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December 21, 2015 No comments

How to initiate a Traditional Tantra Session with your Partner ❤♥

“Resting Maiden”, probably a portrait of Marie-Louise O’Murphy, mistress to Louis XV of France, oil on canvas, 1751.

Are you up for a true challenge this Christmas? I always am and I am currently visiting Orlando, Florida hiding away from winter snow because I happen to love tropical weather and walking around in my sandals without worrying about wearing a coat. I am always ready for change and a change of scenery.
If you are a couple here in Orlando, Florida and you feel you are a ready to establish a more meaningful connection with your lover I would love to help you facilitate something special this December.
Many people need more play in their life. I realize many of you are Ceo’s and are professional so you are expected to show up at your work place calm, ready for anything and well polished.
Tantra teaches us to be comfortable with being ourselves. You are not expected to be anything or pretend to be someone you are simply expected to be ready to be accepted and loved unconditionally.
We begin the practice of unconditional love by sitting in silence with our partner. You may love the outdoors so maybe you might want to take your lover outside in a private place without distractions and stay seated in front of each other comfortably. You can gaze into your lover’s eyes and the just be present for her or him. You are not allowed to think of anything. Now that is more difficult than it seems. We sometimes think of the past, present and future but during this exercise you are a blank canvass, releasing all concerns and you are going to beam a strobe of complete, unconditional love into your partner’s eyes. You can try practicing this for fifteen minutes initially and then as you get better at it maybe prepare to spend a full 45 minutes just staring and smiling at each other contentedly. You will breathe together, holding hands and in this way all your chakra centers are in complete alignment.
These are exercises that are for couples seeking unity, understanding and an opening of their heart chakra centers.
Many people are confused about the true intention of tantra yoga. Yes you will grow as a couple more intimately and yes you will even crave each other more but this is created from a true heart intention and if you are able to make your partner feel safe and loved without raw, physical contact; just imagine how much more profound your love making ritual will grow once you become more sensitive to who your partner really is. You will be asking very little of each other but the honor of seeing through each other without judgement and without any hurry to go anywhere after the exercise is finished.
I am sure that many couples misconstrue the meaning of learning tantra. There are couples who are impatient and only want to get to the excitement of kama sutra and sexual positions but when they skip over the honoring of one another and deny the slow moving spiritual path of this work they will not reap the healing benefits of transitioning from a physical experience to a spiritual elevation.
I am open to teaching couples in the Orlando, Florida area now that I am here enjoying winter with all of you in this lush, laid back environment. I hope to attract a few couples or singles who have a half day to let go of their normal routines or their opinions of what tantra yoga is and is not.
I am here, present, open and willing to share my knowledge of tantra yoga for private sessions and couples sessions and I hope to connect with you during the week of Christmas. If you have time to grow please contact me this week in Orlando.

November 24, 2015 No comments

Goddess Diana exploring Tantra with students in Orlando Florida

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I have been spending a full week here in Orlando, Florida offering my unique version of tantra yoga and tantra massage. Again I must emphasize how important breathing properly is if you are going to receive the proper energy for any tantra healing and it’s no different here in Orlando, Florida.

The best way to prepare for you first tantra or sensual massage healing in Orlando, Florida is to empty your mind of any expectations. NO two massages are alike and no two tantra therapists will present tantra to you the same way if their following their own inner intuition.

I think if you empty your mind of useless information like gossip amongst clients or videos you watch for personal use you will be better able to be focused on the moment and not worry about how you are performing based on other people’s opinions on what tantra can do for you.

During all my visits to various cities I will encounter various mind sets and I have to realize as hard as it is for me that there are going to be many new students who have no real idea what tantra is and they might have had a tantra session but not known any better about tantra so they think they had a genuine tantra healing when they did not learn the breathing techniques or even the purpose for breathing.

If you are not breathing slowly and deeply during your entire tantra session you are not allowing your body to full relax and surrender. In Orlando, Florida my only goal will be to reach out to a handful of prospective new students who really want to learn how to process energy and recycle their own creative vital forces through their own breath and conscious choice to surrender to the energy.

If we are in constant judgement and expectation we limit our ability to truly be in the moment and tune out. My goal is to work with you so you feel free to experience all the shifts of your energy levels and not be afraid of your own powerful kundalini shakti.

I hope to attract some genuinely excited new students of tantra who are willing to let go of their insecurities and fully express their creative and sensual side with me.

