coaching, Bijan mantra chants, sound healing and helping you tap into your Kundalini energy gently.

VISIT my website

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly 🦋

Tantra helps you transcend the mundane

A tantra ceremony with me will help you heal from trauma ✨ but will also help you recover fragments of your soul’s purpose. You might feel more tingly, centered and awakened. However you may also feel more vulnerable and tearful from these awakening cell memories.

One session with me will help you transcend from the mundane and you will feel like there is no concept of time as you leave your body and your worries behind.

Your heart will beat joyfully and everything ♥ you touch will feel magically infused and special throughout your day.

Your life force will be fully activated
Your intuition illuminated
Your face will transform and return to a relaxed
And youthful glow. I guarantee your complexion will improve and you will look years younger after just one tantra ceremony with me.

I promise your time with me will be both memorable and nurturing. I want only positive karma transferred between the two of us. I want you to be open minded, trust the process and let your body take in as much or as little energies as possible.

Your body will intuitively know how much energy you need. Your Kundalini energy will be 🐌 slowly awakened at your own pace. We do this by slowly breathing together at intervals during our time together. We quiet our minds and try our very best not to have expectations. We let our minds go trying our best not to think but to simply be in the moment. You can laugh during our ceremony and I won’t judge you. In fact a good belly laugh is great for your healing just like a good cry.

I only wish to attract gentle souls in Dire need of sacred touch; people who appreciate alternative healing, reiki, sound healing and holistic breathwork.

These are special memories we create together ❤
That I call co creation of sacredspace

Never be afraid to reach out to me for a paid virtual phone or coffee ☕ consultation. I can even offer you virtual chakra balancing and sound healing if you are miles away from me.

Your goals, fears and worries will be addressed. You are important and if I personally feel I can’t help you I will refer you to other resources.

chicagotantra #yogini

I’m planning a long distance move when the stars 🌟 and opportunities align

Kindly reach out to me soon while I’m still in the

chicagoland area and surrounding suburbs

312 339 7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Butterflyshadows@aol.com

When emailing me non need to send me a novel about yourself. I just need to know your full name, age range, occupation and some form of social media so I have an idea of who you are. You can always book a 20 minute phone 📱 consultation with me if you have any questions about my services that aren’t covered on my website.

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

I’m available every day of the year. I never take a holiday off so please reach out if you are genuinely interested in tantra massage ceremonies and scheduling a tantra retreat or 90 minute journey of sacred space.

New Reviews make me proud to be a tantra healer

I’m sharing a recent review from a client i met two weeks ago.

The stars 🌟 were aligned and he finally made some time to visit me all the way from another part of Illinois that was 90 minutes away from me!

Part of the fun of my job is I get to work on some spectacular people with good hearts and even better intentions

[My Newest Testimonials:
I found Diana’s website years ago and was very intrigued, but due to life’s many unexpected detours I wasn’t able to see her until recently. Now I wish I had made the effort earlier! She is warm, friendly, empathetic, and easy to talk to. I immediately felt as if I had known her for years.

Diana describes what she does as an “experience,” which is no exaggeration. She offers a completely immersive encounter that will make you feel cocooned away from the real world. I literally lost track of time when I was with her, and I never felt rushed. Her positive attitude will stay with you long after you have left. I’ve known people who talked about tantra, but Diana actually lives it. She’s the real deal, and I highly recommend her!

Tobias]

You may find this new testimony on my primary tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you were a recent or past client of mine just know I really appreciate your written testimonials because they attract the best energies to my tantra practice and I always want to help anyone needing an energy boost.

WordPress Family and Subscribers:
I’d love to meet you!  No matter what obstacles you face I’d like to be a part of your healing journey ✨ even if it’s just to escape reality for a few hours

facing financial hardship? Not to worry! let’s help you with sliding fees! Are you financially Abundant? please pay my normal rates as I’m an independent contractor & must cover all my costs for myself and my pet family.

