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Goddess Diana offering Tantra in North Carolina ❤♥

I will be arriving in Asheville, North Carolina tomorrow for a brief visit. I am hoping to meet new Guests curious about my unique approach to tantra healing. I never follow a “written program” during any of my tantra ceremonies but there is always a “loose skeleton” approach when I work with YOUR unique energies and needs.
Every goddess in my field no matter what lineage she follows will always present tantra yoga and tantra massage with her unique signature.
I have been taking road trips for a full year but there is a common thread I love to weave when meeting with new guests. I love to Co create sacred space with mutual respect and a profound sense of playfulness and intimate conversation.
I have never traveled to Asheville, North Carolina before but I am excited about the prospect of being able to perform sacred ceremonies in Asheville and using Tantra as a base for my more subtle notes.
I am a lover of aromatherapy because scent plays a definitive role in the activation of just one of six senses. I believe in sound healing, reiki activation and sensory stimulation while we engage in Sacred Space. I encourage new students to ask me as many questions as we go along to understand the process.
When we use tantra practices we create an intention and we make a mutual agreement to never cross our boundaries. Creating safe boundaries allows us to feel unconditional love in a safe space. You can be yourself with me and know that I will honor your boundaries as we conmingle and circulate energy back and forth.
You are welcome to gaze deeply into my eyes or quietly look inwards. You can learn about Goddess Worship and Yoni empowerment and Yoni Healing during my trip as a visiting Goddess in Asheville, North Carolina.
I invite couples and singles to journey with me and learn every aspect of Tantra whether you wish to “dabble” in sacred space or create a time out of body experience where you are not consciously aware of the clock.
If you have the spare time to indulge we can share tantra energies and chakra balancing in Asheville, North Carolina and perhaps take a city tour escaping into the surroundings and learning more about grounding using nature as our healing element.
Please feel free to connect with me in person over the phone (312)-339-7707
and enjoy my site http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
I hope to enjoy all that Asheville, North Carolina has to offer and meet new students and guest of all things tantric! ♥❤diana-4

Please don’t judge me based on my career Path!

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I wanted to share this with everyone here today! Sadly the work I do is not always revered or regarded with respect by a majority of people who reside here in the United States or other countries for that matter.
Just two days ago I was victimized on Craigslist because I responded to an ad from a man seeking a “gal friday” in exchange for reduced or no rent and a potential to earn extra money on the side.

I was toying with the idea of spending a month in Miami beach soon and I was hoping to find a nice live in situation where I could work and trade my skills which includes writing and cooking for a place to live.

I innocently responded using my email address butterflyshadows@aol.com and I asked how I could be of use to this man so I could share a space in exchange for work. This man without even responding to my email somehow linked me to my tantra website and started sending me text messages to my cell phone accusing me of being an “unwelcome pet” and he was going to monitor my account and my IP address as a violation of conduct.

So why am I the victim of harassment? Why did he decide that I am unworthy and I am a horrible human being because I teach tantra yoga and because I work with sacred sensuality? Am I committing a crime for wanting to help people and restore balance in someone’s life? Am I a horrible human being because I wanted to offer my skills or my ability to cook and clean and organize someone’s office space?

Instead of people judging first I wonder why people can’t be more civilized and humane and simply call directly on the phone rather than project their fear and their previous bad experiences or “wrongs” onto others. I feel this man had the need to misjudge and victimize me and report my account because he was taken advantage of by someone from his past and he felt the need to judge me and lash out on me because he sent me three angry text messages and said my account was going to be reported and monitored simply because I wanted to have reduced rent and respond to his ad using my real email address.

We have such a long long way to go before sex workers and healers are considered as equal as any other professional in this country. I don’t feel ashamed of who I am or what I represent I just wonder why there is so much ignorance and anger sent towards people in my field.
There seems to be so much misdirected angst and anger and so much healing that needs to be done on our inner psyche.

Why should we project a sense of anger or unworthiness unto anyone without first getting to know that person first? Shouldn’t we be judged by our actions and our conduct first?

Kundalini Awakening is different for everyone but always uniquely yours to experience

What is kundalini Energy? Unless you have had a lucid dream or unless you have awakened in the middle of the night with an out of body experience it’s hard to understand exactly what a kundalini activation feels like.