Please join me in Orlando, Florida this week so we can co create sacred space and learn how to harness breath and use our vital energies for creative expansion and creativity ✾
Remember during out time together we are focusing on connection, breath, healing touch and removing your needs for self judgement. I am available as a conduit or vessel for self healing to take place on your time frame. If your body and mind are ready for a transcendent experience I welcome you here in Orlando, Florida to share a bit of energy with me. ✾

Goddess Diana http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

October 7, 2015 No comments

Please don’t judge me based on my career Path!

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I wanted to share this with everyone here today! Sadly the work I do is not always revered or regarded with respect by a majority of people who reside here in the United States or other countries for that matter.
Just two days ago I was victimized on Craigslist because I responded to an ad from a man seeking a “gal friday” in exchange for reduced or no rent and a potential to earn extra money on the side.

I was toying with the idea of spending a month in Miami beach soon and I was hoping to find a nice live in situation where I could work and trade my skills which includes writing and cooking for a place to live.

I innocently responded using my email address butterflyshadows@aol.com and I asked how I could be of use to this man so I could share a space in exchange for work. This man without even responding to my email somehow linked me to my tantra website and started sending me text messages to my cell phone accusing me of being an “unwelcome pet” and he was going to monitor my account and my IP address as a violation of conduct.

So why am I the victim of harassment? Why did he decide that I am unworthy and I am a horrible human being because I teach tantra yoga and because I work with sacred sensuality? Am I committing a crime for wanting to help people and restore balance in someone’s life? Am I a horrible human being because I wanted to offer my skills or my ability to cook and clean and organize someone’s office space?

Instead of people judging first I wonder why people can’t be more civilized and humane and simply call directly on the phone rather than project their fear and their previous bad experiences or “wrongs” onto others. I feel this man had the need to misjudge and victimize me and report my account because he was taken advantage of by someone from his past and he felt the need to judge me and lash out on me because he sent me three angry text messages and said my account was going to be reported and monitored simply because I wanted to have reduced rent and respond to his ad using my real email address.

We have such a long long way to go before sex workers and healers are considered as equal as any other professional in this country. I don’t feel ashamed of who I am or what I represent I just wonder why there is so much ignorance and anger sent towards people in my field.
There seems to be so much misdirected angst and anger and so much healing that needs to be done on our inner psyche.

Why should we project a sense of anger or unworthiness unto anyone without first getting to know that person first? Shouldn’t we be judged by our actions and our conduct first?

June 10, 2015 No comments

Providers Beware Eros guide Scams Paid advertisers !

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Dear Audience,
It is now becoming a popular trend for representatives from http://www.erosguide.com to deactivate older accounts that have been active since 2005 and earlier. I have been a very loyal advertiser for many years and would have liked to have continued my relationship with the eros guide but it seems that the legal department namely TOM of http://www.erosguide.com and Lisa of http://www.erosguide.com has promptly banned my paid account even though I had agreed to let them remove my text from my website explaining what Yoni worship is.

I was deleted and deactivated for now reason today since I agreed to their text changes and I agreed to many things over the years they decided to do to my account.

I copied and pasted another complaint made from an unhappy advertiser who wrote a letter to the legal department and i wish to share this on my blog so others will be warned that http://www.erosguide.com is no longer an appropriate place for anyone from the sex industry to join.

Please read the following:

To the Legal Department and the CEO and President of the Eros-Guide

I am contacting you, because yesterday, April 12th I received a phone call from a supervisor called “Sharon” or “Sharol” I don’t know how she spells her name exactly.
But she is an older lady.
She said that my account has been deleted yesterday, because I put the phrase “15 minutes French” in my ad today. This is a special that I intended to run for 2 weeks.
Yes, this morning as many mornings since 2007 I placed an ad and I did put the phrase “15 minutes French” in the ad indeed.
My attorney and I do agree that that may be interpreted as an ambiguous phrase, but we do not agree that it is a direct expression for sexual language
or an offer for sexual services.
There are already a lot of advertisers out there who had problems with you in the past and I intend to make sure that we join together to file a class action suit followed by creating an another website to put our ads. We need to ask the court dissolve Darkside Productions.