#chicagotantra ceremonies will create more space ✨ in your heart ❤ ♥ ❤
benefits of #tantrayoga & #tantramassage are manifold including sending loving messages to your body with conscience touch and sound
speeding up your metabolism, increasing your intuition, helping your body detox and aiding you in #kundalini ascension slowly and safely
Daily breathwork helps your body process energies better and keeps you looking much younger than your Biological Age.

If you’re interested in scheduling your first tantra ceremony with me please call me directly here

(312) 339-7707

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

What motivates you these days?

I’d love to know more about the people who are viewing my blog either by accident or because they chose to subscribe to learn more about tantra.

Are you excited to wake ⏰ up in the morning and get to work? Do you set your alarm for 5 AM take a long hot shower and walk your dog 🐕 or go to the gym then get to work in a corporate setting? Or do you work remotely so you sleep in till however late you wish and then check your phone and emails 📧 for the day ahead? I’d love for all of you to leave me a public comment here on my blog and tell me your daily routine.

Almost every person I meet lately travels once or twice weekly for the corporation they work for. All the traveling means they might miss out on family time and might not have enough time to book massage and spa appointments for themselves even though their shoulders and neck might be strained from the uncomfortable airplane ✈ seats.

I’m proud to say I do offer my sessions at the last minute for traveling executives for as long as my new clients offer up a full name and deposit. I love being needed and willing to travel to any safe and reputable hotel by the airport or within the city if Chicago. I’d like to think I can be an important part of your self care routine when you need a pick me up.

Unfortunately CEO’S might forget about receiving healing services and may not be eating super mindfully based off of missed flight connections and by the time they arrive to their destination only fast food places are open instead of healthy options. I strongly suggest you take along freshly sliced cubes of fruit, veggies and cheeses 🧀 with you on all flights ✈️ or even better call up the hotel front desk and have them go grocery shopping 🛍 for you and have your mini fridge stocked up with healthy items so you can snack on your favorite foods by the time you arrive at your destination.

Book me in advance but if you find yourself stuck at the airport bored and achey with nothing to do never be afraid to reach out to me for my tantra services.

Have a look at my primary website here http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly at (312) 339 7707 to schedule something special for yourself. I use sound healing, deep tissue bodywork, sensual massage, reiki, cuddle therapy and Authentic tantra massage during my tantra ceremonies.

You can even book a coffee ☕ consultation or dinner engagement with me if you have questions before we meet.

Hope to see you soon!

Why did you reach out to me?

I’d love to know how you found me! I’ve spent so many years writing articles and explaining my services to people over the phone 📱 and it’s gotten to the point where I encourage everyone to book a paid phone consultation with me or at least a coffee ☕ consultation with me initially to weed out guests who didn’t read my primary website first.

Let’s back up a few minutes here. I’ve been working with energy for a very long time and yes my family home was most definitely haunted and yes unfortunately my early years were traumatic because my father could be extremely violent. I ended up becoming extremely sensitive to energies and I’d take trips to the library to avoid the drama going on in my home 🏡 and to pick up books 📚 that intrigued me like astrology, numerology, and chakras.

I began studying reiki at age 19 and I received a full scholarship from Loyola University and enrolled in English literature; but I was miserable there and after three years I chose to drop out of college because I didn’t feel connected.

After quitting multiple jobs as a receptionist I decided to study 📖 massage techniques and I jumped whole heartedly into the sex industry but I focused on my client’s physical pain– not just sexual. I was determined to treat everyone’s body holistically.

In the beginning I didn’t charge much; in fact I allowed myself to be exploited. As soon as I took workshops in other healing modalities and certification in tantra I increased my rates so that I charged as much as my peers.

Unfortunately some of my clients were displeased about my rate increase and assumed that because I was now charging more that I was also offering escort related services. Some of my clients were extremely loyal and continued to use my services and others became enraged and slandered me on adult sites discouraging potential clients from using my services. It because increasingly difficult for me to gain client’s trust especially when I left Chicago to move to New Orleans, Louisiana.

The slanderous message board was directly linked to my website and when I took classes in Maui some of the students at the retreat Google up my legal name and website and found the slanderous adult message board just a few links below my website. I was embarrassed and it caused some people to mistrust my skillet.

