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Chicago Tantra Goddess Diana

Greetings! Today is Monday February 10th 2020 and we are now formally immersed in the tail end of our Chicago winter season.

The purpose of today’s new blog entry is manifold and so I hope everyone reading this article today will be compelled to let go of their fear, introduce themselves to me soon and begin their first journey into tantra here in Chicago.

In the past I was virtually one of three major tantra teachers and tantra providers available for hire within the city of Chicago.  I started my career path as a sensual massage therapist in my early twenties and in the past my clients could easily find my nude massage services printed in a free publication known as The Chicago Reader.

The Chicago Reader had a section known as Adult Classifieds and because the newspaper was privately owned the Reader would allow all sex educators, bdsm professionals and sex workers to purchase advertising.

Our advertising fees are what helped keep the Chicago Reader thriving and business was stable and always good for me because all of Chicagoland had easy access to our content and contact information.

Life was so much less complex and convoluted back in the 1980’s and 1990’s because we didn’t rely so heavily on social media platforms to be found online.  Clients could simply pick up a copy of the Chicago Reader and turn to the Adult section to acquire the services of their favorite providers and or new providers to satisfy their needs for adult fun or sensual healing.

At a very young age I was always studying alternative healing techniques and learning more about the chakra bodies and reiki.  I decided that I’d love to try out the sex industry field because it seemed intriguing and a fun way to make money and meet new people.

I had no premeditated thoughts regarding the adult entertainment industry; I simply plunged in by purchasing a pager because we didn’t have cell phones yet and I purchased my first ad with the Reader.

Now the Chicago Reader no longer has an adult section and let’s be honest people now rarely read printed papers anymore because they can just use their cellphones and search for services using a Google search.

Well if you found me here now please have patience with my stream of consciousnessness writing. I promise I’ll always be honest and be as descriptive as possible when you read my blog or read information on my main tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.

Times have most definitely changed and I’ve moved away from Chicago multiple times during my career only to find a huge surge of other tantra professionals have moved here permanently.

Most of the tantra professionals now divide their time between Chicago and their own hometown to keep their work opportunities fluid.  The market for tantra now here is overwhelming and oversaturated and my efforts to be seen here now on the internet have made it necessary for me to continue to be seen here on social media.

My budget is tight these days so I am much more conservative with my spending and I’m not investing in SEO services like my competitors.

My only endeavor is to spread positive energy with people who are seeking authentic traditional tantra ceremonies here in Chicago and all neighborhoods near Chicagoland.

My focus is on alternative healing, Usui Reiki, aromatherapy, tantra yoga, breathing instructions, cuddle therapy, sound healing, hypnosis, deep tissue massage, sensual massage and spa retreats.

Part of the reason I’m writing today is to emphasize to all new clients to formally introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable responding to your questions over the phone.

You need to provide your full legal name to be considered for a future session and I always accept and accommodate same day requests for tantra in Chicago from anyone who introduces themselves to me over the phone and via my contact form or my email address tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

I have so many interesting and informative articles on my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com that you should not have too many questions for me. In the event that you find yourself unsure about which ceremony to choose I suggest we meet in person for a paid coffee consultation so you feel comfortable moving forward.

Just understand that the term tantra yoga itself is esoteric and reading about tantra yoga is not the same as experiencing a tantra massage for yourself in real time. You have to decide for yourself if you’re ready to take the plunge and indulge in a session.  You can spend money on a coffee consultation and at least meet me in person to carefully go over my website with me so I can advise you before you decide to invest on a half day, full day or 90 minute tantra immersion.

The following paragraphs you read are taken directly from my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so you can understand more about my writing style and my tantra offerings. Please take time to read my main website at your leisure and only ask me educated questions if you’re still confused.

In accordance with traditional hindu Yogis and buddhist Tantra practices. The Sanskrit word Anahata literally means unstruck or unbeaten. The sound of this sacred chakra is the sound of serenity and completeness within one’s self and all chaos is destroyed by this powerful sound of self love.
Too many times during the day we can forget how important positive self talk can be after dealing with people we encounter either through our casual encounters or our repetitive dealings with people in our work environment.
Do you ever catch yourself hunching over and caving in your chest after receiving negative feedback from a colleague or after being misjudged by a new person who barely knows you?
It’s impossible for us to avoid pain or hurtful commentary but not impossible for us to have compassion for our mistakes and learn how to correct our self talk and correct our bodily posture so that we can open our heart to receiving love and make ourselves more ready to accept positive feedback.
For instance do you find it difficult to accept compliments? Are you able to smile and warmly receive a genuine hug from a close friend or stranger or do you feel guarded and awkward? I am not asking you to willingly accept all interactions, compliments and random hugs without setting your boundaries. I am simply suggesting that you empower your heart so you can make wiser choices and send loving messages to your own Heart chakra during times of stress.

To read more please log onto my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

If you would like to schedule a session you may call me directly at 312 339 7707.
When you call me introduce yourself to me formally. I do not answer more than fiftern minutes worth of questions unless you introduce yourself to me so I feel comfortable.

If you know you definitely have additional questions that last more than fifteen minutes of my time then commit to a full hour of questions and answers during a paid #coffeeconsultation. Your coffee consultation will allow you to share your goals with me and will also serve as a deposit towards your first tantra ceremony or reiki session.