As it is I am from Europe, lived in France and learned French in Paris through a language program, “15 minutes French”, which I also attached to the e-mail I sent to Eros-Guide yesterday.
And the language CD can be processed here:

Here is a sample of the CD.program:

The expression”15 minutes French” is very broad and indeed can be misunderstood.
However for me and other people who took this language program it comes naturally and by no means is interpreted as anything sexual.
In fact if the supervisor never studied or gave French lessons, she might be out of practice and we highly suggest her to start with this language program, 15 minutes at time.
It can do wanders and it may save her job. She only has a job, because of the French lessons that I and other of your clients distribute to your distribution chanel,
http://www.eros-guide.com

I would like to politely ask the Eros Guide to give us 24 hours to edit my ad.
That is to put back my account today and give us by tomorrow say 5pm, to edit the ad in an acceptable form. Then, your supervisors can revise the ad to make sure that does not violate your guide lines and if does not, I would like to see my ad up in Eros-NY section by midnight today, April 13th.
I understand that Eros-guide revises the ads before final submission, so if yesterday the supervisor who is mentioned above saw the expression she should of send me an e-mail or a phone call and warn me about it and give me some time to edit my ad before she made that decision to have my account suspended. I believe that Eros Guide owes me with that favor.
As a 4 year client and at least a 2 year prospective client you are still about to receive a lot of income from me, even if I only choose to spend $300 a month on your website, but most months I spend more. As a loyal client, I expected to get a phone call saying that I have 24 hours to edit my ad and took out the ambiguous expressions, or my account will be suspended. I believe it was very unethical to suspend my account without warning.

That being said I have a message for the president and CEO of the Eros-Guide
If you have supervisors like this old jaded lady, who suspends an account of an account holder, who was a costumer since 2006 and intend to be a costumer for a few more years, you might be loosing a lot of business. And I have friends who advertised on Eros Guide and their account has been suspended without warning.
So it might be a lucrative idea to replenish your staff with people who are helping you bringing in more business as oppose to reduce existing cash flow.
We all know that all your employees are there for the mercy of our business. If there is not enough business you cannot afford to hire these individuals and if this economy they would be starving or remain unemployed.

And I also have a message for the supervisor who deleted my account today;
“You only have a job because of the mercy of my and other Eros Guide advertisers French lessons. If not for us you will be unemployed. You are only there because of us.
You are at the mercy of our cash flow and if you suspend clients account we need to take our business somewhere else. That doesn’t only put your livelihood in danger, but it also put the livelihood of your boss in danger, which of course puts the entire stuff’s livelihood in danger.

Sincerely yours,
Ivanka Carrington

June 10, 2015 No comments

Parting ways with The Eros guide

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Dear Audience,
A few months ago I noticed a drastic change on the Eros Guide and mostly the quality of calls I received were now a lot more inappropriate due to a change of template style and a new woman that had been assigned to my Eros Account.
A new marketing representative by the name of Lisa had been assigned to go over my account and she would literally call me multiple times during my work week mentioning the Premier Services Section and how it would benefit my Ad campaign if I chose to offer ILLEGAL SERVICES namely Vip Escort and GFE. Lisa would ask me if I was satisfied with the changes the Eros guide was making and she invited me to share commentary. When I was brutally honest and calmly told her the site was wonderful when they were more streamlined Lisa would get irrationally upset with me and PUNISH me for sharing my viewpoint.
I would always receive a nasty call the next day from one of the Eros guide Representatives whether it was Tim from the Legal department or Stormi who is in charge of marketing and Sales.

They would delete text from my ads which included the word Yoni. I mean the word YONI based on Sanskrit simply means birthplace or womb. Yoni is a sacred word and to me Yoni means flower. The eros guide basically called me up yesterday when I was having a bad day. Lisa was quite rude to me as I was waiting to visit a doctor and I was in the middle of a medical emergency. The eros guide should be ashamed of itself. They now victimize women in my industry and because I chose to use the word YONI Worship which in Tantra means HONORING THE DIVINE FEMININE AND HONORING THE GODDESS IN ALL OF US I have had my account deactivated completely even though I was an advertiser for over 15 years.

The Eros guide now only wishes to promote Cam girls and GFE and VIP Escorts but because I chose to keep my ads pure and only stay within the bounds of True authentic Tantra healing energy work and True Massage related services Lisa chose to harass me for the past 7 months constantly barraging me with inane requests to change certain “words” that she deemed inappropriate or illegal. They even removed a text that stated that I would be able to train men to sustain full arousal and full body waves of energetic bliss using a technique known as Edge play. Now everyone that uses the Eros Guide knows Edge play is a word known in the field and is perfectly acceptable and legal with no sexual connotations.