Regardless I’ve had some hurdles to climb and I don’t recommend anyone become a tantra practitioner unless they have a very thick skin. Some new clients call me ready to dive in and others are very skeptical.

I’ve had my Google My Business page suspended four separate times and lost all 65 reviews 😢 and yes 7 reviews were horribly mean and unfair and written by people who either never met me in real life or asked for a cheap sports massage instead of tantra. My specialty is reiki and tantra massage. I do have experience with trigger point massage, lomi lomi massage, hot stone therapy and tantra massage but I don’t have certification in sports massage. It’s better if you select a traditional massage therapist if you are seeking a sports massage.

Now let’s pedal backwards and focus on how you found me. Many people say they found me online while googling up massage near me or tantra massage. Regardless of how you found me I still recommend new students of tantra schedule a phone consultation. If however you’ve had positive experiences with tantra massage before and you know this will be a positive experience ✨ the by all means let’s get you scheduled in my calendar.

What’s tantra though? In Sanskrit, tantra means woven together. People who practice Buddhism and Hinduism believe that all forms tantric sex are a sacred and spiritual act. They do not separate the carnal needs of the physical body from the spiritual. They believe in weaving spirituality and breathwork into sexuality and the emphasis is placed on sacred intimacy and deeper connection to your partner.

I’m not an escort service nor am I a sexual surrogate. I have my bound when I work with my clients. My ✨ specialty is helping my clients tap into their own sexual energy which is called kundalini Shakti. I don’t offer kama sutra lessons; rather I help my clients achieve full body orgssm through touch, healing sounds, chakra balancing and sensual massage techniques that I employ.

If you think we might be a great energy match please call me directly 312 339 7707 and be prepared to give me your full legal name and occupation for the verification process. I will ask you some very simple questions and a deposit is Mandatory before we meet.

My motto is when you’re ready you’ll know! Never jump into anything you’re not ready for.

Please also send me an introductory email 📧 Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

How to Empower your Divine feminine

You may not realize this but the true purpose of learning #tantrayoga is to unite the Divine Masculine [Lord Shiva] with your Divine feminine [Shakti- Kali Ma]

We are both Male & Female and when we learn to practice this delicate balance within our #chakras through breathing & yoga stretches we harmonize our physical & mental bodies.

All of us must learn to activate  our #kundalinishakti & our feminine energies

You can do this by movement such as dancing 💃 & yoga 🧘‍♀️ or hikes 🚶‍♀️ in Nature. pamper yourself by taking hot baths 🛁 or getting an indulgent massage or spa day


The #sacralchakra needs healing attentive care.  Create art, anything beautiful to harmonize your Divine feminine. Even taking care ❤ of your skin as a daily and nightly ritual is a sacred act of awakening your Divine feminine.


Learning #mudras will help heal your inner feminine so you can begin with a basic book and learn the mudras (hand ✋ gestures) that help activate your third eye 👁 heart ❤ chakra and sacral chakra.

Allow time for grounding and self healing on a daily basis. Make sure you take time to journal and self reflect.

Even the act of shopping 🛍 for beautiful objects, pillowcases, silks, flowers 💐 is self healing

Self care is sexy ….pampering yourself opens sacral energies

As your sacral energies & Divine Goddess awakens your opportunities and Abundance grows

Don’t allow yourself to grow stagnant …stagnancy leads to depression and the lack of self love leads to emotional blocks 💔 that can block your opportunities.

Hope to meet you soon

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

butterflyshadows@aol.com

activation of the Divine feminine

Tantra is about self love & safe boundaries

You know yourself better than anyone and if you keep doing things to please others; but it goes against your comfort zone you can and will make yourself psychically and physically ill.

When we only act to please others we can stress our bodies out and I guarantee you your spirit will be broken and you will feel energetically drained until you’re all tapped out.

Not being honored for your boundaries and belief systems can lead to self neglect and depression.  Being with someone you no longer like or love 💔  will wear down on your psyche.

Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to walk away from toxic environs and people who refuse to listen 🎶 to what we have to say.