I have had several kundalini experiences and MOST of them were non sensual in nature. I do have good memories of a rather soothing kundalini activation right after I received a good sports massage that was not sensual at all but rather healing. After my therapist left the room I received warm, soothing vibrations of gentle electricity along each of my vertabrae. I was unable to move my limbs or even open my eyes. I heard a gentle humming vibration buzzing and sounds in the room became muffled. I was a bit scared but realized it was me. My own energy was surging and I just had to go with it and relax without being scared and without judging. I must admit it is a bit scary when you feel your limbs are going numb or tingling but if you simply allow the energy to flow it can be revitalizing, uplifting or emotional. You might find yourself especially raw or over emotional for a day or two afterwards so I am not saying it’s fuzzy and cotton candy enjoyable. Sometimes a kundalini awakening is raw and jagged and jarring. You feel like you are becoming more irritable but if you see it as a process or a building block towards enlightenment then it is a trip worth taking and it is completely organic in nature.

During tantra we breathe a lot together. In fact during a session I will often take a moment to breathe deeply into my heart so I can activate my heart more fully and give more of my heart energy to my guest. I will encourage my guest to breathe fully so that energy is not just trapped in one chakra or space but circulates everywhere.

Last night I felt a more intimidating activation that was more forceful in nature. I was awakened from a lucid dream to a “back massage” and my spinal column felt as if there was a hand held back massage machine going over each area of my spinal column. By the time the vibration hit between my shoulder blades I even felt my heart palpitating! Obviously the kundalini energy I was storing these past few months was released and the energy was deeply felt by me to the point where my own heart chakra was being awakened and healed.

If you think Tantra massage and Tantra yoga is for “entertainment” purposes only then think twice. If you think you are ready to be awakened and make progressive baby steps towards becoming more spiritually and physically alive and awakened then tantra is a viable tool that will allow you to let go of what you don’t need. You will find that your priorities are changing and you will find yourself being more open to engaging in new activities and new routines or people and places.

Because kundalini energies can express themselves differently depending upon your energy level and where you are right now you can expect that your own sensitivities will be much different from mine because you are unique and my journey is not yours. I can only promise you that you will eventually be able to have a “safe” kundalini activation when the time is right for you for you to receive YOUR OWN unique ENERGIES.

If you feel ready to begin your first tantra healing with me I can be reached at (312) 339-7707. I strongly advise you to combine tantra massage, tantra kundalini yoga, white tantra and reiki together so that you feel more benefits. You will potentially become more open minded and less fearful of trying new ways of being and existing. You will definitely become more aware of your body and potentially become more in tune or psychic. I am open to working with you in tiny baby steps or you can explore a full day of tantra with me and learn all the basics in one day.

Sensual Muse Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.comAlexander Veronkov swan girl

The true intention of tantra massage is Not about achieving orgasm; it is about activating your ability to feel pleasure!

Everyone wants to know what it feels like to achieve a full body orgasm but few people understand that the true intention of tantra massage is to attain greater body awareness, mindfulness and a better connection to your own body. How do we learn to let go of our expectations? We learn to let go of our goals by simply focusing on our body. If you can be still and relax in the moment during a tantra healing or a tantra massage your body will feel “safe” and you are then giving your body permission to do what it needs to do to let go and feel blissful.
Bliss can either be attained through a yoga class, meditation, tantra massage or any pleasurable activity that takes you away from your ego or your mind. Yes I know this sounds very esoteric or erudite but tantra massage is so much more important than just a bodily response to pleasure.
It is true that we trigger all our pleasure zones or centers during a teasing tantra massage and light touch can be just as healing as a deep sports tissue massage. Never underestimate that a light, sensual stroke can uplift your spirits and heal your heart center in a way that is far more profound than a swedish massage. I recommend that if you are to fully appreciate a light touch you let go of all your prior expectations of what you have heard about tantra.
Some people are under the misconception that tantra is just about the sensual pleasure and the art of Eros; but true tantra is a spiritual journey and a real oasis you can return to often anytime you wish to balance out your body’s desires to be held sacred and your raw sexual energy. I would not go into a tantra ceremony with a long list of goals but focus on the breath and the results you achieve gradually over a few month’s time.
One needs to be patient with their tantra teacher and once you realize that the orgasm is simply a wonderful after affect of the energetic process of sensual awareness you can overcome your sense of fear and your lack of confidence with others.
You approach a tantra massage with an open heart and a willingness to learn more about yourself and your boundaries. If a touch is exceedingly pleasurable this is where you want to stretch out the breath and try and enjoy the sensations without guilt and without judgment. Do not think of having an orgasm. The major goal here is to feel a sense of being out of your body and out of your own mind. Do not think, do not doubt and just let the sensations unfold slowly. When you begin to feel numbness or tingling or warmth that is a good sign that your energy centers are beginning to communicate with each other and your sexual energy is traveling through all the different conduits slowly. Do not be disappointed with yourself if you only feel numbness. Do not worry if nothing seems to be build into the ultimate pinnacle of pleasure. You should relax and breathe in every sensation allowing the energies to flow where they need to be because energy tends to congregate in those areas of your body that needs the most healing.