My blog here serves a purpose.  I want you to have as much information on tantra massage and alternative healing as I can share with you via the written word. I want you to feel comfortable committing to a future session or at least understand that I’m passionate about what I have to offer you.

I don’t like wasting my valuable time with game players who hide their true identity with aliases or blocked and restricted numbers. In order for me to answer your questions you must first gain my trust just as I’ve taken years to upload public information for everyone to read.

I do my best to purposefully create a sense of transparency in all that I do, say and write.  In order for us to have a beautiful session and a strong connection I simply ask you to trust me and meet me in the middle as we co create sacred space together.

 

Here’s to a bright new 2019 ♡

Health goals

Hello everyone who happened to find my blog either out of happenstance or because you followed the link directly from my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com!

If you aren’t familiar with astrology I myself always loved reading up on both Eastern and Western astrology ever since I was a teenager and my enthusiasm for Occult studies, Astrology and the Paranormal never wanes instead just like the waxing of the new Moon my curiosity always grows.

During our new moon last week I made sure I focused on some new goals for myself so I lit a very special manifestation candle because candle magick is especially powerful and magically infused as the moon gains in strength.

I trimmed my wavy hair just a bit at the ends to promote healthier growth and I did some self marketing to increase the potential for new clients discovering my offerings online. I also realized that my physical health should be examined more closely. I tend to love sweets especially good chocolate so I did a bit of personal research and read up on the proper way that fruits should be consumed for optimal health and that fruit consumption should be strictly on an empty stomach!

I read up on how fruits are better absorbed when you eat them raw and always before any other food group never after. In other words fruit should be eaten as a dessert rather fruits should be eaten early in the day prior to any other meals you intend to consume. I’ve naturally followed this new diet regime and I must say not only does my stomach feel better but my skin seems to glow more!

Ginger, turmeric and carrot juice

I have also made more of an effort to drink more raw vegetables so it’s much easier to make sure my new health goals are met painlessly and with very little effect on my part.

Tonight and tomorrow our super moon will be in Virgo which translated into Layman’s terms simply means we’ll be shedding layers and unhealthy, unrealistic expectations of what we should be and just be easier on ourselves.

Part of this super moon energy will be our willingness to part ways with toxix situations and or people interfering in our progress to achieve self awareness and contentment. We will stop comparing ourselves to others and become more self accepting rather than materialistic.

This year is also the year of the Boar in Chinese astrology which to me is wonderful news because I was born during the year of the Goat and Boar, Goat and Rabbit make up a triad of creative, peace loving, and emotionally based signs that go very well together! I am prepared to see beautiful changes unfold for 2019 and I hope all of you reading this message will be more mindful of creating small, positive changes in your life rather than focusing on what you don’t have.

If you focus on tiny projects that you know you can potentially accomplish then the impossible goals that no longer serve you won’t seem that essential to your personal happiness.

Goddess Diana
Www.tantrabutterfly.com
I am always available for sponsorships to your city or you can schedule sacred time for yourself here in Chicago while I’m still here.

Questions & Answers with Goddess Diana

Q: What is Tantra?

A: A complete letting go or dissolving of
Ego. You can let down your facade with me
and be SEEN for who you really are.

I will consciously shift your energies into trance where time no longer exists.
You will be guided and redirected into the present moment.

Tantra transforms your corporeal body into the spiritual realm. Tantra is a balm for your soul, mind, body. Your physical body much like the Tree of Life is a temple of energy, sacred circles of light known as Chakra bodies.

Great focus and dedication to your Sacred body and Chakra bodies will be placed with my intuition and intentions.

Q: How will Tantra Heal me?

Sensual Sacred touch, Usui Reiki, Guided breathing coaching, anti-aging and anti inflammatory, Releasing of toxicity, production of Endorphines, destress, increases self awareness, increases blood flow and core metabolism.

Tantra Yoga can cure depression, stress, negative self programs, obesity and Chronic pain or illness.

Q: Is their Mutual touch?

A: During all my tantra ceremonies there is cuddling and spooning therapy. If you are not quite ready to explore tantra massage you are welcome to schedule me for an hour of energy work, somatic cuddling and breathing.

During my Goddess Worship ceremonies there will be guided instructions on mutual and Sacred, respectful and hesling touch. You may learn how to give a tantra massage to your partner and work with transforming touch with healing intentions.

My Question for you is when is it the best time for you to explore your Sacred Sexuality?

And my answer to you is when you feel comfortable having a real time conversation with me on the phone and when you are free of shyness and mental blocks.

You see…Tantra is not a Crutch or a Miracle Cure. You need to be prepared to share your goals with me and be reasonable about your expectations of our shared time together. One session may truly be all you need to motivate yourself on your journey towards self discovery but you may also benefit from occasional follow up sessions if you have longterm goals.

When you finally do reach out to me be prepared to give me a brief paragraph of what you are seeking and your real legal name. Introduce yourself to me …don’t hide behind an alias just be forthright about who you are and what you are truly seeking because if i feel i can’t be of help to you i will be honest with you and not waste your time or money. You don’t have to give me your full life story as I am not a psychologist but you can be honest about who you are and what your boundaries are prior to your first session with me.