Self love ❤️ and self care is a byproduct of receiving ✨️ a #reiki healing ✨️ or a good massage or a #tantra ceremony

If you choose to schedule a #chicagotantra ceremony with me you will receive nurturing, intuitive bodywork, holistic ##breathwork #soundhealing reflexology #reiki #cuddletherapy and the opportunity to activate your #kundalini

I am here for you ❤

To me connection is everything ❤️
If you call me but I personally don’t feel a heart connection with you based off your voice vibrations I might suggest someone else for you to work with. 

I am extremely intuitive and Empathic by nature and my services will appeal to highly sensitive people seeking a real connection and sense of community.

Email 📧 me at
tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
butterflyshadows@aol.com

let me know more about who you are and why you are excited to try tantra

We aren’t the same people we were 20 years ago. We evolve and we understand more about ourselves and what we need. Sometimes when people begin a romantic relationship with a partner early in life they find out their needs change with age, experience and self wisdom. However just because we become more emotionally mature and independent; it doesn’t mean our partners grow with us. Sometimes our partners have a completely different belief system and there’s nothing in common between the two of you anymore. One partner might still remain devoted and completely in love; but the other person grows away 💔 and needs more out of the relationship so the two grow apart.
If you’ve grown out of certain behavioral patterns or limiting beliefs never be afraid to engage in alternative healing paths. Suggest tantra workshops and tantra sessions to your partner just as a means to draw your bond closer. However if you’ve tried your very best to express your needs and goals and your partner is resistant to change or the newer version of who you are then it’s time for you to create healthy boundaries or move on from the relationship so you can continue to grow as a person.

Call me directly at (312) 339-7707 for a free 15 phone 📱 conversation or book me this week for a paid coffee ☕ consultation or full hour phone consultation.

You will find detailed information about my tantra ceremonies here:

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

you may also subscribe to my YouTube channel #Tantrabutterfly

Tantra helps you love yourself unconditionally

Reasons why we Never Met :(

Good afternoon 😊 this is Diana from Tantra Butterfly 🦋 I’ve been in the sensual massage industry for 25 years plus ➕ and hopefully 🙏 will continue on this journey for many more years to come.

I always welcome new students of tantra seeking a valid form of somatic healing and release. I offer breathwork coaching, reiki, chakra balancing and traditional therapeutic massage during my tantra ceremonies.

However there is a discreet and super easy screening process for new clients. I always ask new guests for a full name, occupation and social media profile before working with them.

The only time I refuse anyone is if they aren’t cooperating with my Verification process or if they have sent me graphic and lewd text messages and photos to my smartphone.

I prefer to be treated with complete transparency and respect with all new guests seeking sensual healing.

Enjoy my primary website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly to book a session or book a paid coffee ☕ or phone consultation. You may call me for free if you are simply calling to schedule a session and have no need for Q & A

Booking a session with me should be stress-free and simple. If I feel we make a great energy match we will proceed with the ceremony.

http://youtube.com/@DianaGrossman?si=UgqovSMGLyhd6C3j

Come join me in the co creation of sacred space ✨ #Tantra heals

I always wish to attract anyone who wishes to transcend the mundane and learn how to be fully present. I’m highly skilled in tantra yoga and reiki! I’m an ideal choice for people wishing to learn about rebirthing breath, giving up addictive habits, or surrendering to consciousness and intentional touch.

I welcome men, women, and non binary individuals who need a tantra partner and couples who want to learn more about bringing energy work and loving intentional touch into their current relationship.

Repeat sessions are highly recommended so I suggest visiting me bi monthly for you to see results.

Tantra massage heals social anxiety, panic attacks, unhealthy attachments and helps balance your chakras while increasing your endorphins.

Anyone seeking to learn more about establishing healthy boundaries in their sexual relationship with their partner is welcome to schedule a tantra yoga ceremony with me!

please read my main website here:

http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Then send me an introductory email 📧

tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

please include all your personal details to make it simple for me to verify who you are such as your full legal name, occupation, age range, social media links etc…

Include your phone number, goals, questions and I will reply. If I can’t personally help you I will refer you to the correct source.

I welcome anyone who is emotionally mature enough to join me on a unique journey of self healing and sexual wellness.