Tantra is about renewal, regeneration and being fully present in each moment. We need to be patient with ourselves no matter how much or little we feel during a tantra ceremony. It is important to know that our body’s are wise and our body’s have an innate knowledge of what we are ready to experience regardless of whether we are able to achieve orgasm or not.The Mermaid

The Art of Becoming or evolving into a Sacred ♡♥ Intimate ❤

What to you is the true definition of Intimacy? What does the word Sacred mean? I believe that if you infuse an act with love and meaningful intentions that is creating a state of Being holy or Sacred. The word Sacred is used in many religious cults and belief systems. When we call someone or something sacred we immediately create a Silent act of consecrating that person or that belief system with an out of this body experience or Spiritual connotation.

I myself would rather be referred to as a Sacred Intimate rather than a “provider” yet we all use the word “provider” because we are of Service and we can be of use to someone as a service during a time of need. I see myself as a Sacred healer, a shaman, a muse, a confidante and a Guide but I still have human needs and I still possess weaknesses, ego struggles and inner conflict just like every one else on this Earth.

I strive to create a sense of play, sacredness, enthusiasm and Reverence during my daily walks with my dog or errands or healing tantra massage ceremonies. The term ceremony is an act of creating a time out of body experience that establishes boundaries, communication, symbols and intention. I am not just giving a “session” I am giving of myself. I want to infuse our time together with all of my positive energy and connect with you in a way that you feel “touched” and held sacred.

Sometimes it can be a struggle for any two people to connect and form a bond of intimacy. The act of having a conversation is intimate and just as important as sitting in silence, gazing quietly into your partner’s eyes. I allow you to simply be you, in the moment with me. I am offering much more than a deep tissue massage or a few hours of pampering; I am actually offering you the capacity to heal fully and transcend through trauma or pain to full joy.

You can always contract the services of an escort if you crave a bit of touch but you can make a conscious choice to select a Guide with real skills in the healing arts who can offer you not only a bit of companionship but true tools and skills you will learn and be able to integrate with all your future partners and relationships.

A Sacred Intimate wants to see your heart soar and take flight. A Sacred Intimate possesses intuition. She can see clearly into your pain or your craving to be seen and touched. She will cherish you and make you feel free to experience unconditional love for yourself. She is the Empath, the Mother and the Muse who awakens your Spirit and causes you to Question yur identity and current belief systems.

The Sacred Intimate is the Sacred Mother always smiling upon you and allowing you to make choices even if they are poor choices she never judges. The art of Sacred Intimacy involves safe boundaries. You both agree or make a Sacred pact and contract to speak to each other with complete attention and full respect. If anything triggers you or makes you feel unsafe or enraged you delicately request of the Sacred Intimate to stop and speak with you about your feelings as they are occurring. You share your joy, your memories and your fears. You explore these array of feelings with her because you know she will not judge you or the situation. If you feel the need to stop the session midway through you share that with her and you may want to continue at a later date or never again. Again there are no judgements here for as long as you are willing to try and be who you are in your authenticity.