When I recently looked up the Eros guide online I also noticed they received a number of major complaints from people in my industry who were also very displeased with services rendered from the Eros guide. If you take the time to look up THE RIP OFF REPORT you will see many providers of healing services similar to mine have been ripped off by the eros guide having paid good money to the Eros guide only to have beautiful text removed and pictures removed from off their site or advertising removed completely even though the advertising was paid for in full.

I suppose I am deeply grateful that after all these years I have been penalized now by the Eros guide because I chose to be true to myself and not wish to become a CAM GIRL or a GFE OR an ESCORT OR shall we say A PIECE OF MEAT.

The Eros guide has changed their advertising tactics and is now appealing to a completely different audience mostly men seeking BDSM or PROSTITUTION RELATED SERVICES. I won’t be sorry if the FEDS choose to shut down the eros guide permanently for insinuating illegal services online so real hard core PORN QUEENS are allowed to post but not real healers. The energetic vibration of the Eros Guide has now been lowered to a much lower vibration and a much shadier audience of men who are seeking a quick fix. Everyone knows that GFE means unprotected sex. The literal term of GFE according to Lisa of the Eros guide means she is going to pretend she is your girlfriend but everyone in the sex industry can google up the catch phrase GFE and understand that literally and technically GFE means french kissing which leads to herpes simplex II, unprotected sex which means you are not using a condom and GFE also implies oral sex which of course leads to a host of diseases like syphillis not to mention other sexually transmitted diseases.

If Lisa is implying that someone like me who really wants to promote whole body health is simply not legitimate then I wish to post on my blog for all to read that Tim from the Legal department banned me from every advertising my massage services and my tantra healing ceremonies because I chose not to be part of their VIP ESCORT SECTION. I once made the mistake of purchasing their VIP program and Lisa harassed me with upgrades trying to get me to purchase premium services, banners and other wasteful services that truly never made my phone ring ever because they have shortened the text on their templates and they have certain words banned on their site so the viewer is completely confused about what is offered.

Today they deactivated my Tantra and Massage account because yesterday during a tape recorded conversation with Lisa I mentioned to her that I am a true tantra teacher. I love teaching men how to honor and worship the Goddess and that YONI is a perfectly beautiful word to use. I stuck to my guns. I told her I am not offering sex to any of my clients nor do I wish to offer sexual intercourse but I prefer the sacred art of sustaining my energy and practicing celibacy keeps me emotionally balanced and better able to receive my new guests with a happier frame of mind.

My experiences with the Eros Guide these past two years has been very combative, humiliating and a true waste of my time, energy and money. They have constantly changed their template and changed their service to strictly online interaction. Each time they asked me for feedback I told them the truth and I stated their original template and design brought me the most work from the most desirable group of people. Now it appears backpages is the new source for anyone to find out about my services. I even asked other women in my field if they were still receiving calls using the Eros guide and they were quite honest with me and said since Eros has changed its template and standards and changed its content they are lucky receive 3 inquiries a week. I noticed that most of my calls from people on backpages or google search engines but no longer from the Eros guide. I even asked clients from New Orleans how they found me and they told me they had never heard of the eros guide. I asked a client of mine from St. Louis if he even uses the Eros guide and he said he found the women to be a bit overpriced and nasty to him on the phone so he stopped searching for women from the Eros guide since the Quality of women who advertise their has gone down too.

I even notice that AGENCIES posing as independent contractors such as THE KEY NAME penelope Waters is now posing as an independent contract so not only is Eros guide now playing favorites to Agencies they are now excluding small private tantra educators from using their site to promote their legal services. It appears to me that Lisa is now formally playing favorites and promoting professional agencies, professional GFE’s and professional prostitutes on their site and now getting ride of trained massage therapists and trained Tantra educators.

If you go online and view the women who are currently on the Eros guide they will even show you their TER id’s. Everyone who is a professional hobbyist knows that TER stands for The erotic review. The erotic review board is a place where hobbyists can rate and review their experiences with a professional porn star and with a GFE or a Prostitute. I am not prejudiced against the industry but I am stating a fact that because the Eros guide chooses of their own free will to ban someone like me yet promote porn stars who include their TER reviews I am going to assume I no longer fit into the mold that the Eros guide is now leaning towards.

It appears to me that if you are a VIP escort, GFE, professional BDSM or Madame you are going to be welcomed into their fold and allowed to post your services online for all to see but if you are a trained professional like me with over 16 years of experience with tantra yoga training and massage you might be banned from being included into their new “look.”

I was penalized today by Lisa and Tim from the Legal department of the Eros guide because I was upset that they decided to remove two beautiful sentences delineating Yoni worship.
I am no longer allowed to advertise with the Eros guide because I chose to defend myself and use the word Yoni.