My goal is to enable you to empower yourself and feel that creative spark come back to your body. You will need to be prepared emotionally to have a live connection and conversation with me on the phone or this won’t work for you. I do not want to communicate with you past one or two emails or text messages. You are either emotionally ready to openly communicate initially or we won’t connect well during our first session together.

I hope I have answered some key questions and if you wish to begin your journey now here is a link to my main tantra website

Www.tantrabutterfly.com
Goddess Diana
312 339 7707

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

Tantra massage healing benefits 🎈 For men & women 🎈

Hello beautiful and attentive beings who follow my playful and informative blog! I decided to share with you the fact that tantra has nothing to do with sexual gratification rather it’s about using your sexual energy as medicine!  When you actively concentrate on sending your sexual energy everywhere rather than locally you empower and awaken all dormant erogenous zones not excluding any areas of pain trapped in your physical body.

 

If you decide to try a tantra session here with me in Chicago I’d be delighted to help you achieve a state of complete lightness of being where you literally feel weightlessness and a complete detachment from the heaviness of your physical body.

The main focus of a tantra healing is to empower you to transcend the confines of raw carnal energies that carry a lower baser vibration keeping you trapped in a cycle of sexual craving.  Our main goal is to give you tools so when you are with your loved one you are not merely focusing on what you can feverishly take but rather you create a mutual flow of bonding equally with one another’s rhythms so there is balance rather than a seize and conquer lower energy vibration.

When we are in session together you do nothave to prove anything to me or prove anything to yourself. During your tantra exploration you learn to part ways with all things heavy and unsatisfying!  In fact I’m going to teach you the art of complete detachment and the bliss of being here with me in the moment without feeling as if you are connected to the passage of time.

Our tantra ritual will begin with communication and you are not being judged nor is your performance being measured.  Tantra is not about having an earthquake orgasm nor are you defective for suffering from erectile dysfunction or lack of sensitivity if you are a woman who has never even experienced full body orgasm.

Tantra increases your sensory perception and enhances your intuition and your awareness of your light bodies such as your chakra system and your aura.  Tantra engages diaphragm breathing and ocean breath.  Your breath will be much deeper and slower altering your brain waves and opening up blockages in your third eye enhancing your ability to feel and Intuit what others are feeling and thinking.

What kind of touch will you hope to expect?  Do you want to feel the intense power of lightly caressing strokes as i barely graze over your skin and body hairs!?  That’s all it takes to get you out of your mind and into the celestial soup…a realm of creative life force that is limitless.

Tantra will increase your metabolism so the main sign of a successful tantra massage session is a feeling of peacefulness and an opening of your appetite.  Don’t fight that urge…eat and enjoy your food because your senses have been fully activated and awakened so you will feel greater bodily pleasure after our session is over.

Tantra heals your heart and satiates that skin hunger you feel when you are starved for touch.  Don’t punish yourself when you’re in between relationships.  Focus on sending yourself a lot of self love, eat to  bolster your energy level, exercise and include tantra massage as a bi monthly or monthly balm to soothe heartache because you still have needs and this is not a time to abstain or self inflict punishment on yourself.

Tantra massage reduces your stress level naturally lowering your blood pressure as we breathe together in unison.  Your cortisol levels drop and your heart rate is much slower as i teach you ocean breath and rebirthing breath.  Breathing is the key ingredient we both partake of together as we circulate positive, loving energy back and forth between our major energy centers.

I hope I’ve inspired all of you to read more on tantra yoga because standing all on it’s own the practice of tantra keeps you light filled and positive about your body and you will appreciate touch for the sake of touching not because you expect an end result for yourself or your partner!

Do you wish to learn more?  Please read my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com !  My site is constantly evolving and there are so many wonderful options if you decide to go forward with your first tantra session here in Chicago.

I do accept sponsorships so let’s brainstorm together and set a few uncommon goals because you are unique and you may need a slight different approach  than the person sitting beside you at work or in any social setting.  You have your own story to share and tantra may affect you differently than another person who might be an advanced Yogi or energy worker.

I can be found on Facebook so feel free to like my three public pages tantra butterfly, goddess Diana and camouflage butterfly.  I have another online blog  here… http://www.Tantrabutterfly.blogspot.com 🎈

Support me by referring me to anyone you think will be a good energy match for my website because we all attract what we are in the present moment and a lot of the people i met were a product of pure kismet and soul connections.

Spread the positive healing aspects of tantra yoga everywhere you go and to anyone who is experiencing challenges or full body kundalini awakenings!

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Sensual muse, reiki master, adept, massage therapist and couples tantra coach

312-339-7707

Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

Another wonderful thing about Tantra!  You don’t have to prove your worth to me because i accept you at face value.  I am not ashamed of the work i do or the path i represent and so for these reasons i always use my real legal name so please expect me to ask the same of you!  There is no stigma for wanting to reclaim your sexual energy and power back.  You will not be judged by your lack of knowledge but if will want you to share details of your past history so we both are on equal grounds.  Im have to be your friend, healer and teacher and i will honor your boundaries just as you will honor mine as we co create sacred space.