Your agreement to begin your journey is all that your Sacred Intimate requires of you. If you are willing to at least let go of your fears and feel what the energy is like as opposed to just “imagining” what it can be like then that is all that matters. Try new things with your Sacred Intimate. Go outside and explore the city with your Sacred Intimate; you don’t have to be restricted or confined into one activity in an inside area. You are free to explore every sensual aspect of yourself.

I hope you join me this week in Chicago or maybe you might wish to sponsor me in your home city.

Goddess Diana
Sacred Intimate, Muse, Reiki Master, Massage therapist
and Confidante

Couples welcome!
http://www.tantrabutterfly.comDiana Sacred Intimate

How Tantra can change your outlook on life and well being ♬♫

First of all if you are one who always resists change the practice of tantra and allowing a tantra Muse or tantra Guide to work with your intimacy issues or open your chakras will help you release old belief systems. You can hold onto your anger, your grudges, your sadness and your fear but in time your body will be rebel and you will be forced to change whether you are ready for the change or not.

We are in a constant state of flux day to day, second by second and as years go by we release our patterns or find road blocks showing us that if we don’t change our health may suffer or we might lose jobs that we once thought were always stable. If we don’t adjust our outlook and become a bit more creative and flexible we find that opportunities might cease to exist.

The practice of yoga, tantra massage, deep tissue massage and breathing helps us “release” anything in our consciousness that no longer serves us. Have you ever noticed the same body injuries repeating themselves in your life? Repeat illness or injuries are strong signs that you are going to need to change because there is a pattern in your life that you may be overlooking and you might ignoring your psyche.

We evolve each time we have a reiki healing and we can release old energy patterns each time we try something new. If you have never before tried Tantra with your partner I suggest contacting me in the city of Chicago this week because I wish to explore Couples Tantra with Beginners.

Tantra Couples for beginners need only take 90 minutes of your time and one of you will be the recipient of my Conscious touch with breathing instructions and guidelines so that your partner can learn some basic touch and breathing skills that you can practice on each day during your work week. If you can make time out in your lives for this Co creation of Sacred Space you can release all the negative toxins that may be preventing you from learning and growing together in your partnership.

I am here in Chicago and so excited to help you release your fears and help you move onto a better place within yourselves ready and able to change and move forward.

Goddess Diana
Reiki Master, Conduit, Tantra Muse,
Counselor and Couples Tantra Educator
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Paid advertisers watch out for illegal practices by the Eros guide www.erosguide.com

The Eros guide otherwise known as the Adult entertainment industry’s premier source for BDSM, Tantra, Massage, VIP Escorts and Porn stars has decided to Ban me because I decided against being a VIP Advertiser and preferred to keep my services completely legal in nature.

All anyone now has to do is google up http://www.erosguide.com and they will see numerous unhappy advertisers who illegally had their photographs removed by their site and text removed by this hypocritical team of con artists for not complying with their “new standards”.

For God’s sake when I lived in New Orleans for several months I was lucky if my phone rang once a week because no one even heard of the Eros guide or knew how to google http://www.erosguide.com so they had to find me on google first then they found the eros guide.
The eros guide now obviously plays favorites promoting Agencies, Porn stars, Vip escorts and GFE’s but they decided to ban me today even though I agreed to honor their wishes and comply fully with their new publishing standards. Their publishing Standards by the way keeps changing once or twice a month and without warning or reason they will willingly remove paragraphs of texts or pictures that you have uploaded to be a part of their expensive marketing campaign.

The eros guide otherwise known as WWW.erosguide.com now promotes under age web cam girl, porn star actresses and Vip escorts so if you are a massage therapist or tantra yoga teacher the general audience will most likely overlook your ad in favor of a more illegal experience.

I am warning new people NOT to give your money to http://www.erosguide.com because after you pay for your online advertising they will change all the rules on you and remove your ad completely even after you have paid for the advertising and certain pictures will be pulled off their site even if the pictures are perfectly beautiful and legitimate pictures of you. One time http://www.erosguide.com removed a nude picture of me with a rose flower covering my genitals because they said it was a superimposed image over a picture of me and therefore did not meet their standards.