Yours Goddess Diana of
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

February 1, 2015 No comments

The simple steps that keep you fully present for your Tantra partner ❤

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I am going to make this simple for all of you to digest. Here is the ideal way to be completely in tune with your partner or your teacher.

The easiest thing one can do is get adequate rest. Yes rest and do not drink alcohol or smoke pot before you decide you want to engage with your partner. Don’t cheat yourself and don’t fool yourself into believing that alcoholic beverages or any type of drug will put you in the right frame of mind for relaxation therapy.

Any drug you take places you at the risk of not only “deadening” and numbing out your energy but being “out of it”. You want to be completely awake but calm before you decide to touch your partner or work with your tantra teacher.

Drugs distance us from energy and distance us from being able to really read and interpret body language. We don’t want interference or “distortion” to block us from being able to really be present for our partners so my advice is you stay alert but calm and speak in hushed tones but use clear inflection when communicating with your tantra partner.

There are going to be times where there is complete silence. Don’t be afraid of the silence instead connect with your partner’s breathing patterns and when you place your hands over your partner’s stomach be mindful not to place too much pressure on their body you simply want to “support” their breathing by being very gentle on their inhalation and then using gentle pressure as they exhale.

Be ready for constructive criticism and encourage the input and feedback. Make your partner feel safe enough to engage in complete communication without them fearing you will judge then or be upset. This is your shared session and this is a joint venture for both of you to get to know each other during a state of connection and trance.

Tantra yoga is a gentle balance of energy healing, deep breathing, concentrated touch and intention. Before the session even begins you may decide you wish to state your intentions verbally and then you may wish to engage in eye contact for a full fifteen minute period just so you both feel comfortable with each other and acknowledge each other fully.

Being present is so simple. Blank out your mind while you are in session. Healing means we leave our worries behind. In order to truly heal and create opportunities for shared growth you need to let go of expectations and disappointments. Don’t worry about work …keep your phone shut off and make sure your clock is off. Don’t be concerned if the session runs over the deadline. You want to make sure your partner knows how very important THEY ARE and you don’t want to rush them into relaxation or keep a time clock on.

Time is a valuable commodity and you sharing your time and energy and focus is the most healing transference of love you can exchange.

January 12, 2015 No comments

Tantra opens the Heart Chakra and Yoni empowerment opens the heart wider

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Many people are fascinated by the mystique of the feminine awakening and the power of yoni massage. Half the men who call me are curious and wish to learn some secrets so that their partner will feel more enlivened by her own sexuality. My opinion is you simply can not force your partner into a sexual orgasm but you can envision her as a more whole Goddess able to receive and be awakened by your healing touch. Only 1/4 of the people who do call me are women and maybe only five of those women will want to explore their energy and feel safe enough to have a yoni Goddess massage.

I will never encourage a couple to learn tantra yoni massage unless both partners are excited about the healing prospects of yoni empowerment. During a tantra ceremony or yoni healing the focus is on empowerment, trust, healing trapped trauma and sending unconditional love vibrations to the pelvic cradle and genitalia.

There is nothing “filthy”, unwholesome, naughty or salacious about a yoni empowerment and if a man is practice yoni healing using my body as a model the focus is on my pleasure or my healing and not the excitement level of the student working with my energy. Many women will distrust or pull away from her partner if she is not feeling safe, respected or loved. We are not pieces or body parts, we are not masturbatory objects we are Goddesses each one of us resonating and flowering under the right partner. If you can’t accept your partner has feelings and deserves to receive pleasure just by the mere fact that she is worthy of your respect and love then something is wrong with the way you perceive women and the sacred act of tantra massage and intimacy.

Yoni healing, tantra massage, lingham honoring and Goddess honoring involve intimacy, patience, sincerity and a willingness to keep an open mind. Boundaries play a very important role in yoni worship because if at any time your touch is too intense or uncomfortable you must let your ego go and really listen to what your Goddess is telling you. There is nothing wrong in receiving important feedback that might help you and your partner bond better.