What does the title “goddess” trigger in you?

Recently I received a set of questions from an adult sexuality blogger in Australia.  I was given a series of thought provoking questions as part of her interview process to help her readers better understand what tantra yoga is and the ultimate health benefits of a tantra massage.

First let me explain what Tantra can do for your emotional and physical well being.   Our goal (our mutual goal) is to exchange mutually loving, healing, soothing, non judging energies between both of us.  If you decide to try my goddess worship session because you wish to master healing a woman with unconditional love then you have elected to learn how to process energy, breathe properly while healing the goddess, and touch with only loving intentions.  You are not touching for your personal sexual pleasures or self gratification; you are learning to heal and empower a woman’s chakra system and yoni so she can feel love surging through her from your sacred, healing touches.

I serve as a physical model teaching you about my sacred body and my boundaries so that when you leave our space of learning you feel confident and you have the healing tools and techniques and knowledge to share more loving touch with your partner.   I would always encourage a session of at least two to three hours in length so that you have enough time to ask me questions and learn the subtle nuances of carressive, unhurried strokes.

Men in general have a very powerful approach to sexual energies and women are very yin in nature tending to withdraw more and being more inwardly focused.  Men and women react differently to touch and this my goddess worship sessions have !ore to do with goddess honoring rather than goddess domination.

I am not a dominatrix by trade and my intention is to help all men learn about safe boundaries using sexual energy as a healing medicine rather than a weapon.  When I use the phrase or term goddess I am implying that I am using my natural abilities as a healer and as a shaman to help you understand energy work better and I will be your guide always infusing you with hopefully essential, laughter and positivity while we together co create a cocoon of sacred space.

A Goddess 🌹 is a giver of life forces.  She renews your energies and helps take you on a sacred and meaningful journey reuniting you with pieces and fragmented parts of your lost selves.  She invites and invokes more creativity in your approach to the mundane.  Who needs average when you can have Access to hidden parts of your intuition you may forgotten to use.  Goddesses are mythological beings with supernatural powers but really we all have supernatural powers as we learn to be limitless and learn the art of being present for ourselves and in the moment.

The universe has a sacred rhythm and the goddess has her seasons of renewal, death and ultimate rejuvenation.  Our bodies go through cell death and cellular rejuvenation daily and we wake up completely different from who we were yesterday.  Nothing remains in stasis forever as we react differently depending upon how threatening or welcoming our environment is at the present time.

A goddess is a mother of unconditional love who reminds you of your worth and your potential.  Goddesses heal and help you recapture your innocence and your innate sense of play which is the building block of trust, creativity and every new endeavor.  A Goddess helps you shed your layers so you are free to be your authentic self.  🎈

When you contract my time you are allowing yourself space to replant new seeds and new sides of yourself.  I give you the opportunity to regain your magic, your trust and your natural ability to be in bliss.

Now that I am here in Chicago I invite you to play with me and heal your shadows.  We all have darkness and light within us and we are all powerful healers with unlimited potential.  My work and commitment as a Goddess is to show you how limitless you truly are!

Please enjoy my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and once you’re there take the time to read my articles, testimonials, services section and chakra page.  My site is always a work in progress and so are you and so am I!  I learn from my students and there is always room for growth and new experiences to savor.  You are welcome to call me directly at 312-339-7707 with additional questions or contact me by email at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.

My goals are to bring you to a state of complete trust, ecstacy and a feeling of weightlessness.  Tantra brings you so much bliss your cup is full especially with all the concentrated touch and warming energies that will be graciously and generously explored between us.

 

 