If you go online and google up http://www.erosguide.com you can find plenty of angry advertisers who used legal text and legal pictures who were kicked off the site permanently. I see now that Stormi and Lisa now probably receive kickbacks from paid agencies and little people like me who work for themselves are being weeded out from being able to be a part of their website. Since the Eros guide or http://www.erosguide.com has now gone a much shadier route they are probably not a company anyone should trust. After all why should you trust a company who has to use DARK SIDE PRODUCTIONS as their fake alias or psuedonym? What is the Eros Guide or http://www.erosguide.com trying to hide anyway that you are billed by DARK SIDE PRODUCTIONS AND not their company name?

Be wise choose not to advertise with http://www.erosguide.com. You would be much better served using a google adwords campaign.

Yours
Goddess Diana
of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
no longer a paid advertiser with http://www.erosguide.comDiana jean harlow polar bear

♡♥The Healing Benefits of the Tantra Bathing Ceremony ♥♡

Bathing Ceremonies make any Tantra Ceremony more intense simply because we have time to slow down our heart rate; breathe in the aromas of the bath and be focused on the now.

We all have a tendency to jump ahead of ourselves whether we are planning our activities several hours into the future or deciding what we wish to wear for a party. Life is so much more than looking into our past or prying into our future.

The bath ceremony is serene. We are submerged in still waters, getting used to the temperature of the room air and the temperatures of the water. We look inwards and our bodily sensations are enhanced in this stillness.

I have been spending a total of 15 years in the field of healing whether it was pure reiki, deep tissue massage, sensory awareness healing or hot stone therapy and all modalities bleed into each other.

Each session enhances your body’s ability to heal itself of trauma and allows you to move ahead and into a much better place emotionally.
The bathing ceremony I offer escalates the healing process. You can leave the bath water feeling level headed, more in balance and all the toxicity of the day will leave your spirit body and well as your physical body.

All the ingredients in the bath ceremony are highly purified, organic ingredients made from pure essential oils, sea salts and oils that help pull out your toxins in a gentle but powerful way. Anyone who leaves the ceremonial bath will be able to fully appreciate and receive kundalini shakti and the muscles will be able to soften under my touch.

Please make sure to enjoy my bathing ritual here now that I am visiting St. Louis Missouri. I have been on tour for the past 8 months and it is a treat for me to offer you a decadent and healing bath ritual for two.

When I create Sacred space for two it is with the intention of mutual shared energies so we both benefit and heal combining play and therapeutic touch in a safe environment so you feel fed and cherished.

♡♥St. Louis, Missouri is a new city for me to explore and one by one I hope to meet you in a space of shared tranquility and intimacy ❤♡

♥Goddess Diana♥
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse, confidante, energy healer
and Reiki Master♡
Fully certified to teach Tantra Yoga
to individuals and Couples

I also welcome sponsorship for small group
workshops or individuals who want one to one
training for a full day or a full weekend

For additional questions
contact me 7 days a week
between the hours of 11am
until 11pm
Serious inquiries always
welcomed and Guidance Coaching
and Counseling over the phone
for a small fee♡Roman Baths Oil Painting 1
312-339-7707

♡♥Goddess Diana Visits St. Missouri so hope to meet all of you ♥♡

I have been indulging in road trips ever since October 2nd of last year and NOW I am enjoying my brief journey here in St. Louis, Missouri. I have to be honest here; I have not visited St. Louis, Missouri since I was an eight year old taking a Greyhound bus with my parents from Illinois just to see the Arch. I have never had a reason to explore Missouri up until now because I accepted a gracious ride share offered to me by a very kind man who met with me in New Orleans, Louisiana and had to get back to Missouri. I don’t know how to drive (yet) but I really love road trips and I have been on road trips for a total of 8 months now with my pets.

I am offering tantra massage here in St. Louis, Missouri for the week of May 24th and If anyone wishes to see me for some one on one personalized attention and healing I am here now and I would love to meet anyone who has a burning desire to explore the awakening of their own unique energy.

Tantra can refresh you and rejuvenate you. There is always that chance that any physical pain you have will be released during a tantra healing or at least make you feel much lighter.

The purpose of tantra is to restore balance in your body and to hopefully help you understand that breath is what carries your energy everywhere and help you achieve profound states of bliss.

I can assure you you will feel more centered, more in charge of your own body and more willing to take changes.
There is no doubt you will even enhance your ability to lucid dream.