Tantra yoni empowerment involves empowering her divine feminine essence which is called Shakti. When shakti is awakened her life force is channeled starting at her tail bone which is called the Kundalini Shakti and this powerful energetic surge allows her to feel more erotic and less judgmental of herself. This blissful state can awaken and charge up all the chakras in her body making her more sensually aware, possibly be more intuitive and see colors more brightly and actually make her feel more positive about being here in the physical body. We gain higher Consciousness when we tap into our untapped sensual energies.
Sensuality is not sinful it’s healing and makes you want to create more beauty in this world.
Along with the feelings of pleasure and expansion there can also be feelings of unworthiness or vulnerability. Everyone carries their own energies and memories to the work we do. One person might be aware of stored trauma so suddenly it is overwhelming and they might need to stop having you work on their yoni just to remember something. We trigger stored memories in our cells each time we have any kind of energy work done so be respectful and mindful when your partner needs to simply stop. Never take it personally just let your partner verbalize what they need to express in the moment and be full accepting and present so they feel safe sharing with you.

Now that you understand why men and women want to learn tantra yoni healing you may want to work with someone you trust. Straight on sexual intercourse has its own special place but if you want to delve into the realm of breaking through real barriers and making progress you should focus on yoni massage and from someone preferably with a background in healing and tantra yoga.

Only a trained certified tantra teacher knows how to hold sacred space and connect intimately with Shakti energy. If you can be fully receptive and allow your body the chance to be explored you will find out what makes you feel juicy inside or what makes you feel unsafe. We can clear out trauma and any negative triggers we might have stored over a lifetime of having our partners NOT listen to us. When we empower the yoni we have greater access to the Sacred Spot and the Sacred Spot or G-spot massage is the strongest area of the vagina that holds our trauma imprints and our pleasure zones. Not every woman is capable of feeling orgasm so easily because if you have been in unfulfilled relationships you might not even realize what an orgasm is. There are people who don’t even feel comfortable exploring their own bodies during the act of self pleasuring because they were taught to feel ashamed of their sexuality. When we empower the Yoni we free her of all negative power trips and we realize all guilt and fear. It might take one session or it might take several mini sessions built up over an extended period but eventually a profound healing and clearing does take place and the Goddess is able to blossom.

We are all Goddesses the Carriers of the Divine blessing and we create life within us. Breathing is self affirming. Each time we take in a deep breath of air we tell our bodies we are so worthy of this breath and this healing. We breathe in deeply each time we process our sacred sexual pleasure. We breathe this awareness into our lungs our heart chakras as if to say we are HERE in the NOW. We deserve to be honored, we deserve this pleasure and we deserve to have love in our lives. A trained Dakini or Daka (male tantra yoga practioner) is trained to hold sacred space and advise his or hers student to keep breathing slowly and deeply as the yoni is being honored and massaged. Each time we breathe deeply we reaffirm that we EXIST. We are important. We do matter. We are Being SEEN!
THERE is nothing more powerful than breath, laughter, healing touch and pleasure. Pleasure in and of itself is the most powerful Medicine we can find better than any prescription drug on the market.

When you have access to all your chakras through breath, sexual awareness and self love there is nothing you can’t do or CREATE. Just look around you. The world we live in is multidimensional rich in beauty, rich in smells, raw and gentle all at the same time. When we empower our Yonis we tap into our inner Strength and our Inner Goddess.

Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

January 9, 2015 No comments

Are you following your passion?

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Hello I can’t help but waking up feeling positive about life even though at times I wonder where I am headed! I try and make every city I visit my home so for right now while I am here in New Orleans, Louisiana I am considering this my home even if I leave in a month or two.
I don’t start every tantra session the same. Sometimes I feel someone might be so open we just sit in front of each other with our foreheads touching and breathing circular breaths together just so we can slow down and get a sense of being ONE person instead of two separate beings. I don’t always get that clear signal from someone and if so just a wonderful deep tissue massage starting with the shoulders and neck can be comforting enough for anyone to let down their guard.

Sometimes a couple will hire me or rather a really caring husband with wonderful intentions will want me to come over and work on his wife’s energy but we always have to respect the fact that the yoni must be healed only when the Goddess in question is safe, comfortable and ready to learn.

So I have a question for you! Are you living your passion? Most people who are passionate about the work they do thrive when it comes to relaxing and extra curricular activities because they have already possessed skills and enthusiasm in their day to day ritual. I find that most men or women who are in their complete power are very comfortable working with their sexual energy and most of the time they want their husband and wife to participate more in life which includes tantra massage and tantra sex.

I can instantly detect when a man or a woman is comfortable sharing their sexuality with me and they want a “tune Up”. We can learn from being in any situation and we can always get better at a skill when we possess PASSION. I am passionate. I wake up and remember all my dreams and share it with people on my face book page because I do want to learn and I do want to process anything negative or positive from my past and present.