Chicago Tantra Massage presented authentically by Goddess Diana

I decided to lift the veil and the mystery for many people who have never trusted anyone with an introduction to sacred sexual energy. First of all if you skip out on the essential ingredients that preclude any traditional tantra session you are not going to be able to attain sexual bliss the way it was meant to be tasted–which is in small bites. If you just want an hour of tantra just understand it will be more likened to a sensual rub down rather than a journey protracted in time.
Tantra massage involved discipline, withholding your baser, sexual instincts, connecting to your body and your partner and most importantly suspending and protracting time by using breath properly.
If you are short on time or money 90 minutes is a great opening in tantra sensory exploration but two hours or longer is what most people need just to begin understanding how energy works.
I always suggest newcomers to tantra find a good tantra partner they trust and then to visit someone on a regular basis at least once a month or once every six weeks. You need to also read books, buy videos, attend workshops in Tantra yoga in Chicago, and practice a little bit on your own every day so you can see slow improvements in your overall energy and your intuition.
Every single chakra in your body is awakened and healed during all tantra sessions with me so even if an hour is all you can commit to it’s still progress but longer sessions are recommended for beginning students who need to learn how to breathe and how to give and receive energy exchanges.
If you have time for a half day or a full day of tantra we can spend time in the water for a full hour or longer where I will support your body weight and let you float and drift off. You will achieve weightlessness as I sing and tune your chakras but more importantly you will feel safe, confident and loved. I will assist you with the breath work as I train you to breathe into different chakra bodies just by using stillness , focus and intention. You feel calmer and more present. Some people find this exercise challenging especially if you are always one who plans ahead but if you can let go for a few hours with me your body will be able to release stress and you will feel more refreshed and clear headed.
I read so many articles from adult message boards on the internet and the comments I read are borderline anger to completely false and untrue. Many adult hobbyists are not really seeking tantra because they are too impatient and want a quick fix or cure all. They might tend to have false expectations on What Tantra is because they visited a high class call girl who advertises under a Tantra category. The client will leave pleased or very unhappy and might review her in such glowing terms to suggest how great she is because she “skips to the good stuff first and won’t waste your time with spiritual mumbo jumbo.” But what if the client was short changed and deceived by a woman who had no formal training in tantra yoga in Chicago or certified training in tantra in other major cities? What if the client never gets to experience the nirvana they could have attained had they simply decided to do their homework and connect with a certified tantra educator who actually cared enough to teach proper breathing and pc muscle exercises?
If you can devote a half day or full day with me I promise we will have more than enough time for you to understand the basics of tantra and how to enhance and improve your body’s ability to retain sexual stamina and use it as medicine for your soul and your body’s physical health.
We will have time for questions and answers, bathing and cleansing of your chakras; and I can work with your goals during a mutual exchange of touch, sensory awareness and stillness.
Please do not cheat yourself by skipping out on breath and edge play. I can assure you all your goals will be met during a full two hours of tantra or longer and if you purchase reading material and practice a bit every day you will be amazed at your transformation.
Please visit my facebook page Tantra Butterfly and feel free to send me a linkedin invitation once you scroll to the bottom of my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.
I have been practicing alternative healing and sensual massage for twenty years and I am well reviewed in Chicago, New Orleans, Washington D.C.. Virginia and Atlanta. I welcome your call if you wish to explore tantra on your own or as a couple (312) 339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Muse
Massage Therapist
Aromatherapist
Alternative Healer

Tantra Etiquette before contacting your Muse Goddess Diana

amy-winehouse-black-and-whiteHello everyone! I am here to share a new page I have uploaded to my main website which is http://www.tantrabutterfly.com. I am human just like you! I have good days and foul days. I speak to many people on a daily basis and most people don’t have a clue what I am offering because they think I am a “madam” with “girls” working for me or they looked at my photo galleries and they are assuming I am offering much more than tantra massage. I am assuming most of these people are finding my main google page but they never bothered to read my main website at all.

I even speak to a great deal of Indiam men from India who seem super excited that I am offering traditional tantra yoga massage but then after I spend a good thirty minutes speaking to them on the phone they bombard me with extra GFE requests asking me for the same price will I spend the night?! So tell me how would you feel after speaking to a majority of men or women who have not read your site and after explaining repeatedly what you do and don’t offer and the still expect much more than tantra massage?

For anyone that is deeply confused with what I am offering I am sharing all my information here on etiquette so there is no more confusion again.

Etiquette for the Optimal Tantra Experience

Dear potential new Guest, due to the large numbers of calls I receive, I felt it necessary to include this index page to help you understand how to make a good connection with me initially.

I do know how “awkward” it can be to reach out to a complete stranger you find on the internet. New guests might be fearful or have misconceptions about the nature or definition of Tantra. After reading the contents of my site you may still be confused about what i am offering or you might be genuinely shy. You are welcome to engage in a thirty minute question and answer over the phone with me but I will charge you a fee for my time.

My site is extremely informative in fact the testimonials section will give you a very graphic idea of what I can offer you. If however you are still in doubt you are encouraged to arrange a private and in depth phone conversation with me for the fee of $50 for a full thirty minutes. I am happy to answer your questions but I will not spend my time with anyone explaining in a graphic nature what we will be doing on the phone for FREE. My website is very detailed and I am happy to hear from you only if you are prepared to hire me for your first tantra session or only if you are prepared for the simple verification process before I receive you as a new guest.

All new Guests are expected to provide me with a real legal name, age range and occupation. I am not comfortable working with anyone who provides me with an “alias”. All your information will be kept private and I will never share your personal information with anyone but I do need to know who you are before we meet in person. If you have met with me before in the past feel free to remind me of who you are again and if you send me a photograph that will definitely jar my memory. I want this process to be seamless, and your cooperation and willingness to share yourself with me will make me feel more comfortable about seeing you either for the first time or for a repeat session.

I am always polite and I work best with people who respect me as a good friend or confidante. If I feel a lack of concern or brusk tone in your voice, I might not wish to see you, especially if you are awkward and nervous on the phone when you communicate with me. I suggest you be yourself and help me understand what your goals are for our shared time together even if your only goal is relaxation therapy. Introduce yourself to me and If we have a bad connection on the phone where we are both in an area of bad reception please do not be aggravated with me or frustrated if I ask you to repeat yourself twice. I know cell phones are not perfect and I’d love to be able to see you and answer your “brief” concerns over the phone. If you honestly think you have too many questions for me then be honest with yourself and hire me for a thirty minute conversation before you commit to seeing me for the first time.