Please do join me here in St. Louis Missouri

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
St. Louis, Missouri is the SHOW ME state so I’d be honored to show all of you how powerful, how unique, how creative you truly are. Let’s Co create Sacred Space ♥♡Diana-soft-focus-nudes-1

Goddess Worship is the Sacred Act of Pure, unconditional Love ❤♡

Today I’d love to help people understand the difference between raw, naked, passionate lust and true, intimate, compelling love making. Did you know you can make love to your lover without laying a finger on him or her? Did you know the preparation which leads up to the love making shows more care and concern than engaging in a raw, sexual encounter.

Almost all of us can appreciate that as young teenagers or college age adolescents we all had at least one sensual encounter where raw lust rather than love was involved. I feel that women have more of a tendency to give of themselves when they think they are in love and that women must feel safe before engaging in any sexual activity with someone she has chemical feelings for.

There is a difference between raw, impassioned chemistry and the vulnerability of being in love with someone.
When I work with men on Goddess worship my intention is to hopefully teach them how to use their voice, their eyes, their hands and their gentle intentions in a more loving and sensual way to instill a sense of calm, peacefulness and ease in their lover. No one likes being “seized” or hungrily groped during a love making session.

My true intentions are to help alleviate shyness and awkwardness between a man and is lover by teaching him to be less needy and more natural. Women are very sensitive beings and we love to approached with tenderness and not so much a sense of urgency or neediness. When men are too needy and focus on touch only from a place of desperation and lack then women tend to coil up and retreat back into themselves which will only make a man feel even more vulnerable and misunderstood. If a man is patient enough to listen to his lover’s body and get a sense of her body’s reaction to more gentle touches and strokes then his reward will be her yielding and he will feel her soften and invite more touch to the love making session.

Making love is always an art. When you dine out with someone special you want to take time to listen to your friend and you want to be non rushed. You are there for companionship not necessarily to gobble your food down as greedily and speedily as you can with a sense of urgency and impending doom. This is why men wish to learn tantra yoga and goddess worship.

Goddess worship is not BDSM. Goddess worship is the art of being open enough to listen and send loving vibes into the arena of sensual foreplay. You want to learn how to approach your lover with true compassion and not so much a motive or agenda. You are not there to “get her off” or fulfill your lustful needs. You are there to support her as a real woman who has vulnerability. You want to send her soothing sounds and make sure she feels safe in your presence. You should also be prepared for her to lay out a set of strong boundaries for you and if you hear her say she needs some time out from sensual play then you need to honor her wishes and let her feel safe enough to tell you what she needs more of or less of.

The session is about her and not you so please stand back and do not let your “ego” get in the way. Goddess Worship is an honoring of her divine feminine and her gentleness. You want to give her time to expand her heart towards you so that she feels safe and more receptive to your touch. Do not be impatient for instant results and do not make her feel self conscious if she can not have an orgasm in front of you. Orgasm is not the goal of a Goddess worship healing; orgasm is a delightful surprise that happens quite by accident with the main focus being her complete healing and deep feeling of being loved and honored by you.

Lust does not enter as part of the Goddess worship ceremony. Lust is a reaction to pure sexual attraction but if you are a true healer you do not have to be sexually attracted to your partner to heal her. You are there to make her feel safe and more feminine. You are the compassionate soul who loves her without conditions or ulterior motives.

The heart can become more guarded through years of repeated abuse either during the formative years of childhood or young adulthood dependent upon our encounters with the same sex and the opposite sex. Goddess worship helps heal those old wounds and traumas and brings two compassionate lovers closer together. You can share and trust more if you learn the basic healing techniques of Goddess worship and tantra massage.

I love working with men who have had no prior experience in tantra or Goddess worship. It is harder for me to teach men how to touch with love if they are visiting me for the wrong reasons. Tantra will heal you whether you decided to visit a goddess out of pure lust or whether you felt the need to be pampered for a few hours. There is no getting around the healing and you will find out you learn more about patience, empathy and unconditional love if you let yourself go and try to learn something new rather than follow the same old recipe.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Muse, Educator, friend, Holistic Healer,
Couples Coach and Tantra Massage therapist
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