If I am fully aware of what I need to learn I can be more present for you. Some people can try and relax and be present but they find it a deep challenge. Some people are embarrassed to express their needs even to someone they deeply love. Some people are afraid to give up the control and relax so they might smoke, drink, fidget, constantly check their cell phones for messages and pretty do anything BUT connect with their friends, their healer, or their close family members. This is cheating everyone. It’s cheating yourself if you avoid the NOW.

Being full present and accepting who you are NOW and trying new things without any sense of fear or judgement is a challenge but a challenge that is very important for you to achieve and meet head on.

Avoidance of being in the NOW is crippling. It’s like you are separating yourself and fragmenting yourself so every one if your life is only receiving and understanding a small part of you.

Tantra massage addresses the organic you, the sensuous you, the timid you, the ornery you, the relaxed you, the authentic you! When you receive a tantra healing it’s similar to peeling the skin off an apple. In order to get to the sweet, juicy meat of the fruit you have to be patient and peel away that tender outer skin that outer shell of you.

I hope to meet you where ever you are on your journey and maybe it will take a few more months or a few more years. The journey is about being Passionate and Accepting yourself and accepting unconditional love and healing touch from your partner no matter what you look like and no matter what your goals are.

November 23, 2014 No comments

Tantra and Traveling and Escaping out of yourself ♬♫♪

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Hello everyone! Well since I left the city of Chicago October 1st I have been offering tantra in New York city, Boston, Cambridge Ma, and NOW I am in Indianapolis, Indiana on my way to head over to New Orleans, Louisiana. Life is about Journeying and having fun! How on earth will we ever meet new people unless we venture out of our comfort zones anyway?
I have been setting up sacred space, introducing new guests to tantra and enjoying new sights with my pets since October 1st. I am not a fan of winter so it was my personal decision to choose New Orleans, Louisiana to spend the winter season and hopefully get reintroduced to the culture there since I love historical architecture and the slower paced lifestyle of the South in general.
Boston was wonderful. I met so many kind and creative people in Boston and I do not regret venturing out of Chicago for these experiences. I do get scared when I leave Chicago since Chicago is what I KNOW and I have lived most of my younger life and adult life in the city without ever relying on a car. However I like to shake things up in my life and it gives me such a thrill to live on the edge like this.
Tantra is about taking chances and exploration. What defines YOU? Do you define yourself by your ability to make good friends or are you more of an Isolationist and you like to get things done for yourself without relying on others?
Tantra is a bit of both. Tantra explores WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU DEFINE YOURSELF! We grow as we explore our sensual nature. What ever it is that you are good at Tantra will improve the flow of your life because you learn to breathe and when you breathe you activate NOT just your sexual energy but you activate your intuition.
I can’t say everyone feels something the first time they see me for a session but most people who are sensitive to touch and energy will shift layers only on ONE session. I breathe and chant with my dog daily and I practice pranayama daily so when we concentrate on the the breath we are focusing on the present .
It is a challenge for everyone these days just to live in the moment. Sometimes people have a tendency to be on a very tight schedule when they see me. They might have to pick up a child at violin or soccer practice. Their phone might be left on just in case their partner has an emergency. I wish people could just let a little bit more when they see me. My sessions are reasonably priced but the information and experiences that can be experienced is profound if you can LET GO of all external influences, worries and thoughts.
Tantra YOGA is after all YOGA. This is not some random silly excuse to a sensual flirt or tease this is actual CONCRETE healing profound energy work and I want everyone to get the most out of our time together.
It’s not fair to you and it’s not fair to me to keep a cell phone on. You deserve a treat.
Tantra massage and Tantra Yoga are healing tools. I heal myself profoundly each time I give a session. Yes I might go through states of worry, anxiety and panic during the day but this is a normal progression when you are reaching to Bliss. Tantra massage and Tantra YOGA are bliss explorations. You Test YOURSELF. You keep pushing your comfort level on what you might wish to learn and explore. You learn more about yourself. You learn how to touch someone with true intention.
Some clients who visited me for Goddess Worship were under the false assumption that this work is easy. NO it’s not easy. You are going to learn how to breathe maybe for the first time in your life. You are going to learn how to breathe, slow down your pace with you r lover, touch with heart intention and honor your beloved. Goddess worship is about making your lover feel so special she is empowered and energy is released in a very positive flow that makes both of you feel more trust and relaxation. There is a shared glow, a shared trust, a shared love and devotion that follows.
I am here in the moment enjoying my 2 day stay here in Indianapolis and I intend to attract the right people who might appreciate me. If I don’t attract the right people then simply it was not meant to be but trust me I learned something anyway. This is the first time I drove in a car with a complete stranger who became a really good friend to me and my pets. Tyler picked me up in Boston just two days ago and he fit me, my belongings, my pets and pet food in his tiny mini cooper. He writes an online blog that involves his own personal journey and he is also a great web designer. Both of us were excited to travel on this journey together that will eventually end in New Orleans. We are both staying with his friends Bre and Leslie in Indianapolis and I have had so much fun laughing, getting a bit of work and simply walking my dog in a new neighborhood.
I have lead a Tantra lifestyle ever since I knew how to talk. What is Tantra to you? Tantra is energy it’s not some cute catch phrase for sexual awareness it is YOU. We have one life we have many lifetimes to uncover what we need and want. Just shake off your fears and be in the moment.
I intend to relish every moment. My intention for you is that you let go of your fears and be prepared to experience tingling, joy, shaking, fear, panic the whole gamut of who you are.
I hope I meet you where ever you are in your life. And I hope I continue to travel for many years to come and be in this field that brings me so much joy and challenges.
Goddess Diana
http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
312-339-7707
I even offer personalized phone readings if you can’t see me in person. Enjoy your life. Spend your days wisely and travel more. Travel outside. Try tantra yoga once and take a break from it for a while but I bet you when you reach out and try tantra again it will carry a different meaning for you.