I would prefer several hours notice if you would like a late evening session with me. I try and keep myself available for scheduling sessions between the hours of 10am till midnight but this does not mean I want to accept your call at 10 pm or later. If you are seeking an evening session please call me between the hours of 10 am till 9pm. Do not assume I am available at YOUR beck and call. You may come across one of my ads online late at night at the very last minute impulsively but I may not be able to receive you on your “whim”. Treat me like a professional and give me a few hours notice if you want a late evening session. I can work with your late schedule but I need to be prepared to receive you for a late night session. If you know you need a session with me early in the morning then please call me the day before so I am ready for you before my normal business hours.

I have the right to refuse any caller who I do not feel a good connection with. If you seem brusk, inebriated, irritated, or otherwise rude I may not wish to see you. I am always willing to work with your schedule as long as you give me adequate notice. If this is your very first time calling me and I do not know you personally I will not answer your text messages or answer your questions by text ever. Text messages are reserved for clients who I already recognize as being part of my contacts list of known guests. I will delete all your text messages to me unless I already know you and unless you introduce yourself to me so I know who you are. Text messages do not take the place of a good email or a good phone conversation. Please only contact me by email at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com and call me directly on my cell phone at 312-339-7707 when you are ready to schedule your session with me.

If you are a couple seeking Couples Tantra, contact me by email first and give me as much information about the two of you as you possibly can. Tell me what your goals are and let me know what days and times suit your schedules. I require a small deposit for all new couples who are visiting me — no exceptions. I need at least a full 24 hours notice for all couples Tantra sessions and need both of you to be prepared to commit to a full three hour session or longer. Do not expect me to shorten your first session with me but if you have seen me at least once before we can condense our second session to a full 2 hours.

Gender and Races

I cordially welcome all gender fluid people to my Tantra Services whether you are a same sex couple or you identify as both masculine or feminine or in transition. All races are accepted to receive my services the only requirement I have is that I feel safe so all new guests or old guests may verify who they are using their real legal name and treat me with the kindness and respect that I will give to you whether you call me directly over the phone or decide to email. If I have seen you before I again must remind you I would love it if you would email me your photograph and legal name and occupation so I can remember you as our safety and discretion will always be foremost in my mind. My only requirement is that you are polite and courteous to me on the phone or by email during our initial contact. The only people I refuse to see are individuals I can not even carry out a good conversation with. All polite, educated, caring and thoughtful beings of any race or gender is always welcomed to try one of my Tantra Ceremonies.

I would also like to include boundaries as a subject matter of importance for both you and me. Tantra is about establishing healthy, positive boundaries and being able to communicate your goals and boundaries in a healthy, positive and loving way. I never want you to feel violated in any way during our shared time together. If you have never met me before you are welcome to send me an email with a list of your goals and healthy boundaries. Let me know what you feel safe exploring and please let me know what your limits are. If you were violated, raped or molested please let me know this important information. The very last thing I wish to do is make you feel unsafe or frightened. Tell me what your limitations are and let me know again when you meet me for the first time in person.

I myself have boundaries that I will share with you now. I am not an Escort service but I do consider myself to be a Muse and a companion. I do not feel comfortable being expected to engage in sexual intercourse with any of my clients. I am an educator, a friend, a professional tantra massage therapist and a Reiki master but I do not wish to engage in intercourse during my tantra ceremonies under any circumstance. When you agree to hire me for the first or second or fifth time you are contracting my healing services solely for your pleasure or education but not as your Sacred Prostitute. Do not expect me to bend these rules for you. I also do not feel comfortable working with you if you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol. If you are inebriated chances are you won’t remember much about our session and it will be a complete waste of your money. Treat me with respect and make sure to give me adequate notice if you want to see me. If you are too drunk for the session I may decide not to work with you at all until you are sober at a future date and time. Our shared ceremony is sacred and I myself will be prepared to be clear headed and lively enough to give you the attention you deserve so I expect the same etiquette from you.

If you are seeking a half day or full day of Tantra with me please give me a full 24 hours notice so I can prepare a very elegant ceremony you will find memorable. I require a small deposit for half day and full day Tantra ceremonies and if you have a true emergency please give me as much notice as you can and your deposit will be used for a future session. I do understand that sometimes medical or family emergencies can prevent you from seeing me so you are welcome to rebook for a future session without any drama. If however it is your first time seeing me and you cancel an hour before our session you will be expected to pay for a future session in FULL before we establish trust.

Overnight Stays are Possible for night owls like you and me:

I am always available to help you achieve a well thought out Tantra Escape and my fees for an overnight stay are 1600 which covers an exclusive overnight stay package with foods you wish for me to stock up on ahead of time and a very posh setting for our overnight Tantra Ceremony. My rate for this overnight stay is not up for negotiation under any conditions and you will be able to modify the time we begin our session if there is a delay in your schedule. A deposit for an overnight stay is required before our evening together and you are welcome to pay me the remainder once you arrive. My rates reflect the time, energy, and creativity I put forth to make our overnight stay a memorable one so please do not ask me graphic or explicit questions via text, phone or email or I will not be able to accept you as a new Guest.

POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS and PRAISE for the Goddess

If you have enjoyed our shared time together please provide me with a paragraph or two in a private email to me at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com You can provide me with an alias you wish for me to use and naturally I will keep your legal name a mystery as I will never betray your confidence ever on my public website. I can always use wonderful new reviews and testimonials on my testimonials section and I will only use the name you have provided at the end of your review. If you feel moved I would especially love it if you referred me to your close personal friends or business coworkers and you are welcome to write me a review on TER or any review board. If you were not especially pleased with our time together I would prefer if you would share that feedback with me in private by email so that I can improve my performance and see what I am doing wrong but please refrain from airing your grievances in a public forum I’d rather receive these messages from you in private just like I would never place your real name in a public setting If I were unhappy with an event.

GIFTING MAKES ME FEEL APPRECIATED AND LOVED

I never expect gifts from you but in the event you wish to surprise me with something special and it’s a gift from your heart I would love to list my favorite items to receive:

Gift Certificates: Free People, Verizon Wireless, Sephora, AMC movie theaters, Top Shop, and Agent Provacateur a lingerie boutique in Chicago and New York.

Scent: I love organic essential oils so you may indulge me with pure essential Vanilla oils, Lavender oil, Bergamot oil, chocolate oil or pure organic coffee essential oils.

Computer: I am in dire need of a new laptop as my apple computer here is out of date and I would love to add new features which I can not do with my current laptop from 2008 🙂

Edibles and Perishables I love a good dessert wine such as Moscato or Sauterne. My favorite chocolates are from Leonidas, Teuscher and La Maison du Chocolat. My most favorite flowers to receive are roses or any purple flower you can find such as a french tulip

I hope all your questions have been answered after reading these brief paragraphs. I enjoy meeting new guests and I love it when I hear from old clients from my past. I want you to feel completely safe and loved during all of our shared ceremonies and I truly want to keep our phone interactions just as positive, professional and loving.

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Namaste, Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and http://www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com

Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator A Specialist in Unconditional Love* Journey with me Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707

Phone: 312.339.7707 (mobile)

Tantra Massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana to help Activate your bliss hormone!

diana-halloween-cat-pantiesHappy Holidays and I do hope everyone here had a busy and uplifting Thanksgiving. I spent most of the time enjoying it with my two loving pets, creating Sacred Space for a few special people and just enjoying everything Chicago has to offer like the International Film festival and some great art.
I am available for couples sessions, full day tantra retreats for singles and private workshops for your tiny group of friends. If you have been seeking healing touch in Chicago my focus is essential oil blends to enhance relaxation, reflexology upon request, Tantra Massage and deep tissue sports massage to get you feeling better about life.

My sessions are always uniquely yours meaning I tune into your body and we co create a special session or it can be more structured if you want to learn more about how your chakras work and I can help you open each chakra with focus, breathwork, meditation and concentrated touch if you feel like one of your energy centers is stuck.

Tantra is a fully integrated journey of all your senses and helps your body produce healthy levels of oxytocin which is a hormone your pituitary gland releases giving you a feeling of love and connection after receiving gentle sensuous touch. It is a love hormone activated after cuddling, and intimate touch.

Oxytocin is an anti anxiety effect upon our body and mind helping you increase your openness for romantic union and allowing you to become more intuitively aware of your needs and your partner’s needs. In other words your awareness and empathy will increase and you will be more willing to open up to touch so if you have been partnerless for an extended amount of time Tantra will open up your blocked pathways of bliss and help you reconnect to your sensual feelings.

Oxytocin also protects your intestinal lining from damage and with continued sessions in Tantra you will notice a huge improvement in your third chakra which rules your digestive tract. If you suffer from stomach pain for instance and your are not receiving enough positive and healing touch Tantra Massage will increase your doses of Oxytocin and help heal your gut lining so the mental and physical affects work together to help promote wellness and self healing in your emotional and physical body.

Visit my website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a list of complete services I have to offer. I have a very flexible schedule and we can prepare a full day, half day of self healing or a couple of hours together to help you feel more loved and aligned for the Holidays!

On a bright note I always offer sliding fees for serious students of tantra and for longer increments of time. I want everyone to be able to afford this treat!

Goddess Diana
Sensual Muse
Chakra Activator
Couples Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Coach

Cellular number 312-339-7707

Come explore a Full Day Tantra Retreat with Goddess Diana in Chicago this summer!

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Are you planning something special this summer with your lover? Do you wish to spend several hours escaping your normal reality and immersing yourself in alternative healing?
I invite you to explore your sensual side this summer in Chicago as a couple or completely by yourself. I provide a safe, comforting environment where you can let your guard down and learn the basics of chakra balancing, tantra massage and couples tantra here in Chicago.

Many people this past summer have opted to choose learning tantra in longer increments of time and they are seeing immediate results that last for days and weeks. I can offer you a half day journey of tantra massage in Chicago where we will learn proper breath control and some rudimentary chanting of the bija mantras. I playfully teach you how to open up your chakra bodies using chants that activate you so you can feel empowered throughout our Tantra Ceremony here in the city of Chicago.

A small intro to the bija mantras will be explored and you will sing with me simple one-syllable sounds called seed sounds that help you feel tingling during our ceremony. In order for me to help you arouse your erogenous zones we make use of these simple seed sounds which tunes and tones your body with resonance bringing you fully back into your physical body. The purpose of our chakra chants is to keep you here in the moment with me and hopefully make you strum with energy and maybe giggle a little too. Our goal is to keep you in a trance form of mind and bring you into states of greater psychic awareness. The end result of our shared singing of these seed sounds is laughter, a tingling sensation and a state of satiation and mindfulness.