September 7, 2014 1 Comment

Charging up your chakras with Tantra ❀

goddessdianatantrabutterfly

The primary focus of Tantra yoga should be enjoyment and pure energetic healing! Do not worry if you are a novice or if you have not felt sexual energy in ages. The goal should be healing, bodily awakenings, awareness of your own energy and the opening up of your entire Chakra bodies.
At the beginning of most tantra ceremonies you can either begin staring into the eyes of your partner or offering your special guest a healing and deep tissue massage to simply relax the body and establish a state of mutual trust and bonding.

I use an everything but the kitchen sink approach to my tantra healings because the chakras respond to smell, breath, touch, crystals, sound and pulsation exercises.

At the bottom of our tailbone is our Kundalini shakti our seat of bliss so we want to breathe awareness into our tail bone area and constantly apply gentle and rhythmical pressure so that we are consciously activating our kundalini shakti. Once we gently awaken our kundalini we want to guide the energy upwards by a constant flow of slow breath and visualization. It’s wise to be very gentle and patient during any beginner’s tantra session and if your partner is exhausted or sensing panic talk through the pain or the exhaustion. We have bodily “memories” that we have stored over a number of years so as we evolve and experience blissful states or pleasure we are also aware of any “blockages” we might have ignored just to “survive”.

The act of breathing or rebirth breath allows you to introduce oxygen back to all your cells and you begin to use your diaphragm muscles properly and with intention so the breath might not seem easy or natural to you at first but once you practice by yourself every day you begin to experience gentle activation of your kundalina shakti in your sleep. The vibrations are very pleasant and you might here a soft buzzing sound and warmth traveling from your tail bone and all the way up slowly towards your neck. You will actually feel this warmth and electricity in each of your vertebrae if you are practicing the breath and kegel exercises in increments. Be aware of your body and how you feel as if you are astral projecting but you still feel “safe”.

If after your first tantra session you are confused never be afraid to research more information by reading books or seeking the help of a trained tantra yoga educator or professional. If you felt embarrassed or ashamed let your teacher or therapist or lover know what you are going through so you can process the experience and understand yourself more.

Tantra involves opening up your entire body to the experience of bliss. We are not necessarily going after an end result of orgasm rather we are teaching you how to be more grateful and more open so you can feel pleasure more profoundly and use your sexual energies to heal and open up all the chakra systems in your body.

I love using music, singing, crystals, laughter, shamanism and breath during my sessions but there are many unique paths to bliss just as long as you are patient with yourself and open about your goals. Expectation can get in the way of your own bliss. Have a goal set into place but be truly willing to let of of your angst if you do not see that goal come to its fruition immediately. Sometimes we might have lofty goals but our bodies might not be physically evolved or capable enough to receive intense energy if we have not explored certain aspects of our sacred sexuality.

Be patient with yourself. Be patient, open and loving with your partner and teacher and you will find that the opening up of kundalini shakti will be an exploration of your emotional and physical development so you can attain the level of freedom and bliss you deserve.