A Mantra is a string of sounds or words that create a sense of transcendence. You will transform your body through sound healing and each muscle and cell of your body will be elevated and uplifted as we explore the seed sounds together. There will be moments as I touch you that I will encourage you to take slow, deep, soothing breaths into all of your chakra bodies and then as you exhale you will utter a sound or a bija mantra. Each chakra or vortex of energy will open with a corresponding seed sound so as we sing together you will feel heat and a great surge of energy connecting from your toes to the top of your skull or crown chakra. There will be times I will just allow you to relax completely and I will bathe your body with these healing sounds. Most people feel a genuine vibration or “echo” resonating in their physical body while I perform these sounds. I will have you relax and breathe deeply into your chakra system while I chant the seed sounds LAM, VAM, RAM, YAM, HAM, OM, OM repetitively into your energetic bodies. Eventually you will have enough stamina to recite all six of these sounds all in one long breath with enough practice and patience.

During my full day retreats we will meet at a spa space in Chicago where we can take time to connect, help you meet your goals and fully digest all the energy centers that help enable you to feel more connected to your own power source. I will teach you reiki, tantra massage, tantra yoga, kundalini yoga and I will infuse our session with pure organic essential oils and trigger point massage. Each step of activation leads to a greater understanding of this organic process of Tantra bliss. You will even have a chance to learn about activating the female body as I teach you the subtleties of yoni healing during my longer sessions.

Join me this summer in Chicago for single day retreats, weekend retreats, couples Tantra massage, Yoni empowerment, Reiki and Sensual exploration. You can read my testimonials here on my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com by clicking onto my testimonials index page.

I hope to hear from you soon! Help me plan a special day or weekend for you as a couple or just as a decadent and healing escape for yourself!

Goddess Diana
(312) 339-7707

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An open letter to the free speach coalition regarding violations by eros guide

Dear Audience I am sharing a private letter I have just finished sending to the Coaltion of Free speech. I believe it is hypocritical and ironic that within the past five years eros guide has been involved in eradicating certain harmless words used by their advertisers such as the words “child” edge play eros and many other coin phrases that are no longer permisable via the written word.
The eros guide (erosguide.com) is now taking ludicrous measures that violate civil liberties and create drama for their paid advertisers. Under this new “tyranny” a supervisor can now pick through your account deleting key phrases and whole sentences and paragraphs of written advertising text from Paid advertisers or they can deconstruct and take words out of context to contort your original meaning without any care or concern of your intended meaning. You will not be given a chance to correct certain words or phrases if you they decide to pick on you.
Once your ad is picked apart and you are given a call or email you will have to redo your text then risk their punishment which is simply being deactivated and banned from further advertisement permanently.
OUR civil liberties and right to free speech is now being threatened by eros guide team members who proudly boast of being members and supporters of the coalition of free speech.
Your phone conversations are recorded by the eros guide team who will judge you by your words and opinions and concerns after they ask you for your input. I myself was victimized by key members of the eros guide staff and my words were taken out of context and distorted. I was then banned for sharing my concerns and valid feedback. I don’t consider the eros guide to be a supporter of free speech I consider the eros guide (erosguide.com) to be deeply confused about what they wish to convey and in deep fear of freedom of speech.
Here is my open letter to the COALITION OF FREE SPEECH:

Dear Free speech Coalition,
I was a former advertiser banned from the eros guide for using certain Key words in the body of my text that they deemed inappropriate. I own a blog of my own GoddessDianaTantrabutterfly.com and my own private tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com so I am very concerned that the eros guide boasts on its website that they are “proud” members of the free speech Coalition when they have been banning long standing and loyal advertisers for small words that are used out of context.
I was cajoled and harassed this past year every 3 to 4 weeks by supervisory staff that work for the eros guide. I was told not use the term “play with your inner child” so I changed that phrase to “play with your inner psyche”. I was told that I could use the term Yoni worship then six weeks later Lisa from the eros guide called me and pleaded with me not to use Yoni worship so she allowed me to use the word YONI training which is beyond ridiculous.
I was told I could no longer use the phrase “edge play” even though other tantra women in my industry were allowed to use much worse and edge play was used frequently.
I was warned that because I used the word multiple waves of bliss I would have my account deactivated and banned. I was warned never to use the term “eros” because eros guide holds all the legal rights to the word eros no matter how you phrase it.
They banned me after I expressed my worries and the next day Tim from the legal department called me and said based on the tape recorded message that was taped live during Lisa’s phone conversation with me I was deactivated. I lost all my lovely text as they did not send me a copy they simply destroyed all the lovely paragraphs of live text I had without having any consideration about my rights of speech. I was not given a copy of my text or my legal disclaimer or my pictures. They destroyed all traces of me and my prior existence banishing me without fairness or warning or respect for my rights.
I would love to speak with you about the violation of my freedom of speech and written words. I feel that you should not keep the eros guide on your membership list as a result of their misconduct and violation of civil liberties.

Yours Diana GrossmanDream-the-company-of-wolves-29634391-1280-716